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re: How true is it that money marries money?

Posted on 4/3/16 at 10:56 pm to
Posted by THRILLHO
Old Metairie near Cleary
Member since Apr 2006
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Posted on 4/3/16 at 10:56 pm to
I was just going by what I found online. Again, my brother in law made over $100k after about 10 years in NOLA. I'm an EE and I may not even make that much after 10 years of experience.
Posted by ithad2bme
Houston transplant from B.R.
Member since Sep 2008
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Posted on 4/3/16 at 11:00 pm to
My wife was making a third of what I made when we met, I helped her start her own business and now she makes more than me. It might partially that if one is successful they look for those same traits, and even if the other one isn't yet, the opportunities they get help them become successful. I knew my wife would be a success because of her character.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 4/3/16 at 11:02 pm to
Yeah I know. Those things will sometimes use the salaries of new grad nurses as well...which totally messes up the average.


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Again, my brother in law made over $100k after about 10 years in NOLA


As just a regular charge nurse? Or was he a nursing manager/director. Big difference. Course...I never worked in NOLA. I worked in BR 10 years ago and the pay was atrocious then...don't know if it's gotten better since I left. I was an experienced RN only making $20/hr base rate then(my night shift diffs only gave me maybe an extra $4 on top of that). Left to travel nurse and within a year was making over $40/hr plus all paid living expenses(fully furnished apartment and all paid utilities).
Posted by Dominate308
South Florida
Member since Jan 2013
2895 posts
Posted on 4/3/16 at 11:05 pm to
One of the richest dudes I know works for BRPD. He inherited the money when he was about 35 and he's just a normal good dude. He grew up with everyone who is anyone and his wife has a very good job. It's almost like he has a second life.
Posted by THRILLHO
Old Metairie near Cleary
Member since Apr 2006
50503 posts
Posted on 4/3/16 at 11:19 pm to
He was a manager. But again, he got that position within 10 years of mursing. He did work a lot of nights, though.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 4/3/16 at 11:28 pm to
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He did work a lot of nights, though.


Makes a huge difference. That night shift differential can easily mean an extra 10-15K a year for a nurse. It's why I just laugh when my manager asks me if I want to switch to dayshift(work more, less money...f that ).
Posted by McVick
Member since Jan 2011
4635 posts
Posted on 4/4/16 at 12:16 am to
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just fwiw, the last cracked podcast discussed class and it was one of their better episodes in a long time (like a year +)


I listened to it last week and found it to be a nice discussion as to the difference between economic class and social class. Many people think they are one and the same but they are not.

I thought one of the more interesting things brought up in that episode was Jack's college interview experience. When asked if he fished, he said that he liked going out ocean fishing with his dad. Much later in life he found out that people of a higher social class view ocean fishing as a lower class thing to do, as freshwater fishing is what people of a higher social class participate in. By revealing his preference for ocean fishing he outed himself as someone that does not belong to that particular social class.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
61555 posts
Posted on 4/4/16 at 12:32 am to
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Much later in life he found out that people of a higher social class view ocean fishing as a lower class thing to do, as freshwater fishing is what people of a higher social class participate in. By revealing his preference for ocean fishing he outed himself as someone that does not belong to that particular social class.
this seems backwards to me

Eta: I guess I can wee how fly fishing is the "classiest"
This post was edited on 4/4/16 at 12:38 am
Posted by GeeOH
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2013
13376 posts
Posted on 4/4/16 at 12:37 am to
Girls from families with strong fathers usually gravitate towards men like her father. So if dad is wealthy, she would naturally settle and feel secure with the same
Posted by PrideofTheSEC
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2012
5275 posts
Posted on 4/4/16 at 1:58 am to
I feel like a teacher would be the ultimate wife. I'm a law student fwiw
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
71198 posts
Posted on 4/4/16 at 2:01 am to
It has a ton to do with social circles and a lot to do with what bars and classrooms you spend time in.

Most people meet their so through work, friends, school, or at a bar. Obviously socio-economicly similar people are going to inhabit the same classrooms, jobs, ect.

Also, bars are pretty clickish. The crowd that hangs out at the Bulldog on pint night is not the same as the one at Clicks. People drinking at Radio Bar aren't the same ones at Grown Folks or Fred's on the River.

I have some friends that just always seem to wind up with the trashiest women. I don't understand where they find these women.
This post was edited on 4/4/16 at 2:03 am
Posted by BenDover
Member since Jul 2010
5572 posts
Posted on 4/4/16 at 7:01 am to
That seems bass ackwards unless you're talking about the kinds of people who go fly-fishing in Alaska and shite like that. Deep sea fishing is more of a rich man's hobby than freshwater
Posted by Lake Vegas Tiger
Lake Vegas
Member since Jun 2014
3298 posts
Posted on 4/4/16 at 7:26 am to
I'm a lawyer and wife is doctor, but neither of us came from money
Posted by Gugich22
Who Dat Nation
Member since Jan 2006
27839 posts
Posted on 4/4/16 at 7:31 am to
I agree with SFP in that it has much more to do with social class than money.

However, if you are basing this argument in money alone then:

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sales managers

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plant operators


don't really financially line up with:

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teachers

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salon stylist



Just saying...
Posted by McVick
Member since Jan 2011
4635 posts
Posted on 4/4/16 at 7:56 am to
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That seems bass ackwards unless you're talking about the kinds of people who go fly-fishing in Alaska and shite like that.


Exactly. While a large majority of us would consider saltwater fishing to be an expensive hobby and therefore tied to economic class, freshwater fishing is still tied to the higher social class in a historical sense. Historically, saltwater fishing=commercial fishing, whereas freshwater fishing=sport fishing (with flyrods, lures, and hired guides).
Posted by GeeOH
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2013
13376 posts
Posted on 4/4/16 at 8:33 am to
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'm a lawyer and wife is doctor, but neither of us came from money


So identical social classes attract.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
481186 posts
Posted on 4/4/16 at 8:36 am to
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well, in my experience, it's because of college... you spend a lot of time around the same people getting those professional degrees, and mix with others in the same field during externships and/or residencies....

college is kind of like a "finishing school" for certain classes (this depends on the level of college you attend)
Posted by Seldom Seen
Member since Feb 2016
48737 posts
Posted on 4/4/16 at 8:37 am to
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How true is it that money marries money?



I'd say so for the most part. I don't see a bunch of rich single young ladies lining up to marry me.
Posted by Croacka
Denham Springs
Member since Dec 2008
61451 posts
Posted on 4/4/16 at 8:40 am to
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I'm an EE and I may not even make that much after 10 years of experience.


Not make 100k after 10 years in EE?


What industry do you work in?
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
481186 posts
Posted on 4/4/16 at 8:40 am to
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Exactly. While a large majority of us would consider saltwater fishing to be an expensive hobby and therefore tied to economic class, freshwater fishing is still tied to the higher social class in a historical sense. Historically, saltwater fishing=commercial fishing, whereas freshwater fishing=sport fishing (with flyrods, lures, and hired guides).

also this is east coast-centric

freshwater fishing means a vacation home on a lake or river away from the coast. it's a signal
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