re: Lack of Marriage affection and sex

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I thought she was in prison or rehab?

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She did 15 days in a Texas jail

Tells ya what kind of dumbass she is

Did she come back from women's prison with a quality want?

You have ZERO clue what being married is all about........

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I'm the male and want affection from my wife (you know like you see from new couples or publicly affectionate couples out dating and you say to yourself he's smashing that like crazy). I like to feel wanted by her. It's not totally about the sex act which is sparing to my standards. Also it seems like a chore to her. I don't want to go the cheating route. So do most live this miserable life and pretend to like being married or do they walk out on the marriage for greener pastures. FYI married 14 years, no kids, and we date a lot!

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You ain’t seen nothin’ yet. Wait till she hits menopause.

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Sex gets stale after you've been married awhile. I don't really know a way around it


This is not true. It's way better now than in our 20's (40 and 42 married 21yrs) and way more frequent.

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Like I said in the last weekly miserable marriage thread, these threads really make me appreciate my marriage and my wife.

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Do tell

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There was a post a while back, she got a dui, wrecked car, and caused injury to the person she hit and would not stop drinking. Judge suspended her license and gave her an in home breathalyzer and she kept having fails so he locked her arse up.

She's been a lot better since but I'd still like to put my foot in her arse, that shite cost "me" about $10,000 so far.

If we didn't have a kid she would be long gone

Been married for 13 years, been together for 18 years. Of course, my mind think I can frick every day, but my body says otherwise. I have the peptides, and they work. I came home from work yesterday and got a BJ. During the BJ, I said let me stick it in, but she kept going until I finished. After it got hard again, she rode it until I finished nut #2. Woke up this morning and was hitting it all over the room.
We both work and wake up at 5 am. Between work, school, kids and other duties as assigned, we are pretty busy. I don’t get it every time I ask, but she does make up for it without me having to nag.
ETA: OP, Eat more pussy.

I had a wife who was emotionally aloof. I put up with it for years and our last fight was actually over that. She was living a pretty comfortable life, sitting on her arse, worked a part time job for peanuts which resulted in my having to work more in order to keep the finances stable. She did nothing towards house upkeep, and I frequently found myself cooking the kids dinner after I got in late. She decided one day that she wanted a different life and left the kids, dog, and me and went for it. Honestly, I should have seen it early on as her family was also somewhat emotionally cold. They really didn't know how to love and didn't teach their kids since they had no clue. In some ways, those 27 years were a waste. However, I did get two great kids out of the marriage, who I finished raising on my own, and they turned out quite well as adults. Both have very healthy marriages, so something good come out of it. I am going to try to restart my social life when I retire in a year and a half. I have tried the on-line sites and have met so many fricked up women that I got sick of it. Got laid with a few of them, but if they were in my house, the money and valuables were locked up, and after one not so good experience, I started keep a gun hidden but within easy reach on my side of the bed - just in case.

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treat her the way you did when you were dating her , and she'll do likewise.

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