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re: Is a dude saying "I don't feel safe in big cities" a Man Card violation?

Posted on 1/12/24 at 11:26 am to
Posted by Lokistale
Member since Aug 2013
1200 posts
Posted on 1/12/24 at 11:26 am to
Act like or look like prey... and they'll treat you like one.
Posted by LSU Tiger Jason
Member since Nov 2005
1128 posts
Posted on 1/12/24 at 11:26 am to
Yeah, getting mugged and shot by black thugs is so manly
Posted by LSU82BILL
Fort Lauderdale, FL
Member since Sep 2006
10340 posts
Posted on 1/12/24 at 11:28 am to
I can think of a few street corners in Liberty City or Overtown in Miami that if you spent 2 minutes standing on them, you would definitely realize that holding onto your man card isn't worth your life.
Posted by Shexter
Prairieville
Member since Feb 2014
14173 posts
Posted on 1/12/24 at 11:28 am to
quote:

The "I dont feel safe" phenomenon may be part of the blurring of gender roles in America and the neutering of the American male.


or the other extreme where they conceal carry a "main carry sidearm", "backup firearm" in their sock, and a knife "just in case". Running around town looking like Tactical Tom all the time.

FWIW, I worked in the firearms industry for 5 years. I know the type.

Fear based marketing is very effective in the gun industry.






Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
263322 posts
Posted on 1/12/24 at 11:28 am to
quote:

Fearing something is not what establishes your "manliness", it's how you address the fear that determines the type of man you are.


Indeed
Posted by Swagga
504
Member since Dec 2009
16274 posts
Posted on 1/12/24 at 11:28 am to
This is where they start back pedaling and tell you how tough the OT is.

This is the same board that thinks they’re more of an alpha for not drinking bud light.
Posted by Meauxjeaux
98836 posts including my alters
Member since Jun 2005
40493 posts
Posted on 1/12/24 at 11:31 am to
Lol, we are going to the big city regardless...

That said, I'll double down and say it's a true man's obligation to his family and the families of the friends that will be with him to consider the circumstance he's bringing them into and having the prudence to choose an appropriate scenario therein.

YMMV
Posted by Scuttle But
Member since Nov 2023
1301 posts
Posted on 1/12/24 at 11:32 am to
This question is gay as frick and you should lose your man card for being fricking weird enough to even think of it.
Posted by theCAW
Polk County
Member since Dec 2023
2808 posts
Posted on 1/12/24 at 11:33 am to
The caw never feels unsafe
Posted by BigAppleTiger
New York City
Member since Dec 2008
10400 posts
Posted on 1/12/24 at 11:35 am to
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Even if I felt that way, which I don't (I've been to Atlanta hundreds of times and never had any problems), I'd be too proud to admit it. It seems sort of woman-like.




You don't have to admit it. We can see it your eyes when you're walking around while visiting. It's apparent in your manner and your clothing as well. No dig, it just is what it is. The same way you could sniff out a city boy walking around Mamou.
This post was edited on 1/12/24 at 11:37 am
Posted by NIH
Member since Aug 2008
112925 posts
Posted on 1/12/24 at 11:43 am to
Do you point these small town folk out to your wife’s kids?
Posted by Violent Hip Swivel
Member since Aug 2023
2820 posts
Posted on 1/12/24 at 11:43 am to
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You don't have to admit it. We can see it your eyes when you're walking around while visiting. It's apparent in your manner and your clothing as well


Pronouns keep getting more and more confusing. By default I'm assuming that "you" is me, but who the frick is "we"?
Posted by BigAppleTiger
New York City
Member since Dec 2008
10400 posts
Posted on 1/12/24 at 11:49 am to
"you" is generic small town people visiting the city. "We" is big city folk observing said visitors. Like I said, it's not a dig...just the way it is. Small things are apparent, like body movement to navigate the busy sidewalks, the eye reaction when a light changes and cars approach quickly, etc.

This post was edited on 1/12/24 at 11:51 am
Posted by flyAU
Scottsdale
Member since Dec 2010
24866 posts
Posted on 1/12/24 at 11:50 am to
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I've been to Atlanta hundreds of times


Context matters. did you hang out in the neighborhoods south of I-20? Did you stay in a 4 star hotel in midtown to uber over to a football game?

I would not feel safe living in many parts of Atlanta.

Also

I would feel safe living in many parts of Atlanta.


Visiting? Everyone should do research to know where to go. I would not be visiting the lower 4th ward if I was going to NO. No excuse there.
This post was edited on 1/12/24 at 11:51 am
Posted by Dawgfanman
Member since Jun 2015
22857 posts
Posted on 1/12/24 at 11:51 am to
Thinking such a thing as a “Man Card” exists is itself unmanly.
Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
22536 posts
Posted on 1/12/24 at 11:52 am to
Not feeling safe in a big city is a pretty normal thing. The wife and I aren't afraid of going anywhere, but everywhere we go, we use situational awareness. You have to know your surroundings and be prepared to deal with threats. Some pseudo masculine Man Card nonsense isn't going to prevent me from being smart about the environment I'm in.
Posted by SuperOcean
Member since Jun 2022
3386 posts
Posted on 1/12/24 at 11:53 am to
I wouldn't say it..I just wouldn't go if I felt it
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
67296 posts
Posted on 1/12/24 at 11:53 am to
I definitely meet a lot of stereotypical rednecks from rural areas that say stupid crap like this, but New Orleans is straight up ridiculous right now. It’s so much worse than it was just 5 years ago. I used to never feel unsafe there, yet now, there’s a shooting nearby every time I go down there. I’m not even exaggerating at this point. And when I say “nearby” I mean within two blocks of where I’m standing at the moment I happen to be standing there.
This post was edited on 1/12/24 at 11:54 am
Posted by El Segundo Guy
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Member since Aug 2014
9690 posts
Posted on 1/12/24 at 11:54 am to
quote:

"you" is generic small town people visiting the city. "We" is big city folk observing said visitors. Like I said, it's not a dig...just the way it is. Small things are apparent, like body movement to navigate the busy sidewalks, the eye reaction when a light changes and cars approach quickly, etc.



Meh. I've lived in L.A. county, taken the Green Line from El Segundo to the Blue Line in Watts to downtown (7th). I've been all over this country and world.

I'm not overwhelmed or in awe of your cities or your lifestyles. Now by choice, I choose to live in the manner that suits me best.
Posted by Jon A thon
Member since May 2019
1711 posts
Posted on 1/12/24 at 11:55 am to
quote:

dude saying "I don't feel safe in big cities" a Man Card violation?


I don't feel safe in many places. So I take jiu jitsu and carry firearms. It's the manliness things I can think of, and I do it specifically to mitigate not feeling safe.
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