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re: I’m ok with staying home on Christmas Day. Why is that bad?

Posted on 12/19/22 at 8:01 pm to
Posted by BigWillyMetry
Member since Dec 2021
1548 posts
Posted on 12/19/22 at 8:01 pm to
Do you have kids? Kids don’t want to be in a car for 4.5 hours on Xmas when they could be at home playing with their toys.
Posted by CaptSpaulding
Member since Feb 2012
6974 posts
Posted on 12/19/22 at 8:10 pm to
Every year there’s a trip I don’t want to make, or visit that last a day or 2 too long. I just tell myself there will come a year where there are no more trips to take, and it won’t seem as appealing as it might seem right now.
This post was edited on 12/19/22 at 8:11 pm
Posted by SalE
At the beach
Member since Jan 2020
3128 posts
Posted on 12/19/22 at 8:13 pm to
I will be at the beach cooking a bigly feast, weather not withstanding...outside.
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
61723 posts
Posted on 12/19/22 at 8:14 pm to
quote:

My break starts Friday.


Maybe this was already answered, but do you not have vacation days you could have used this week?
Posted by tigerbutt
Deep South
Member since Jun 2006
26327 posts
Posted on 12/19/22 at 8:15 pm to
Christmas is more for your kids not your sister. Got any pics?
Posted by dnm3305
Member since Feb 2009
16052 posts
Posted on 12/19/22 at 8:16 pm to
Women are irrational as frick. Even when you think you make a breakthrough, they will find a way to be irrational about something else. It is comforting in their nature to be overly emotional and irrational. Just know that whatever you do in this situation it will be the wrong move and you will never win.

Merry Christmas
Posted by Summerchild
On top of the world.
Member since Dec 2022
382 posts
Posted on 12/19/22 at 8:18 pm to
It is not bad. At all. After about 40 years of traveling on Christmas Day…as a child opening presents at 6 am then riding in a car for six hours to get to grandmas, as a young married person seeing three sets of parents and driving two hours to grandparents house, as a young parent dragging the baby through that same process…we said no mas. We see everyone on Christmas Eve and stay home Christmas Day. I cook a ham and a lot of sides and who wants to come, comes, which usually consists of my parents and sometimes my in-laws. Never been happier and the kids love it.
Posted by Bigfishchoupique
Member since Jul 2017
9607 posts
Posted on 12/19/22 at 8:18 pm to
It’s not. I have spent most of Christmas’s alone.

Sometimes it’s the best thing all things considered.
Posted by tigafan4life
Member since Dec 2006
50981 posts
Posted on 12/19/22 at 8:30 pm to
I am a big fan of waking up in my own home for Christmas. I just like having that time with my kids and not sharing with anyone. We go to my in-laws later on during the day for a late lunch and open presents but then we are home by 7pm.
Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
30108 posts
Posted on 12/19/22 at 8:30 pm to
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id have a real hard time not taking that a certain way if my sister did that


I don’t take it a certain way when she does it. Again, she will be here in January, like always, kids in tow, and won’t drive the four blocks over here or to see our parents.

Two wrongs don’t make a right, but I’m not the one who started complaining. I’m not saying that makes my decision right either. But she’s being a real pain over all this. Not to mention she’s got my other sister in SA bringing her 6 kids over for a drive.
Posted by Zarkinletch416
Deep in the Heart of Texas
Member since Jan 2020
8689 posts
Posted on 12/19/22 at 8:44 pm to
Jesus is the reason for the season.
Posted by Proximo
Member since Aug 2011
24144 posts
Posted on 12/19/22 at 8:46 pm to
Stay home and enjoy it
Posted by WestCoastAg
Member since Oct 2012
150138 posts
Posted on 12/19/22 at 8:59 pm to
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Again, she will be here in January, like always, kids in tow, and won’t drive the four blocks over here or to see our parents.
and im sure if we ask her why, shed probably say because you do things like go to a football game, leave after 10 oclock to make a 4+ hour drive, and dont stop to even say hi

i mean there is absolutely nothing wrong with simply spending time with your wifes family over christmas as opposed to your own. my sister is spending christmas with my BILs family instead of ours. but i would tread carefully when it comes to having a specific christmas get together afterwards with your parents as that would again, be hard not to take in a personal way
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
134636 posts
Posted on 12/19/22 at 9:01 pm to
Perfectly acceptable to stay home with your wife and kids on Christmas Day. You do you. We usually do Christmas with both sides before. Now that we have families of our own
Posted by reggierayreb
Member since Nov 2012
19700 posts
Posted on 12/19/22 at 9:08 pm to
9 hour round trip drive for Christmas ? Hauling gifts there and even more crap on the way back home ? No thanks. Just FaceTime that day and pass the phone around to everyone and let them talk.
This post was edited on 12/19/22 at 9:09 pm
Posted by TorchtheFlyingTiger
1st coast
Member since Jan 2008
3155 posts
Posted on 12/19/22 at 9:14 pm to
You're not obligated to drive 4.5 hours. Besides, you're visiting in-laws in SA that should be sufficient to placate your sister unless she's a nut.
Posted by Celery
Nuevo York
Member since Nov 2010
11685 posts
Posted on 12/19/22 at 9:15 pm to
Assuming you actually like your family, sometimes you just have to suck it up and do stuff you don’t feel like doing. Family, just like any meaningful relationship, takes work. That being said, sometimes you have to know when to take care of yourself and just do you.
Posted by LRB1967
Tennessee
Member since Dec 2020
23171 posts
Posted on 12/19/22 at 9:20 pm to
I am staying home on Christmas Day. My parents are going to my brother's house but it is going to be very crowded. I am going to watch a ball game and chill.
Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
30108 posts
Posted on 12/19/22 at 9:38 pm to
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but i would tread carefully when it comes to having a specific christmas get together afterwards with your parents


Wut? My parents are the ones who suggested this.

In your eyes, I’d be a dick for not spending time with my family at my sisters, and I’d also be a dick for spending time with my parents.
Posted by WestCoastAg
Member since Oct 2012
150138 posts
Posted on 12/19/22 at 9:40 pm to
have absolutely no fricking clue how you even came close to that takeaway but alright
This post was edited on 12/19/22 at 9:41 pm
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