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re: Is this normal in a relationship?

Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:40 am to
Posted by Jimbo21165
Member since May 2017
354 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:40 am to
Kinda got pregnant......that's lame.....
Posted by rantfan
new iberia la
Member since Nov 2012
14110 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:40 am to
Completely normal, women are very hard to get along with. Especially your girlfriend/ wife
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:41 am to
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i prob would have left her by now because she brings me down a good portion of the time but I’m thinking of our one year old.


That’s not a reason to stay with her and continue to be miserable. You come first.
Posted by PolyPusher86
St. George
Member since Jun 2010
3357 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:41 am to
You had a kid and now you’re stuck with someone you’re not comparable
With...should’ve done your homework before having the child. Good luck
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84835 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:41 am to
You have a child together. Marry her and just deal.

You don't want a strange dude around your kid, especially in Florida.
Posted by HaveMercy
Member since Dec 2014
3000 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:41 am to
1. Could be postpartum depression
2. Could be she doesn't want to be with you but feels stuck in the relationship bc of the baby and she's miserable
3. Could be she's always been a bitch and you didn't notice it bc there were no responsibilities in the relationship

I will never understand people that won't marry someone, but will have a baby with them. Marriage doesn't work, you get divorced, it sucks but you move on. You have a baby with someone and that person is never, ever out of your life. Ever. Emotionally, financially, they don't go away. It's a way more permanent situation than marriage:
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
76202 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:41 am to
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Yeah we’ll she kinda just got pregnant.
And when you found this out you should kinda just married her.

In relationships you generally get back what you give out.

You’ve given your (maybe?) baby mamma no real commitment and so how do you expect her to act.

Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:41 am to
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we’ll she kinda just got pregnant.


Maybe yall should have kinda learned what birth control is. There are more options for birth control then ever.
Posted by TechDawg2007
Bawville
Member since Nov 2007
32641 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:42 am to
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Yeah we’ll she kinda just got pregnant.
She didn't "kinda" get pregnant. She got pregnant because you put your cock in crazy and didn't pull out and shoot it on her face like she wanted
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:42 am to
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She is a great mother


So she just hates you?


Maybe you’re the problem
Posted by 24nights
North of I10
Member since Apr 2012
5351 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:43 am to
Solid answer
Posted by SECdragonmaster
Order of the Dragons
Member since Dec 2013
17460 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:44 am to
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She didn't "kinda" get pregnant. She got pregnant because you put your cock in crazy and didn't pull out and shoot it on her face like she wanted


Posted by jflsufan
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Mar 2013
5260 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:44 am to
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You come first.


That goes out the window when you have a child.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
71200 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:45 am to
She’s depressed because she feels trapped with you. Basically, this is a double-down or split situation.

Doubling down would mean that you need to convince her that being with you isn’t a prison sentence, but a rewarding experience. Take the initiative to do chores around the house without her asking. Pick her a flower or bring her home a little treat after work. Complement her. Make her feel wanted and beautiful. A lot of women struggle with depression and self-image after having a baby. Open up to her. Talk to her. Start taking serious care of yourself and your appearance. Make date night time for the two of ya’ll.

If the above don’t work, then she’s probably been banging Jody behind your back, and you should get a paternity test for your f$&k trophy.
This post was edited on 2/4/18 at 9:48 am
Posted by lsuguy13
RIP MATT
Member since Mar 2004
9509 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:45 am to
Oh I have no doubt I play a part. I’m not too ignorant to think I have any blame in it. There are things I can defenitly do better but for the most part I feel like I’m solid and do more good than bad these days.
This post was edited on 2/4/18 at 9:47 am
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:45 am to
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That goes out the window when you have a child.


You don’t stay with someone because of a child
Posted by supatigah
CEO of the Keith Hernandez Fan Club
Member since Mar 2004
90306 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:46 am to
You have been through a lot together and as individuals

moving to Louisiana and her leaving Florida has had a bigger negative effect than you thought it would. You need to have a honest conversation with her
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
148031 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:47 am to
Post a pic of this chick and I’ll tell you what her problem is just my looking at her
Posted by c on z
Zamunda
Member since Mar 2009
131104 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:47 am to
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No one kinda just gets pregnant.

I’m already having flashbacks of that commercial.
Posted by Fight4LSU
Kenner
Member since Jul 2005
10078 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:48 am to
Sounds like you’re doing a lot of finger pointing at her, but what’s the real story? We don’t know until we hear her side too.

Seek therapy. Concentrate on your relationship with her and not your baby girl.
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