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Posted on 2/21/18 at 1:59 pm to
Posted by Ice Cold
Over Macho Grande
Member since Jun 2004
18741 posts
Posted on 2/21/18 at 1:59 pm to
This is a sociology experiment, right?
Posted by TheIndulger
Member since Sep 2011
19239 posts
Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:00 pm to
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Did you also really believe she had a fatal brain tumor? Quit being gullible and cut her out of your life. Have papers served and sell your house.


Agreed

Have you seen medical documents or been to the hospital with her that prove she actually has cancer? Anything proving she actually will die soon?

She is probably lying about that and also made up some shite about having organized crime connections because she’s a liar
Posted by Athis
Member since Aug 2016
11511 posts
Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:02 pm to
I don't care if anyone thinks it is cold..But as soon as she mentioned brain tumor I would have hit the road. No chance of me dealing with that problem. I also think that the "tumor" was a test to see how you were "plump/ripe" for the picking.
Posted by tokenBoiler
Lafayette, Indiana
Member since Aug 2012
4409 posts
Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:08 pm to
You need expert advice from someone with experience dealing with this kind of situation.

I think the person recommended in this thread can help
Posted by BlueWaffleHouse
LA
Member since Jul 2012
1844 posts
Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:09 pm to
Anyway to expedite the brain tumor? Problem solved?
Posted by little billy
Orange County, CA
Member since May 2015
8317 posts
Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:13 pm to
1. Write up a will that makes her the sole beneficiary of everything.

2. Kill yourself.
Posted by NoHoTiger
So many to kill, so little time
Member since Nov 2006
45721 posts
Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:19 pm to
I may have faked an orgasm or two in my life, but this shite right here
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The crazy bitch bought some shite from a medical supply store and faked it

that's just too exhausting and time consuming. I just wanted to go to sleep early.
Posted by whit
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
10998 posts
Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:19 pm to
Posted by Bard
Definitely NOT an admin
Member since Oct 2008
51475 posts
Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:22 pm to
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Pretty quickly she told me she had a brain tumor that would eventually kill her.


Any crazy medical issue is always a red flag. If it's real then she should be focused on that instead of dating. If it's fake, well that's a whole other level of batshit cray-cray.
Posted by TunaTime
LA
Member since Aug 2012
766 posts
Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:24 pm to
Just posting to say I was your 100th downvote
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
166134 posts
Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:24 pm to
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First time poster, long time lurker.
Started dating a beautiful woman two years ago. Pretty quickly she told me she had a brain tumor that would eventually kill her. She quit her job after about 3 months of dating and I began to support her fully. Bought a house later that year, and she moved in, as I continued to support her.
Fast forward, as she has brought a number of guy "friends" into her life that she swears are "just friends," but we know what is really going on. It pushed us apart and created a resentment between us.
Fixing her became my priority, and I ended up leaving my job due to stress and poor work performance.
I ended up getting a better job halfway across the country. We grew apart, have separated, and now I want to sell the house, and move on with my life. She has threatened me, basically saying that she has nothing to lose, and if I put her on the streets, she will kill me. She is connected to some underground organized crime figures, so it is a threat I take seriously.
She also has a vehicle that is in my name. Her health insurance is through my employer.
She has requested 12 months in the house, me to continue to pay for her vehicle, maintain insurance on her, and give her an allowance for 12 months until she gets on her feet. Anything less, and I don't want to know the consequences.
I cannot afford to continue supporting her and to restart my life.

Looking for advice.
Posted by The Great McGinty
Member since Jan 2017
1384 posts
Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:25 pm to
I'd press my fricking luck! frick her and her "connected" family. They can take care of her crazy arse. Get your shite and GTFO!
Posted by Azranod
The Land of crooked letters and I's
Member since Oct 2013
1152 posts
Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:33 pm to
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Nope. No marriage. We entered into a domestic partnership agreement when we moved in together.



Y'all, the OT has missed the most interesting twist to this story that makes it one of the greatest happenings ever, and will make it an even bigger blockbuster movie!

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Ex-GF

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she has brought a number of guy "friends" into her life that she swears are "just friends," but we know what is really going on. It pushed us apart and created a resentment between us.

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domestic partnership agreement


OP is a lesbian!!!
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
18798 posts
Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:36 pm to
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Pretty quickly she told me she had a brain tumor that would eventually kill her. She quit her job after about 3 months of dating and I began to support her fully. Bought a house later that year, and she moved in, as I continued to support her.


Did you ever go to the doctor? Ever meet her family? And you believed that shite?

As to what I would do.
1. Call the police and tell them she threatened your life after you’ve secretly taped her.

2. Change the locks and sell anything you bought her while she’s in the clink

3. Don’t pay for shite, drop that birth from everything. Don’t take her calls. Don’t do shite. She’s a lying piece of shite.
Posted by S1C EM
Athens, GA
Member since Nov 2007
11585 posts
Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:39 pm to
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OP is a lesbian!!!


Damn. It took six pages for someone to actually connect those dots. Well done, sir!
Posted by Mouth
Member since Jan 2008
20952 posts
Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:39 pm to
she doesn't have a brain tumor you cuck.

and "connected" people don't need to lie to schmucks like you, to take care of them. jesus fricking christ.
Posted by Azranod
The Land of crooked letters and I's
Member since Oct 2013
1152 posts
Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:41 pm to
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Well done, sir!


Thank you.
Posted by Count Chocula
Tier 5 and proud
Member since Feb 2009
63908 posts
Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:46 pm to
Wuss. You're being blackmailed by a mere con artist.
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
166134 posts
Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:48 pm to
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OP is a lesbian!!!



explains this too...

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and poor work performance.


she a woman.
Posted by DFWTiger80
Member since Feb 2018
5 posts
Posted on 2/21/18 at 2:49 pm to
A few things to update:
1. NOT a lesbian. Male / Females can enter into domestic partner agreements as well. Many companies offer benefits to committed couples who do not want to get married. Originally, it was designed for gay couples.
2. Although there is a possibility the brain tumor is not real, if it is not, she has done a HELL of a job faking it for two years. My guess is that its benign and therefore, not growing.
3. I struggled with letting her go because I did not want to put her on the street. Our relationship was really over almost a year ago. We've basically been roommates until I moved.
4. Her organized crime ties are not necessarily to mafia types, and I have not confirmed.
5. The poster that said she had BPD was on point. Diagnosed for sure, but I didn't realize how bad it was. She also is a self proclaimed sociopath.

Thanks again for all of the advice. Again, this was not a troll attempt. I've been reading this board for years and always laugh at some of the advice given. I expected much of this.

After another big fight this morning, I've taken steps today to rid her of my life.
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