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re: How would you handle? (Ex-GF) long...
Posted on 2/21/18 at 6:27 pm to DFWTiger80
Posted on 2/21/18 at 6:27 pm to DFWTiger80
What the frick?
Posted on 2/21/18 at 6:32 pm to RichardParker
threads like this make me feel good about my life.
Posted on 2/21/18 at 6:44 pm to bayoutiger225
quote:+1
threads like this make me feel good about my life.
Posted on 2/21/18 at 9:33 pm to DFWTiger80
Wanna know how I know that you're a lying mfer?
Posted on 2/21/18 at 9:38 pm to DFWTiger80
She pegs you doesn't she?
Posted on 2/21/18 at 9:45 pm to DFWTiger80
I find it difficult to believe you.
Any advice I gave would have little to do with your story.
Therapy or serious spiritual practice requiring self understanding.
Any advice I gave would have little to do with your story.
Therapy or serious spiritual practice requiring self understanding.
Posted on 2/22/18 at 1:34 am to DFWTiger80
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The poster that said she had BPD was on point. Diagnosed for sure, but I didn't realize how bad it was
If it is BPD, then make sure you video or voice record every interaction you have with her. Anytime she is around you, you MUST record everything. I'm divorced from a woman that has BPD and won full custody of my three little kids by doing just this...and it still wasn't easy.
The reason is that most women with BPD use a defensive mechanism called "Self Victimization"...look it up. She will try to turn everyone, including your friends and the police, against you. Everyone will think you're the crazy one when she gets done with her act...and she'll get away with it because she's a woman and the police want to believe women. The only way you'll get through this unscathed is if you film/document everything.
Everytime she called the police and accused me of something, I would show the police the video and nothing would happen. But this went on for months until I was able to present all the evidence of how crazy she is to the judge and he granted me full custodial rights of my kids. But it was hard because she was crying and lying all the time...making false accusations and trying to get me arrested so that she didn't look like the bad guy.
You can win this, but it's going to be a fight that you might at times think you can't win and may also at times leave you feeling like you're the crazy one, but stick with it. Don't worry about the tumor or the mafia, if she has BPD then those are all lies. The only way she'll leave you alone is if she feels that you have enough damaging information and are willing to share it with her friends and family. She doesn't want to be found out as a crazy person and will do anything to avoid this...so that is your chance to get away from her. Good luck!
Posted on 2/22/18 at 1:55 am to CelticDog
You're a fricking douchebag loser anyway, so who gives a frick about your advice. Go frick Yourself.
Posted on 2/22/18 at 4:21 am to DFWTiger80
WTF? Nine pages, almost 200 downvotes, someone must have pointed out any harassment like this is criminal, death threats can be a felony. I see no problem here. Save or record evidence (La. is a one party state so you can record / video phone or personal conversations w/o her knowing as long as you are there) Call police, press charges, lock that stupid b!tch up, relax, move on, and stop wasting everyone's time with this nonsense.
Posted on 2/22/18 at 5:46 am to DFWTiger80
bullshite and here is why:
Why, after quitting your job, moving halfway across the country, and starting a new job, did you add her to THAT company’s insurance? Total BS bro.
Why, after quitting your job, moving halfway across the country, and starting a new job, did you add her to THAT company’s insurance? Total BS bro.
Posted on 2/22/18 at 8:13 am to DFWTiger80
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Started dating a beautiful woman two years ago. Pretty quickly she told me she had a brain tumor that would eventually kill her. She quit her job after about 3 months of dating and I began to support her fully. Bought a house later that year, and she moved in, as I continued to support her. Fast forward, as she has brought a number of guy "friends" into her life that she swears are "just friends," but we know what is really going on. It pushed us apart and created a resentment between us. Fixing her became my priority, and I ended up leaving my job due to stress and poor work performance. I ended up getting a better job halfway across the country. We grew apart, have separated, and now I want to sell the house, and move on with my life. She has threatened me, basically saying that she has nothing to lose, and if I put her on the streets, she will kill me. She is connected to some underground organized crime figures, so it is a threat I take seriously. She also has a vehicle that is in my name. Her health insurance is through my employer. She has requested 12 months in the house, me to continue to pay for her vehicle, maintain insurance on her, and give her an allowance for 12 months until she gets on her feet. Anything less, and I don't want to know the consequences. I cannot afford to continue supporting her and to restart my life.
Posted on 2/22/18 at 8:43 am to DFWTiger80
You sound like a bitch baw. She got you.
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