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re: How do you handle arguments with your spouse

Posted on 6/14/19 at 12:56 am to
Posted by SoulGlo
Shinin' Through
Member since Dec 2011
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Posted on 6/14/19 at 12:56 am to
Understand what emotion is and how it is affecting your thoughts, words, and actions. Let go of that which you fear to lose, and speak from that mindset.
Posted by stelly1025
Lafayette
Member since May 2012
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Posted on 6/14/19 at 6:18 am to
Depends on the argument and what mood I am in.
Posted by bencoleman
RIP 7/19
Member since Feb 2009
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Posted on 6/14/19 at 6:55 am to
Just don't argue. Don't call each other names. I don't call my wife names. we seldom argue.
Posted by bencoleman
RIP 7/19
Member since Feb 2009
37887 posts
Posted on 6/14/19 at 7:01 am to
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eat her fricking arse like bencoleman taught me



Holy shite what a sad fricking excuse.
Posted by Gatorbait2008
Member since Aug 2015
22953 posts
Posted on 6/14/19 at 7:06 am to
First answer was spot on...space
Posted by fishfighter
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Posted on 6/14/19 at 7:12 am to
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Just don't argue. Don't call each other names. I don't call my wife names. we seldom argue.


This. It's called respect for each other. We have 40 years invested in each other.
Posted by Bard
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Member since Oct 2008
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Posted on 6/14/19 at 7:17 am to
We're both pretty rational so we rarely argue. On the few occassions we have we give each other a little time to cool off then come back and talk about things when we've cooled off (an hour or three).

One of the most important things is for both of you to look at it from the other's standpoint before going into that follow-up talk. This is important for accepting recognizing any fault you have in this (it also means you each are then focusing on your own faults instead of looking for what to blame the other person for).

Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 6/14/19 at 8:04 am to
Posted by xGeauxLSUx
United States of Atrophy
Member since Oct 2008
21001 posts
Posted on 6/14/19 at 8:39 am to
Bill Burr has amazing advice on how women argue...


Bill Burr Youtube (NSFW language)
Posted by TygerTyger
Houston
Member since Oct 2010
9204 posts
Posted on 6/14/19 at 8:49 am to
quote:


How do you handle arguments with your spouse
BIll Burr - How women argue - NSFW language


"It's the campaign of victory"
Posted by madmaxvol
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Member since Oct 2011
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Posted on 6/14/19 at 9:07 am to
Posted by Bow dude72
Member since Mar 2017
2330 posts
Posted on 6/14/19 at 9:16 am to
Most of the time I take out my hearing aids
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 6/14/19 at 9:17 am to
You will never win an argument with a woman. And if you win, you lose.
Posted by Whodisbe
Member since Jan 2019
52 posts
Posted on 6/14/19 at 9:19 am to
About halfway trough the argument I interrupt her and say in a calm voice
“I’ve lost interest’

This works in all aspects of my life,
Posted by GeorgeQGlass
Austin
Member since Oct 2017
297 posts
Posted on 6/14/19 at 9:21 am to
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Divorced guy here. Listen carefully. Find her weakness. Turn it around on her


So the divorced guy says to find something she's self-conscious on or an area she's weak in and use it against her.

This is a dick move and means you're not truly genuine. This is what you do to someone that isn't on your team, not someone you care for. fricking games.

No shite you're divorced. Seems like you were always trying to one-up her instead on getting on the same page.

Terrible advice.
Posted by jamiegla1
Member since Aug 2016
6984 posts
Posted on 6/14/19 at 9:44 am to
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So the divorced guy says to find something she's self-conscious on or an area she's weak in and use it against her.

This is a dick move and means you're not truly genuine. This is what you do to someone that isn't on your team, not someone you care for. fricking games.

No shite you're divorced. Seems like you were always trying to one-up her instead on getting on the same page.

Terrible advice.


didn't think id need to explain to anyone that it was a joke. but it was a joke
Posted by Tempratt
WRMS Girls Soccer Team Kicks arse
Member since Oct 2013
13361 posts
Posted on 6/14/19 at 9:50 am to
I just lickity the slit with my Gene Simmons tongue.
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 6/14/19 at 9:51 am to
It’s so important to remember that you’re a team. Don’t be opponents trying to fight each other and win

Listen to what she’s saying and acknowledge it then work together as a team to solve the issue
Posted by Stonehenge
Wakulla Springs
Member since Dec 2014
706 posts
Posted on 6/14/19 at 9:51 am to
Spankings
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
97644 posts
Posted on 6/14/19 at 10:05 am to
When my wife is mad I’ll just sleep at my girlfriends
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