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re: How true is it that money marries money?

Posted on 4/3/16 at 5:58 pm to
Posted by jennBN
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Posted on 4/3/16 at 5:58 pm to
Nurses are skilled laborers. I married up class wise...Hopefully that doesn't end in divorce...
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
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Posted on 4/3/16 at 5:59 pm to
It is true though. The nature of our profession seems to appeal to those that are also codependent. We care for others and take pride in caring for others. We value being needed by others. Also...I think we like the power trip of knowing we might be "too good" for our mate. I know that was the case when I dated a total loser in my 20s. I was very codependent then and made excuse after excuse for his horrible behavior/treatment of me. For some twisted reason I seemed to thrive knowing that deep down...I was too good for him.

Thankfully once I left him I was able to break the cycle and focus on finding someone that was more of my equal.
Posted by jennBN
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Posted on 4/3/16 at 6:00 pm to
Definitely applies to my 20s....glad I grew out of that phase.
Posted by Titus Pullo
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Posted on 4/3/16 at 6:00 pm to
If he paid for med school then he has/had some coin, or has a shitload of loans to pay for her.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
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Posted on 4/3/16 at 6:01 pm to
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Nurses are skilled laborers.

i was going to say this but i didn't want to come off as being mean. that's why i labeled it in terms of transition

lawyers are more professional labor but it's a path to transition in many cases (with lots of upper class people doing it, too)
Posted by jennBN
Member since Jun 2010
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Posted on 4/3/16 at 6:01 pm to
And is incredibly sweet.
Edit-I am proud to be a skilled laborer :). That's not mean at all.
This post was edited on 4/3/16 at 6:02 pm
Posted by Titus Pullo
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Posted on 4/3/16 at 6:03 pm to
Or looking for a good ROI when he can quit working and start playing golf or fishing/hunting everyday.
Posted by tduecen
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Posted on 4/3/16 at 6:04 pm to
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If he paid for med school then he has/had some coin, or has a shitload of loans to pay for her.



Bit of of both, he did travel work while I was growing up and my mom worked while we were at school. We went to a sitter for an hour a day before she picked us up etc... She went to school in the morning as we went to the same sitter as well. So he paid for her to do nursing, NP, but then they took out loans for her to become a DR.
Posted by Front9Bandit
Member since Dec 2013
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Posted on 4/3/16 at 6:08 pm to
Trust fund marriages are where it's at
Posted by BaddestAndvari
That Overweight Racist State
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Posted on 4/3/16 at 6:10 pm to
Dad is an engineer and my mom was going to be a nurse but had kids before she started and never went back to the work force.

I'm a skilled professional with a college degree (IT)

Wife has a master's degree (library sciences)

We met in college... So yes, we are very similar. Her and her sister are both college educated (my wife moreso because I put her through her master's degree)

But growing up I was in a completely different caste level than my wife's family, but her parents worked their asses off to send them to college and be the first in their family, ever, to get a college degree.
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
26328 posts
Posted on 4/3/16 at 6:21 pm to
I am in accounting and last few girls I dated were engineers, accounting, and psychologist

I recently dated girl who had a retail job but came from money. Her lack of drive, motivation, and grit did bother me
This post was edited on 4/3/16 at 6:23 pm
Posted by CHEDBALLZ
South Central LA
Member since Dec 2009
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Posted on 4/3/16 at 6:22 pm to
I worked with an iron worker who was married to a Coochie Dr. But for the most part money married money.
Posted by Front9Bandit
Member since Dec 2013
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Posted on 4/3/16 at 6:26 pm to
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Her lack of drive, motivation, and grit did bother me


You didn't frick her right
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
26328 posts
Posted on 4/3/16 at 6:29 pm to
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You didn't frick her right

Of course I did. It didn't bother me THAT much
Posted by Front9Bandit
Member since Dec 2013
15432 posts
Posted on 4/3/16 at 6:31 pm to
How's LawTaw?
Posted by BayouFann
CenLa
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Posted on 4/3/16 at 6:33 pm to
Lol. Athletes and entertainers
Posted by stout
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Posted on 4/3/16 at 6:34 pm to
Did you not have a required Sociology class in college? This is basic shite.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 4/3/16 at 6:36 pm to
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required Sociology class in college


Man I can still remember my Sociology class at LSU. Can't remember the professor's name...but I remember what he looked like. Asian guy with big nerdy glass and a long shaggy mullet. Hated that class cause myself and many other students could barely understand his lectures most of the time.
Posted by GEAUXT
Member since Nov 2007
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Posted on 4/3/16 at 6:39 pm to
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master's degree (library sciences)


Not flaming, but what do you do with this?
Posted by Titus Pullo
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Member since Feb 2011
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Posted on 4/3/16 at 6:40 pm to
Just guessing, but be a librarian ?
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