re: Have you ever been in love with a chick that is just OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE?

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Let’s be honest baw...you’re a damn sorry man if you can’t marry up from yourself.

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Some of us OTers have no choice but to marry down

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Once you’ve done that, if there is chemistry, things should happen naturally.

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Key point here.

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Eta - now going to find your most recent post to downvote it.

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yep and fifty year anniversary this summer

I have an overweight cousin who has made and lost millions multiple times. He generally can’t rub two nickels together. What he can do is pull top quality strange even if he’s broke. It simply doesn’t make sense, but I’ve witnessed it too many times to count. He’s a 4 on his best day

this chick, when I was 6. FallGuy (who posts on here) used to be seen with her

In high school I’d get crushes on girls that were out of my league. I ended up dating down in class and looks. Then I realized that looks mean less and less as you get older.

In college I moved away from home and sort of reinvented myself. Getting away from that high school circle gave me all the confidence in the world. I ended up dating a few that would previously have been ‘out of my league.’ I also had my share of one-nighters. It’s all about confidence.

I moved back home in my 20’s, found a new group of friends and pretty much did what I wanted dating-wise.

If you are out of college and stable, living in your own, employed, then you should be good.

I was also told if you have 2 of these 3 going for you, then you are good:

Good looks
Good dresser
Funny guy