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re: Is playing the same sport all year around too much for a child?

Posted on 4/20/16 at 1:08 pm to
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
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Posted on 4/20/16 at 1:08 pm to
No one should make him or his hobbies the paramount priority of the family.

You only have him around for about 6 more years until he is jetting around without you, get a little variety. Hunt, fish, camp, travel

Posted by CajunAlum Tiger Fan
The Great State of Louisiana
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Posted on 4/20/16 at 1:12 pm to
Talk to other parents. Many probably feel the same way. Find a core group and set ground rules about # of tourneys per month. If you can't find a consensus, quit together and find a team that will work better for you.

I had some dude approach me about a select baseball team for my 7 year old, then hit up our coach (a business owner) for a $5K sponsorship, which was 1/3 of what he was looking for in sponsorship total. What a joke!

Competitive local leagues will develop and remove the incentive to travel if parents and a few coaches in a community drive the change.
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
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41694 posts
Posted on 4/20/16 at 1:12 pm to
But soccer is basically just running around, not sure how that over stresses one muscle group.
Posted by CajunAlum Tiger Fan
The Great State of Louisiana
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Posted on 4/20/16 at 1:13 pm to
Double post
This post was edited on 4/20/16 at 1:14 pm
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
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61432 posts
Posted on 4/20/16 at 1:13 pm to
We play sports, but no addtl participation such as All Stars or otherwise is allowed.

They are kids, the cream will rise to the top if they are worth a shite. If you are on a team based on your rep as a 8 or 9 year old when you are in high school, you are gonna get your arse whipped by a coach that selected a team based on ability.
Posted by The Mick
Member since Oct 2010
45120 posts
Posted on 4/20/16 at 1:16 pm to
I gotcha, maybe a farce tryout but the coach already knows who he's keeping etc. That's probably true everywhere.

The age thing is going to suck for older kids that are juniors in HS right now. They probably wont have a team to play on next year (club team) because most kids from their birth year will be freshmen in college.
Posted by 911Moto
Member since Sep 2013
5491 posts
Posted on 4/20/16 at 1:24 pm to
It depends on the kid. Some will thrive, some will burn out. When it starts feeling like a job rather than fun for HIM, then it's time for a break. I know what you are going through - martial arts doesn't have a season. It's year-round, especially if you compete on multiple circuits. We're in the middle of a 5 week stretch of Nevada, Texas, Virginia, Arkansas, and Georgia - all on consecutive weekends.
Posted by STEVED00
Member since May 2007
23156 posts
Posted on 4/20/16 at 1:24 pm to
I would think the number of soccer balls you kick with a good bit of force would add up over a soccer season. That would be the repetitive activity.

Andrews was mostly focused on baseball so soccer probably would not be as bad.
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
22281 posts
Posted on 4/20/16 at 1:28 pm to
quote:

Most parents think of this as a scholarship investment I take it.


College scholarship for soccer? WOW!
Posted by soccerfüt
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74838 posts
Posted on 4/20/16 at 1:34 pm to
Dr. James Andrews says don't let them play year-round only one sport.

He's smarter than me about this sort of stuff AND he's a Tiger.



The upside to doing the travel and rec and school soccer with a kid is that it eliminates many opportunities for them to get in trouble over the weekends around the house because they are gone away.

And there's the chance to be with them as a parent, that's good too.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
40227 posts
Posted on 4/20/16 at 2:15 pm to
I have a BIl with 3 boys. They play every sport imaginable. They actually I'm pretty sure have a family member helping them to pay for tuition for one of the kids to a Catholic school yet they travel with all of their sports and not just locally. Mississippi. Florida. I don't know how they do it and I'm not sure I'd be willing to do it to that extent. To each his own I guess.

I guess I just value time at home with my kids hanging out. Tennis is done and dancing will be over tomorrow night. I'm looking forward to being able to have dinner together sometimes. Btw one is a senior and one a freshman. Before long they'll be gone and We won't have many chances to just hang out.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
122154 posts
Posted on 4/20/16 at 2:19 pm to
I think most coaches (the ones who know what they are talking about) will say yes. You don't want to burn the kid out, you want to allow the kid to get involved in other activities, do you want the kid to feel like he has to play a specific sport because that's what his parents want from him?
Posted by YipSkiddlyDooo
Member since Apr 2013
3815 posts
Posted on 4/20/16 at 2:25 pm to
So you don't care about concussions? Heartless.

Nearly any division I college coach will tell you they prefer multi-sport athletes over the similarly talented kid who "specializes". And when you look at progressional athletes, a much smaller % of them played their sport year round compared to those who played multiple sports. But, parents are dumb and think little Susie is the next Mia Hamm so they travel all over the place and waste their time and money. When in reality, little Susie is either talented/athletic enough to get a college scholarship wether she takes a winter off to play basketball or not.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
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Member since Feb 2007
108322 posts
Posted on 4/20/16 at 2:29 pm to
Yeah but what do orthopedic docs and pro athletes know? Gotta get that WS ring in select travel ball.
Posted by geauxturbo
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2007
4443 posts
Posted on 4/20/16 at 2:31 pm to
quote:

Age 9, Academy>Rec>Select


Ah, so your Rec team is the one that beat ours 18-0

Thanks a-hole. My kid was enjoying soccer.
This post was edited on 4/20/16 at 2:37 pm
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41694 posts
Posted on 4/20/16 at 2:41 pm to
I want my son to grow up a happy healthy boy with self esteem and a solid work ethic. He played T-ball, basketball, and soccer and this is the one he enjoys and excels at. He'll play football and he'll start sailing lessons this summer. He just happens to be really good at soccer, and he gets better faster than the other kids as well. Since the middle of Rec season last year he's been recruited to play on each team he's been a part of. I just want him to get exposure to the best coaches and the best competition he can...so at least in his heart he understands what it's going to take.
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
41694 posts
Posted on 4/20/16 at 2:43 pm to
Maybe...na we've never scored 18. 11 or so, yea. Next weekend at State will be the last he ever plays Rec, so U12 should be a bit better for your kid since most of the ringers will be funneled off.
Posted by roadGator
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Member since Feb 2009
157761 posts
Posted on 4/20/16 at 2:48 pm to
I trust Dr. Andrews.

quote:

I have seen my patient population and surgical cases get increasingly younger. Children, parents and coaches need to realize that kids need to take a break from playing one sport year round. Sports should be fun for children. Overuse injuries in children is a concerning trend.


Dr. James Andrews
This post was edited on 4/20/16 at 2:56 pm
Posted by RedPop4
Santiago de Compostela
Member since Jan 2005
15292 posts
Posted on 4/20/16 at 2:56 pm to
Seven or eight years ago, when my boys stopped playing baseball, there were parents at our playground whose 13 and 14 year-old sons were having Tommy John surgery.

How terrible is that? I mean, great, that people can have themselves "repaired" but Tommy John was in his 30s. Thirteen and fourteen is crazy, they're not even fully grown yet, which won't happen for another ten or so years.
Posted by roadGator
DeBoar’s dome
Member since Feb 2009
157761 posts
Posted on 4/20/16 at 3:00 pm to
Baseball is bad. I see 12 and 13 year old children throwing curve balls. The last tournament I saw a 13 year old threw at least 2 curve balls to every batter. He pitched 5 innings I believe. No idea about his pitch count but curves are bad on a young elbow.
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