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re: Guys with wives that were SAHMs - Did they go back to work after the kids went to school?

Posted on 6/13/17 at 9:41 pm to
Posted by Raghavan
Member since Jun 2017
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Posted on 6/13/17 at 9:41 pm to
50% do
Posted by CorkSoaker
Member since Oct 2008
9823 posts
Posted on 6/13/17 at 9:45 pm to
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Sure, and that's when I get to cook, wash dishes do laundry, etc.


Dishes don't take more than 10 minutes if you're hand washing. If loading the dishwasher, no more than 5 minutes.

Washer and dryer does the laundry. Folding a load of clothes takes 15 minutes tops.
Posted by Golfer
Member since Nov 2005
75052 posts
Posted on 6/13/17 at 9:47 pm to
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50% do


It's actually less than 50% and that number is distorted among the boomers. Gen X and Y aren't rates aren't as high.

Not to mention those that get divorced once are like 75% more likely to have a second, third, etc. so the 50% of marriages ending in divorce only accounts for about 20% of all people that have been married
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 6/13/17 at 9:48 pm to
I wonder what the rate of divorce is between dual working spouses vs those with one that stays hone
Posted by Raghavan
Member since Jun 2017
182 posts
Posted on 6/13/17 at 9:49 pm to
Gen x and Gen y get married way less than baby boomers and millennials even less
Posted by Golfer
Member since Nov 2005
75052 posts
Posted on 6/13/17 at 9:49 pm to
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Gen x and Gen y get married way less than baby boomers and millennials even less


No shite. Which contributes to their lower divorce rate. People that shouldn't be getting married, aren't.
This post was edited on 6/13/17 at 9:57 pm
Posted by 4cubbies
Member since Sep 2008
62748 posts
Posted on 6/13/17 at 9:50 pm to
It's great that being a SAHM was basically a vacation for you. I'm not sure why you feel compelled to argue with me about what my day looks like or how long it takes me to maintain my house.
This post was edited on 6/13/17 at 9:51 pm
Posted by Golfer
Member since Nov 2005
75052 posts
Posted on 6/13/17 at 9:53 pm to
I'm lol'ing at 5 minutes to wash dishes.

Posted by CorkSoaker
Member since Oct 2008
9823 posts
Posted on 6/13/17 at 9:56 pm to
Actually, I said 10 minutes to hand wash and 5 minutes to load a dishwasher. Next time you perform this act, time yourself. If it takes you much monger than this, you're doing it wrong.
Posted by LSUGrrrl
Frisco, TX
Member since Jul 2007
46437 posts
Posted on 6/13/17 at 11:52 pm to
my background is executive HR with a focus on Risk Management. I've consulted over my "retirement", conducted investigations and worked with legal cousel to defend suits. Several of my previous, large employers still contract me for such cases from time to time and I've been referred by a couple law firms I worked with for years for contract work, as well. I also have extensive background in employee education and exectuive training and have both built training programs or executive retreats and conducted both on a contract basis.

My background was in a niche market and I am still well regarded by those companies and others in the business and my certifications are kept up to date. I also continue to take courses on issues that are new to HRI just don't see being able to return full time with my husband's work and travel schedule.
Posted by tigersbb
Member since Oct 2012
13254 posts
Posted on 6/14/17 at 5:28 am to
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Guys with wives that were SAHMs


She's about a mover.
Posted by Rebel
Graceland
Member since Jan 2005
144672 posts
Posted on 6/14/17 at 5:38 am to
Latch key kids are one of the main problems that will eventually destroy our society.

Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
20667 posts
Posted on 6/14/17 at 6:28 am to
Many of those SAHMs are stepping out. Just sayin...
Posted by Armymann50
Playing with my
Member since Sep 2011
22459 posts
Posted on 6/14/17 at 6:31 am to
My wife is a stay at home mom for our puppies going on 17yrs. I don't think they plan on going to school any time soon.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
61725 posts
Posted on 6/14/17 at 6:49 am to
My wife stayed home for 5 years, she went back a couple years ago part time. I took a 50% income cut around then. Although we could make ends meet it was tough to do without extra cash. As my income increases I can't wait to be back where we were and have her stay home again.
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
16797 posts
Posted on 6/14/17 at 7:13 am to
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Gen x and Gen y get married way less than baby boomers and millennials even less


Gen Y and Millennials get married at exactly the same rate because they are the same generation.
Posted by sloopy
Member since Aug 2009
6913 posts
Posted on 6/14/17 at 7:16 am to
Have we covered stay at home dad yet?
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
43534 posts
Posted on 6/14/17 at 7:55 am to
Hey that Lipsense gig is what my brother's woman does during the summer (Teacher). She makes a killing. Almost enough to stop teaching haha.

My train of thought has always been if its cost effective for the mom to stay home, then do it.

However, no fricking man should ever be sitting on his arse at home. Sexist or not IDGAF. A MAN WORKS.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 6/14/17 at 8:01 am to
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Hey that Lipsense gig


That stuff is horrible. Can't believe I spent $55 on that crap.

quote:

However, no fricking man should ever be sitting on his arse at home. Sexist or not IDGAF. A MAN WORKS.


So what if the mom is highly successful in her career and makes enough for the man to stay home with the kids?

So only if it is the woman staying home with the kids...then it is beneficial to the family?
Posted by udtiger
Over your left shoulder
Member since Nov 2006
117182 posts
Posted on 6/14/17 at 8:16 am to
Mine went back for about a year after my youngest started in elementary school.

Had "mommy hours" and everything (worked while kids in school, day ended when theirs did, had same holidays off). Household still suffered a little bit and she did not go back after the school year ended (except for some "fill in" work for about another year).
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