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re: Lack of Marriage affection and sex

Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:57 pm to
Posted by X123F45
Dictated not Read
Member since Apr 2015
30048 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:57 pm to
quote:

Sex gets stale after you've been married awhile. I don't really know a way around it.



See how far you can shove your tongue into her arse
Posted by Triple Bogey
19th Green
Member since May 2017
6859 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:58 pm to
Y'all need to quit marrying them uptight christian girls.
Posted by maxxrajun70
baton rouge
Member since Oct 2011
3726 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:58 pm to
I’m pretty sure I wouldn’t bang you either
Posted by beachdude
FL
Member since Nov 2008
6628 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 9:02 pm to
I am sure that it has been mentioned in more than one reply by now that the original post is for the most part gibberish.
Posted by Seldom Seen
Member since Feb 2016
48737 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 9:05 pm to
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and a choir to her it seem. Dont want to go the cheating route.




Might as well sounds like she's cheating on you.
Posted by Beessnax
Member since Nov 2015
11483 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 9:06 pm to
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So do most live this way miserable or walk out on the marriage for that reason alone


Relationships change and you have to accept certain things of you want to stay together. This is normal. I am very happy and we don't have alot of affection. Still have sex twice a week, but not the lovey dovey crap that we did in our 20s.

I don't think what you have described is a reason to leave, especially if children are involved. Talk to her, be honest with they way that you feel. You have developed resentment, and that sucks all of the intimacy out of the relationship. Work through it, negotiate with her.
Posted by jdeval1
Member since Dec 2009
7525 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 9:07 pm to
quote:

 Still have sex twice a week, but not the lovey dovey crap that we did in our 20s. 

Do y'all have appointments on your calendar?
Posted by BigPerm30
Member since Aug 2011
32446 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 9:12 pm to
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I am sure that it has been mentioned in more than one reply by now that the original post is for the most part gibberish.


Acknowledging your unoriginal post is original.
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
33916 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 9:14 pm to
Husband: hey Baby, u ready for sex at 10?
Wife: I have another appointment, can we just postpone til the following appointment?
Husband: frick I’m going to post on TD
Posted by bigrob385series
B. Aura
Member since May 2014
2636 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 9:17 pm to
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If your favorite food is lasagna and you had to eat it 3 days per week you'd get tired of it eventually. 
yeah but go weeks even a month without it because of medical reasons or childbirth,when you finally eat it it'll be the best fricking lasagna you've ever had.
Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
Member since Jul 2009
56593 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 9:22 pm to
Is every Saturday at 2pm the wrong answer?
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
47776 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 9:23 pm to
If she liked it, sex would not be a chore. Change the routine and beat the brakes off of it. Stop treating it like it is a Faberge' egg and you forgot to pay the insurance.

Thank me later.
Posted by keakar
Member since Jan 2017
30152 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 9:25 pm to
women dont stop having sex or wanting sex, no matter what you wish to believe, she is 100% getting it from another guy, unless she is rotund (300lbs), she is getting it elsewhere
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
70143 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 9:31 pm to
My sex drive has dropped but i also have a toddler and going to school full time

This post was edited on 12/14/17 at 9:37 pm
Posted by bigrob385series
B. Aura
Member since May 2014
2636 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 9:32 pm to
You know jack shite about women 100%
Posted by SuddenJerk
Member since Oct 2017
761 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 9:34 pm to
Meh I say it’s natural. I’ve been with the same woman for over 20 years and have 4 kids, we’re both over weight. I’d rather pull one out real quick in the bathroom and eat a bowl of ice cream.
Posted by Wildcat In Germany
Metro Atlanta
Member since May 2017
3094 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 9:37 pm to
Most don't live that way.

If you're married, you should be able to talk about sex. If you're not capable of talking about it, you may not b ready, or capable, or being in a marriage.
Posted by jdeval1
Member since Dec 2009
7525 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 9:37 pm to
quote:

I’ve been with the same woman for over 20 years and have 4 kids, we’re both over weight. I’d rather pull one out real quick in the bathroom and eat a bowl of ice cream.


I'm not there with you but I think a lot of these responses are coming from 20 somethings that have been married for 2 years or don't have kids
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 9:40 pm to
quote:

Suddenjerk
quote:

Quick one in the bathroom
checks out
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11638 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 9:42 pm to
I’m sorry you’re in this situation (and hope your hangover isn’t too rough tomorrow).

I was in that situation. I got divorced. It wasn’t the sole or main reason, but it was a major part. Everyone wants to feel wanted and affection from a partner.
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