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re: Guy that makes his SO fix his plate of food

Posted on 7/8/16 at 12:42 pm to
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
40298 posts
Posted on 7/8/16 at 12:42 pm to
She likes to.



You want me to train yours for you, too?
Posted by JOHNN
Prairieville
Member since Nov 2008
4513 posts
Posted on 7/8/16 at 12:42 pm to
I have to disagree here. My wife and I both offer to make each others plates depending on the situation. Most of the time one of us is handling getting the kids food made or getting them settled to eat so we offer as a nice gesture to each other.
I dont see how thats a douchebag thing to do. Douchebag would be getting my plate and eating while my wife is still getting the kids settles and then still has to make her plate.
Posted by REB BEER
Laffy Yet
Member since Dec 2010
18330 posts
Posted on 7/8/16 at 12:43 pm to
My stepdad makes my mom do this.

I need to get some pointers from him.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
93541 posts
Posted on 7/8/16 at 12:43 pm to
quote:

I'm amazed at guys that let their wives or girlfriends buy all of their clothes. I don't mean a few pairs of socks or underwear or something that was spotted on sale, I mean all of their clothes.

fine by me, I hate most shopping, especially clothes/shoe shopping
Posted by Rox
Member since Oct 2010
33333 posts
Posted on 7/8/16 at 12:43 pm to
My Mom has fixed my Dad's plate since they got together in 1980. I don't see anything wrong with it.

She will even cook him 'special' meals and she will eat a grilled chicken salad. She's just nurturing that way and that's how it's always been.

ETA: He has never FORCED her and never would. She just likes doing for others like me :)
This post was edited on 7/8/16 at 12:45 pm
Posted by ILikeLSUToo
Central, LA
Member since Jan 2008
18018 posts
Posted on 7/8/16 at 12:44 pm to
My wife does the cooking, so she fixes the plates of food unless it's something more conducive to self-serve. We do nice things for each other while still respecting each other.
Posted by Jester
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2006
34717 posts
Posted on 7/8/16 at 12:44 pm to
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when we go to other people's homes, my wife will fix me a plate to go without me asking. that's true love


You take food to go when you eat at someone's house? That's reprehensible.
Posted by Seldom Seen
Member since Feb 2016
48737 posts
Posted on 7/8/16 at 12:45 pm to
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Is there a more helpless, repressive, douchebag than this?




You sound like a cuck and that guy sounds smart.
Posted by oldcharlie8
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2012
7895 posts
Posted on 7/8/16 at 12:46 pm to
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You take food to go when you eat at someone's house? That's reprehensible.


I'm the life of the party. however, after I eat........I go straight to bed. I can't drink anymore. so.......no one lets me eat.
Posted by PeteRose
Hall of Fame
Member since Aug 2014
18301 posts
Posted on 7/8/16 at 12:46 pm to
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Is there a more helpless, repressive, douchebag than this?


as appose the working 50+ hours/wk
cutting the grass
fixing the car
taking out the trash
repairing roof leaks
fixing computer issues
killing rodents inside the house

Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
74569 posts
Posted on 7/8/16 at 12:46 pm to
I don't "make" my wife fix my plate. It's just something she's done for years without me ever asking.

As for being "helpless", I'm quite capable of placing food on a plate and do so whenever she's not around.

as for being "repressive", how is it repressive when she does it totally voluntarily? Is it repressive when I do things for her?

And how is it being a douchebag when your SO fixes your plate? I know this may come as a shock, but generally when in a loving and healthy relationship, SO's will want to do things for each other. This is one of the main ways affection for your SO is shown.


And finally, you sound like a miserable, whiney, SJW looking for something to bitch about.
This post was edited on 7/8/16 at 12:47 pm
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
122525 posts
Posted on 7/8/16 at 12:47 pm to
Pox are you as nurturing as your mother?
Posted by Creamer
louisiana
Member since Jul 2010
2817 posts
Posted on 7/8/16 at 12:47 pm to
quote:

Is there a more helpless, repressive, douchebag than this?


Have you seen Lester earl in the Dallas thread?
Posted by dnm3305
Member since Feb 2009
16413 posts
Posted on 7/8/16 at 12:49 pm to
My ex and I would fix each other's food often. If she is enjoying something and I am cooking I will gladly fix her plate, and likewise. You want a woman to frick the shite out of you, bring her breakfast in bed. Or is me bringing her breakfast in bed bending to her will too much? She would do the same for me often.
This post was edited on 7/8/16 at 12:50 pm
Posted by CorkSoaker
Member since Oct 2008
9823 posts
Posted on 7/8/16 at 12:49 pm to
My husband never makes me. I always offer. Sometimes he wants me to make it and sometimes he does it himself.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84835 posts
Posted on 7/8/16 at 12:50 pm to
My wife brings me breakfast in bed every morning. Sorry she treats me right, brah.
Posted by Honky Lips
Member since Dec 2015
2828 posts
Posted on 7/8/16 at 12:51 pm to
I do all the cooking. Not only do I fix my plate, I fix the plates for the entire family. I feel it's part of the meal preparation.

No way in hell would I let my SO make my plate, however. Even if she insisted, I'd never stoop to that level of douchbaggery
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
64544 posts
Posted on 7/8/16 at 12:52 pm to
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fine by me, I hate most shopping


The internet is hard, I agree.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
122525 posts
Posted on 7/8/16 at 12:52 pm to
quote:

I do all the cooking. Not only do I fix my plate, I fix the plates for the entire family. I feel it's part of the meal preparation.

No way in hell would I let my SO make my plate, however. Even if she insisted, I'd never stoop to that level of douchbaggery


True words by Honky Lips
Posted by bisonduck
Oregon City, OR
Member since Apr 2011
14006 posts
Posted on 7/8/16 at 12:53 pm to
My wife has me fix her plate...is she controlling?

It comes down to reciprocation.
This post was edited on 9/13/17 at 2:07 pm
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