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Posted on 1/28/18 at 2:56 pm to SlowFlowPro
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About 3-5x difference in interest
Okay, so maybe I don't use credit enough to know this.
Posted on 1/28/18 at 2:59 pm to castorinho
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well the shopping wouldn't be the main issue, the deception would.
It’s likely an addiction. You wouldn’t dump someone struggling with alcoholism. Not someone you love anyway.
Posted on 1/28/18 at 3:01 pm to Robin Masters
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It’s likely an addiction. You wouldn’t dump someone struggling with alcoholism. Not someone you love anyway.
It's usually the animosity that comes from the deception and arguing. People with addictions rarely accept blame or take responsibility
Posted on 1/28/18 at 3:06 pm to RogerTheShrubber
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It's usually the animosity that comes from the deception and arguing. People with addictions rarely accept blame or take responsibility
Pffft. Most people are addicted to something.
Posted on 1/28/18 at 3:29 pm to RightHook
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The constant nagging
#youtoo?
Posted on 1/28/18 at 3:37 pm to TigerBR1111
Unkess you have young children, are sick or have kids who are sick, shagging on a weekly basis -better if its multiple times a week- and the couple will stay connected.
Posted on 1/28/18 at 3:40 pm to TigerBR1111
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How is it that loving married couples end up hating each other so often? by TigerBR1111
Its worse with kids involeved.. So many stay togather even those they dispise each other just for the kids which is more unfair to them than if they just separated.............
Posted on 1/28/18 at 3:49 pm to TigerBR1111
most of the cases i have witnessed are simply a woman uses a man for food and a place to stay while raising kids, after that she no longer has to pretend because she never loved him to begin with and the years of "putting up with BS" by and from both of them, turns into that festering hatred.
95% of the hatred is cause by the actions of the woman, most guys arent very demanding so its not like they are high maint
95% of the hatred is cause by the actions of the woman, most guys arent very demanding so its not like they are high maint
Posted on 1/28/18 at 3:55 pm to keakar
I think the thing women want is attention. Sadly, Men tend to be neglectful.
Men tend to want to be left alone. Sadly, women tend to be naggers.
It tends to cause conflict. I've been married 27+ years so I'm an expert....
On exactly one marriage.
Men tend to want to be left alone. Sadly, women tend to be naggers.
It tends to cause conflict. I've been married 27+ years so I'm an expert....
On exactly one marriage.
Posted on 1/28/18 at 3:57 pm to TigerBR1111
Been married 23 years. Still happy.
Posted on 1/28/18 at 4:14 pm to TigerBR1111
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Never been married but
Stopped reading there.
Posted on 1/28/18 at 4:22 pm to TigerBR1111
the sex thing is real after kids
it can be difficult to keep that romantic mood going
ive seen a couple of marriages fall apart because of that
it can be difficult to keep that romantic mood going
ive seen a couple of marriages fall apart because of that
Posted on 1/28/18 at 4:23 pm to TigerBR1111
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How is it that loving married couples end up hating each other so often?
Honestly, this is more understandable every day of my life.
Hatred, divorce, and selfishness are all extremely easy.
Love, marriage, compromise, and forgiveness is extremely difficult. Worth it, and absolutely necessary for solid relationships, but no one ever said it was easy.
This post was edited on 1/28/18 at 4:29 pm
Posted on 1/28/18 at 4:26 pm to Robin Masters
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I’m not one to judge but I can’t imagine tossing my wife because of some shopping.
$30-60k is not "some shopping"
also, it shows a complete lack of respect for the other party and likely they hid it for a long time. add those to destroying your financial being for 10+ years and that's much worse than sticking your dick in something else
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And does that even resolve the debt?
no, but it's very likely not the only time something like this happens
Posted on 1/28/18 at 4:29 pm to Breesus
To answer the OP's question: Hate is not the opposite of love. Indifference is. When someone has such intense emotional feelings for someone else, that level of emotion doesn't usually go away. But it can change to deep resentment, jealousy or hatred. Rarely does a true deep-seated emotion just trickle away to apathy.
Posted on 1/28/18 at 4:40 pm to Robin Masters
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Pffft. Most people are addicted to something.
It's usually the lying or the lack of trying to quit that dooms a marriage.
Posted on 1/28/18 at 5:29 pm to Rize
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#youtoo?
upvote
Posted on 1/28/18 at 5:58 pm to canteen
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the sex thing is real after kids
it can be difficult to keep that romantic mood going
ive seen a couple of marriages fall apart because of that
Because of sex alone? Or the wife blew up and didn't try to get it back after kids?
If their marriage can't work through pure sexual issues after kids it seems like it was probably a bad issue to begin with.
Posted on 1/28/18 at 6:25 pm to TigerBR1111
Sometimes people just fall out of love, downhill from there
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