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re: Lack of Marriage affection and sex

Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:40 pm to
Posted by jdeval1
Member since Dec 2009
7525 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:40 pm to
How long have you been married?
Posted by HoustonGumbeauxGuy
Member since Jul 2011
33755 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:41 pm to
Posted by crazyLSUstudent
391 miles away from Tiger Stadium
Member since Mar 2012
6207 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:41 pm to
Can we rename the O-T lounge to marriage counsel lounge?
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138865 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:42 pm to
Yellowfin figured this topic out some time ago

Just calmly tell your wife, "I'm having sex tonight. Whether you're involved or not is solely up to you."
Posted by CelticDog
Member since Apr 2015
42867 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:42 pm to
Go to counsel.

Be sober.

Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
135054 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:42 pm to
quote:

I'm the male and want affection like to feel wanted by the spouse along with the sex and not all ways sex which is sparing to my standards and a choir to her it seem. Dont want to go the cheating route. So do most live this way miserable or walk out on the marriage for that reason alone


I was in your shoes. Turned out she was cheating.
Posted by BigPerm30
Member since Aug 2011
32446 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:42 pm to
quote:

Have you sat down and had an honest discussion with your wife about this?


Based the post, I doubt his communication skills are any good.
Posted by CamdenTiger
Member since Aug 2009
66037 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:42 pm to
How long have you been married? If it’s just a few years, get out now...
This post was edited on 12/14/17 at 8:44 pm
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19185 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:43 pm to
I’d rather her be involved, im no bill Cosby
Posted by Bard
Definitely NOT an admin
Member since Oct 2008
60303 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:43 pm to
quote:

I'm the male and want affection like to feel wanted by the spouse along with the sex and not all ways sex which


Talk to her. Reassure her that you love her but this is what you're needing (and for God's sake don't put it in an "or else" kind of fashion). After that conversation happens, ask her what she needs.

One of the biggest issues I've seen from friends that have divorced is their inability to just talk to each other without feeling the need to "win" the conversation or without feeling attacked.

If this doesn't work, try a counselor.

Good luck.
Posted by Breesus
Unplug
Member since Jan 2010
69549 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:43 pm to
quote:

How long have you been married?



It feels like an eternity
Posted by brass2mouth
NOLA
Member since Jul 2007
20749 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:44 pm to
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Sex gets stale after you've been married awhile. I don't really know a way around it.


Get her to start swallowing.
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
60221 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:44 pm to
are you indian?
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:45 pm to
And now he is offline.


One of my big OT pet peeves. Don't start a thread asking for advice on here...and then leave.
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:47 pm to
He's talking with his lady
Posted by Breesus
Unplug
Member since Jan 2010
69549 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:49 pm to
quote:

Don't start a thread asking for advice on here...and then leave.



How do you get a woman to swallow?

Is it true drinking tons of pineapple juice helps?

Posted by Thib-a-doe Tiger
Member since Nov 2012
36812 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:50 pm to
You bop them on the ears when you blast


I thought everyone knew that
Posted by WestlakeTiger
San Antonio, Tejas
Member since Feb 2012
9510 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:51 pm to
Troll thread.


Popcorn anyway.
Posted by jdeval1
Member since Dec 2009
7525 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:52 pm to
quote:

Get her to start swallowing.

I always thought that was a long term relationship requirement
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
80860 posts
Posted on 12/14/17 at 8:56 pm to
quote:


I always thought that was a long term relationship requirement
No, it's long term relationship bait, just like anal. Once the ring goes on, the mouth and butt are closed for business.
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