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re: Getting F u’ed by your sig other

Posted on 8/26/25 at 4:51 pm to
Posted by Dadren
Jawja
Member since Dec 2023
2984 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 4:51 pm to
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She apologized; I accepted

Good deal.

You move forward by forgiving her and trusting that she won’t do it again.
Posted by gizmothepug
Louisiana
Member since Apr 2015
8472 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 4:55 pm to
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Got into it last night over something stupid and was called a MF. Finding it tough to move on and get that out of my head. How often, if ever, has that happened to you? How did you get past that or is it just a given that it happens from time to time and you have learned to “normalize” it?


I’d say stop being a Bitch over getting called a MF, you can’t really think that’s that big of a deal can you? Been with my wife for 28 years, married for 23 and a cuss word here and there directed at each other isn’t that big of a deal.
Posted by Bard
Definitely NOT an admin
Member since Oct 2008
57628 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 4:56 pm to
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She apologized; I accepted


Then you let it go and chalk it up to a really bad time where a lesson was learned.

Now it's time to move on.
Posted by redchaser
Member since Mar 2014
312 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 5:06 pm to
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Been married 21 years. Got into it last night over something stupid and was called a MF. Finding it tough to move on and get that out of my head. How often, if ever, has that happened to you? How did you get past that or is it just a given that it happens from time to time and you have learned to “normalize” it?


Well are you an MF'er (in the rhetorical sense, not the literal)? If you earned it own it. If not I'd probably have a sit down and address it....calmly.
Posted by Sofaking2
Member since Apr 2023
18374 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 5:08 pm to
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Been married 21 years. Got into it last night over something stupid and was called a MF. Finding it tough to move on and get that out of my head. How often, if ever, has that happened to you? How did you get past that or is it just a given that it happens from time to time and you have learned to “normalize” it?

Demand respect, let her know you won’t tolerate that again ever. If it happens again she knows what is next.
Posted by Gee Grenouille
Bogalusa
Member since Jul 2018
7425 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 5:10 pm to
Well, considering I can be a MFer, I wouldn’t be that upset by it.
Posted by LSUDUCKMAN67
DTB
Member since Sep 2020
1553 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 5:23 pm to
Sounds like a normal argument at my house!

The make up sex is great…..
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
51511 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 5:25 pm to
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Got into it last night over something stupid and was called a MF

I mean, is she or mom or isn’t she?
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
119977 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 5:25 pm to
Hitting the sauce a little early, don’t ya think?
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
51511 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 5:28 pm to
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And she never apologizes. She just asks what I want for supper when she's ready to make up.

Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
51511 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 5:32 pm to
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Ask her

“Did you intend to hurt me by calling me a MFer?”

No! For God’s sake don’t do that. She’ll lose respect for you.
Posted by mauser
Orange Beach
Member since Nov 2008
25970 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 5:53 pm to
My wife would never say that. If she did, I'd worry that she's having some sort of cerebral event.
Posted by turnpiketiger
Member since May 2020
11965 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 5:56 pm to
You sound like a complete pussy
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
70159 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 6:16 pm to
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She apologized; I accepted



Posted by Whitey83
Member since Aug 2025
214 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 6:18 pm to
Don't ever, ever get married. Do something else with your life.
Posted by Grinder
Member since Nov 2007
2464 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 8:54 pm to
quote:

How did you get past that or is it just a given that it happens from time to time and you have learned to “normalize” it?


Dude don’t worry about that.

Most likely everyone hates your guts. You have to relax and let all that negativity roll off of you.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
72542 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 8:58 pm to
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Got into it last night over something stupid and was called a MF.
Only stupid mother frickers get into it over something stupid with their significant others so…

Posted by IndianPower
Louisiana
Member since May 2021
1354 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 9:06 pm to
If I had a nickle for everytime I was F-U'd over 25yrs of marriage I still would not have needed a college degree to bank $300k/yr
Posted by Napoleon
Kenna
Member since Dec 2007
72968 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 9:15 pm to
I'll be honest. The hardest thing I've ever gone through in life wasnt the death of a loved one or losing a dog. It was having the woman I who's eyes I looked into and swore to love forever quickly turn into my top adversary. To have someone you love turn to hate is hard. It makes it hard to give that love again.
It jades you. Usually and in most cases you rebound. But sometimes I think about my ex and miss the love. Question choices by both of us.
I'm much colder now after being on this side.
Posted by junkfunky
Member since Jan 2011
35667 posts
Posted on 8/26/25 at 9:23 pm to
Wtf, Oedipus?
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