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re: How do you handle arguments with your spouse

Posted on 6/13/19 at 9:16 pm to
Posted by pwejr88
Red Stick
Member since Apr 2007
36187 posts
Posted on 6/13/19 at 9:16 pm to
When you get pissed.. and even if it’s justified.. walk away.
Just walk away.
Cool down.
Realize that what you’re fighting about will eventually be forgotten.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124316 posts
Posted on 6/13/19 at 9:18 pm to


Arguing, then ignoring, then rough make up sex.
Posted by udtiger
Over your left shoulder
Member since Nov 2006
98879 posts
Posted on 6/13/19 at 9:33 pm to
quote:

Give each other our space and come back to it an hour or so later where we both find fault in how we acted most of the time


Assuming your spouse will admit to any such thing.

In over 25 years of marriage, the words "I'm sorry" or "it's my fault" have never passed my wife's lips.
Posted by jamiegla1
Member since Aug 2016
6989 posts
Posted on 6/13/19 at 9:44 pm to
Divorced guy here. Listen carefully. Find her weakness. Turn it around on her
Posted by rintintin
Life is Life
Member since Nov 2008
16183 posts
Posted on 6/13/19 at 9:45 pm to
quote:

With logic


Well you definitely don't have a SO.

Posted by Old Sarge
Dean of Admissions, LSU
Member since Jan 2012
55313 posts
Posted on 6/13/19 at 9:46 pm to
Let her win

Every time


Learn from my mistakes
Posted by BoogaBear
Member since Jul 2013
5574 posts
Posted on 6/13/19 at 9:48 pm to
Strip butt naked.
Posted by DownshiftAndFloorIt
Here
Member since Jan 2011
66763 posts
Posted on 6/13/19 at 9:48 pm to
I just lose.

Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
22184 posts
Posted on 6/13/19 at 9:49 pm to
We haven't had a serious argument in years.
Posted by Pedro
Geaux Hawks
Member since Jul 2008
33583 posts
Posted on 6/13/19 at 9:50 pm to
quote:

How do you handle arguments with your spouse
Posted by Armchair_QB
Member since Aug 2013
1512 posts
Posted on 6/13/19 at 10:05 pm to
quote:

When you get pissed.. and even if it’s justified.. walk away. Just walk away. Cool down. Realize that what you’re fighting about will eventually be forgotten.


BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Posted by pwejr88
Red Stick
Member since Apr 2007
36187 posts
Posted on 6/13/19 at 10:11 pm to
Sorry you married a biotch
Posted by Mufassa
Member since Aug 2012
1664 posts
Posted on 6/13/19 at 10:58 pm to
How did you and Raul handle your spats?
Posted by djmicrobe
Planet Earth
Member since Jan 2007
4970 posts
Posted on 6/13/19 at 11:03 pm to
quote:

Just need some advice. Thanks.

If it is a pointless argument in front of the kids I tell her, "What argument is so important that it is worth destroying our kids hearts?"
Most adults know that arguments should not occur in front of the kids. They patiently wait for a time to have the mature discussion behind closed doors.

If your spouse is not mature enough to know this, then they need to be reminded many times.
If you have no kids, then this won't work.
My spouse seems to be addicted to arguing. Will argue over absolutely nothing. I am often amazed at the pointless arguments she likes to have.
If she is addicted to arguing, then she has a mental illness and needs help.
Posted by bpinson
Ms
Member since May 2010
2668 posts
Posted on 6/13/19 at 11:06 pm to
You cannot win, trust me on this.
Posted by beebefootballfan
Member since Mar 2011
19033 posts
Posted on 6/13/19 at 11:06 pm to
Posted by arcalades
USA
Member since Feb 2014
19276 posts
Posted on 6/13/19 at 11:28 pm to
apologize even if you're lying. bs apologies have amazing power
Posted by Geaux-2-L-O-Miss
Between Your Ears
Member since Aug 2005
3425 posts
Posted on 6/14/19 at 12:06 am to
I don't say a word. Just listen and on occasion say your right I'll do better. But most of the time I just let her talk and get it off her chest without saying anything because she usually realizes a day or so after that she was wrong (imagine that). When she realizes that she was wrong and I didn't say anything to correct her she respects me (BJ) more than normal.

Posted by bbrownso
Member since Mar 2008
8985 posts
Posted on 6/14/19 at 12:07 am to
Posted by 187undercover
Member since May 2019
1538 posts
Posted on 6/14/19 at 12:30 am to
With the back of my hand.
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