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Is this normal in a relationship?

Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:33 am
Posted by lsuguy13
RIP MATT
Member since Mar 2004
9509 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:33 am
So been with this girl for a few years. All was good in the beginning like so many are. We eventually had a baby girl who is the absolute love of my life. I feel like since we had the baby the dynamic changed a bit. Girl is more county and miserable to be around a good bit. I’d say about 40 percent of the time I really don’t like her. I mean is that normal? Honestly i prob would have left her by now because she brings me down a good portion of the time but I’m thinking of our one year old. She’s from Florida and if I left she’d take her back to Florida which I’m not having. I dnk seeing if you married and children having folk have any similar experiences.

ETA- She is a wonderful mother, really couldn’t ask for a better one for our child.
This post was edited on 2/4/18 at 9:39 am
Posted by Senior Sidewalker
Member since Oct 2017
722 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:33 am to
Which parish are you from?
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
67096 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:34 am to
So you got married?
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
58762 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:34 am to
Having a child out of wedlock is trashy. Seems like you two deserve each other.
Posted by SECdragonmaster
Order of the Dragons
Member since Dec 2013
16218 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:34 am to
quote:

We eventually had a baby girl who is the absolute love of my life.


Not good.

You left out the “we got married part”.

Also, you should never love your children more than your wife. If you do, you will probably get divorced.
Posted by TechDawg2007
Bawville
Member since Nov 2007
32249 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:35 am to
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She’s from Florida
Found the problem
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
117709 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:35 am to
She has depression.
This post was edited on 2/4/18 at 9:36 am
Posted by BigB0882
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2014
5308 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:36 am to
Can you try and get custody? Is she a good mom?
Posted by JetsetNuggs
Member since Jun 2014
13924 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:36 am to
Just make sure you get the trailer before your custody battle.
This post was edited on 2/4/18 at 9:37 am
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
120274 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:36 am to
You either live in Florida or the LP

Children out of wedlock is trashy as it gets

I see a single mother in the near future.
Posted by lsuguy13
RIP MATT
Member since Mar 2004
9509 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:37 am to
Lafayette. Yeah we’ll she kinda just got pregnant. ETA I busted in her and it happened. Happy? Lol

And I’m not about abortions. And I wouldn’t take that decision back for anything because my daughter is awesome.
This post was edited on 2/4/18 at 9:42 am
Posted by lsuguy13
RIP MATT
Member since Mar 2004
9509 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:37 am to
She is a great mother.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134026 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:37 am to
quote:

seeing if you married and children having folk have any similar experiences.


My experience has been pretty much exactly the opposite since Aggiebelle had our son. Get along better, have sex more.

Opposite of what I was bracing for
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
117709 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:38 am to
Get her on some Prozac or lithium. Maybe something like those with a few beers in the evenings like Natty Lite or Busch.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129003 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:39 am to
Maybe she hates that she feels trapped with you because y’all have a kid together.
Posted by HailToTheChiz
Back in Auburn
Member since Aug 2010
48953 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:39 am to
Sounds like first question is

Do you want to marry this girl?

If not, see ya later.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
58762 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:39 am to
quote:

Yeah we’ll she kinda just got pregnant.


Ah, the ole religious sex education.

It doesn’t just happen, sport.
Posted by theronswanson
House built with my hands
Member since Feb 2012
2976 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:39 am to
Get a paternity test yet?
Posted by UncleRuckus
Member since Feb 2013
7654 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:39 am to
quote:

she kinda just got pregnant

No one kinda just gets pregnant. Don’t knock up some chick you’re only dating.
This post was edited on 2/4/18 at 9:40 am
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
58762 posts
Posted on 2/4/18 at 9:39 am to
quote:

Get her on some Prozac or lithium. Maybe something like those with a few beers in the evenings like Natty Lite or Busch.


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