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re: Going on a date with a divorced chick (UPDATE page 37)
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:42 am to VolsOut4Harambe
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:42 am to VolsOut4Harambe
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She’s using you for an emotional relationship and isn’t ready for an actual commitment. It might not be intentional, but she’s using you.
Agree with this. If you have feelings for her, RUN away now. If not, use her for what this really is; her getting back into the dating scene. This will not end well for you if you get emotionally involved.
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Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:43 am to VolsOut4Harambe
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My previous two relationships I ended on my own because I didn’t respect them.
But you respect this girl?
You're wearing blinders.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:44 am to VolsOut4Harambe
quote:She may not be a cheater.
She assured me that she's not a cheater,
But she cheated. Soooooo
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:46 am to VolsOut4Harambe
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I show up at the bar, and I catch her grinding with and making out with another guy.
She is so drunk that she can barely stand up.
Forget the fact that this is your girlfriend. Suppose it was some stranger. Would you look at this drunk girl at a bar and say, “damn, I want to be with her long term”
Now consider she is recently divorced...and your girlfriend. If that is still attractive to you, go for it.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:46 am to VolsOut4Harambe
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. I show up at the bar, and I catch her grinding with and making out with another guy
I hate to break it to you but she probably had already given that guy a blow job in the parking lot and he's probably nailed her several times since. Run, fast as you can
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:46 am to VolsOut4Harambe
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I think this one incident is a result of a lapse of judgement and care that stems from these issues.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:47 am to VolsOut4Harambe
Look man. After getting out of what she deemed to be a abusive relationship, she isn't ready to move on. She is going to play the field no matter with you there or not. And she needs to if that's what it takes to get over her marriage. You need to tell her she isn't ready and back off.
Also keep in mind, she might have showed you text from the other guy, but not the stuff she sent to him. Divorces tend to have two sides to things. He might not have cared about her at that point because of things she did to get there. I'm not saying that's the case, but someone emotional leaving a marriage will almost always have an exaggerated viewpoint from their side of things.
Also keep in mind, she might have showed you text from the other guy, but not the stuff she sent to him. Divorces tend to have two sides to things. He might not have cared about her at that point because of things she did to get there. I'm not saying that's the case, but someone emotional leaving a marriage will almost always have an exaggerated viewpoint from their side of things.
This post was edited on 4/12/21 at 11:48 am
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:47 am to VolsOut4Harambe
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Her ex husband emotionally cheated on her
What the f*ck does this mean?
If I were you I would have a talk with her Ex. I'm guessing she cheated on him "only once," and then "only once" again, and then "only once" again, etc.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:48 am to VolsOut4Harambe
Sucker. Post her pics as revenge.
This post was edited on 4/12/21 at 11:50 am
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:51 am to VolsOut4Harambe
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Apparently I am out of my mind.
as i said, i'm a hopeless romantic. but yes. yes you are.
3 days into a committed relationship and making out with somebody else, and what's worse, with friends that were letting it happen. unless she hasn't told anybody, her friends aren't going to stop her from cheating most likely in the future.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:54 am to MMauler
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If I were you I would have a talk with her Ex. I'm guessing she cheated on him "only once," and then "only once" again, and then "only once" again, etc.
I keep seeing people post "talk to the ex". Would that not be weird as shite to track down some dude who doesn't know you and then start asking a bunch of questions about whether you should nail is ex-wife? Having never been divorced nor dated a divorced woman, is this something that happens regularly?
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:55 am to eitek1
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everyone is the hero of their own story
Written down and will use again....thanks.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:56 am to jchamil
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I keep seeing people post "talk to the ex". Would that not be weird as shite to track down some dude who doesn't know you and then start asking a bunch of questions about whether you should nail is ex-wife? Having never been divorced nor dated a divorced woman, is this something that happens regularly?
I agree. Seems weird.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:56 am to MMauler
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What the f*ck does this mean?
Was gonna ask the same.
Emotionally cheated? You cheated or ya didn’t?
Maybe this is new millennial lingo?
Posted on 4/12/21 at 11:58 am to CourtJesster
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A little problem with your fake arse story: you show up to the bar, not saying how, but you have to get an Uber to take you home, but then you DRIVE to meet the Uber to get her phone???
shite don't add up
Took an Uber out planning to drink but was ok to drive once home with how things played out?
Huge red flag if the story is true though is that she’s either not telling the friends about you or that they don’t care that she was messing up a good thing. Either way, even if you assume the absolute best of her, you’ll always be wondering if her friend is ordering another round of shots and watching her implode.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:00 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
Invite her to meet you at a bar, and you be in the compromising position. If she’s okay with you and the other woman in a threesome with her, have at it, and hang on to her, she’s a keeper.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:02 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
I’m going to go against the grain here and say you need to lock this bitch down. Marry her and marry her quick. That way you can fix her. Sounds like you want to fix her.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:05 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
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Her ex husband emotionally cheated on her
Your use of this phrase tells me that you should definitely stay with her.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:06 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
Follow your heart man. It won't lead you wrong. She sounds like a wonderful woman and you would be a fool to walk away from that.
Posted on 4/12/21 at 12:09 pm to VolsOut4Harambe
quote:This sort of behavior from a woman who fricked you on the first date? Inconceivable!
I show up at the bar, and I catch her grinding with and making out with another guy
quote:So, you're no prize.
I get angry as hell and yell at her at the bar, right in front of everyone
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She seems very sincere in her apologies and assurances that she is never ever going to put herself in that situation again
How old are you? You ride in turnip trucks? quote:Yeah, smart to not really look at both sides. Remener the incident you're complaining about? Think he ever encountered similar?
. She showed me screenshots of texts he sent her, and reading them made me want to go find this motherfricker and fight him
quote:Of course she says and believes that. Wait until you transgress.
She tells me all the time that ever since she started dating me, she's the happiest she's been as far as she can remember
quote:Knock yourself out but most of us know where this is headed.
I like her way too much, and vice versa, for me to simply give up here
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