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Posted on 10/9/23 at 3:17 pm to AwgustaDawg
Happy for you and your family. Let's see, our wedding was $1,000 thirty six years ago, yours was $1,500 thirty one years ago. Studies have shown there is an inverse relationship between cost of wedding and length of marriage.
Posted on 10/9/23 at 3:32 pm to RocketPower13
Big, expensive modern weddings are IMO the dumbest shite ever.
Posted on 10/9/23 at 3:34 pm to RocketPower13
Go to courthouse and get it over with
Posted on 10/9/23 at 3:42 pm to RocketPower13
Dude, Jody is wearing that stuff out, she's probably trying to figure out how to get in hin the wedding.
Posted on 10/9/23 at 3:52 pm to RocketPower13
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She's a people pleaser, she wants the destination wedding
She is the opposite of a people pleaser if she wants that. So I assume she's telling all of these people that it's in Hawaii yet refuses to pick a date so the people asking can make plans...and save money?
Y'all are asking a LOT of your friends and family.
Posted on 10/9/23 at 4:11 pm to Gris Gris
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trauma drama
She and I both have a past, as does everyone. We're both flourishing independently in our professional lives. This situation caught me off guard, but I'm reading a lot of positive comments.
Thank you all.
The thing that gets me is that I didn't propose to be engaged indefinitely, we planned on this, we talked about this ahead of time, our families were under the same understanding..
Posted on 10/9/23 at 4:28 pm to RocketPower13
Sometimes it just doesn't work out. Better you learn that now than after the wedding. Divorce is worse than calling off the engagement.
Posted on 10/9/23 at 4:31 pm to RocketPower13
Y'all need to consider having your wedding stateside and honeymooning in Hawaii. A destination wedding adds about a million extra steps to this process.
Planning a wedding is not this stressful, even without a wedding planner. I say this as someone who had a big traditional S. LA Catholic wedding.
Each professional you hire will know what they're doing. The church knows what the ceremony will look like, where the pictures will look best, etc. The florist knows how to...make floral arrangements and deliver them. The band knows how to play music and will have set lists, etc. Hire good people and let them do what they do!
Pick the venue and date 1st. Then she gets the dress. Even the dress will sometimes depend on the date of the wedding. For example, they can't all be made/delivered/altered in 3 months. Then pick music/photographer/flowers/food.
This activity shouldn't be rocking her world like this, so you need to find out what's really going on .
Planning a wedding is not this stressful, even without a wedding planner. I say this as someone who had a big traditional S. LA Catholic wedding.
Each professional you hire will know what they're doing. The church knows what the ceremony will look like, where the pictures will look best, etc. The florist knows how to...make floral arrangements and deliver them. The band knows how to play music and will have set lists, etc. Hire good people and let them do what they do!
Pick the venue and date 1st. Then she gets the dress. Even the dress will sometimes depend on the date of the wedding. For example, they can't all be made/delivered/altered in 3 months. Then pick music/photographer/flowers/food.
This activity shouldn't be rocking her world like this, so you need to find out what's really going on .
This post was edited on 10/9/23 at 4:33 pm
Posted on 10/9/23 at 5:23 pm to RocketPower13
So how long have you been engaged so far? I don’t think you said when y’all got engaged.
Most women, while maybe a little overwhelmed, are excited as hell to be engaged and ready to dive into some sort of planning.
The fact that she is stalling so much really should sound major alarm bells in your head. Like…does she still even want to marry you.
Most women, while maybe a little overwhelmed, are excited as hell to be engaged and ready to dive into some sort of planning.
The fact that she is stalling so much really should sound major alarm bells in your head. Like…does she still even want to marry you.
Posted on 10/9/23 at 6:57 pm to lsunurse
These extravagant weddings are such a waste of money.
Posted on 10/9/23 at 7:31 pm to RocketPower13
No one is coming to your wedding 7 time zones away. Get over yourself.
You and your bride, “who’s side you are on” we know, sound annoying.
You and your bride, “who’s side you are on” we know, sound annoying.
Posted on 10/9/23 at 7:37 pm to RocketPower13
Elope. My father-in-law thanked me afterwards.
Posted on 10/9/23 at 7:38 pm to RocketPower13
quote:let Elvis marry you in Las Vegas
Any advice??
Posted on 10/9/23 at 7:50 pm to RocketPower13
Destination weddings are BS. Have a wedding locally and then spend $$$ on the Honeymoon and go wherever you want. It's also inconsiderate to your prospective attendees.... you're not only wasting your money but also wasting a lot of money for other people.... many older people on fixed incomes (with inflation now) don't have that kind of money for a wedding and even if they have the money they don't want to spend it on this.
They won't tell you this..... but I will.
They won't tell you this..... but I will.
Posted on 10/10/23 at 10:35 am to RocketPower13
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The thing that gets me is that I didn't propose to be engaged indefinitely, we planned on this, we talked about this ahead of time, our families were under the same understanding..
Then, perhaps you both should reconsider the destination wedding idea which will require more planning and logistics. If she's overwhelmed at the thought of planning this event such that she can't even get started, then this will be a miserable ride for you both and as many have pointed out, she's not going to reach the goal she wants. Unless you're only having a few family and friends who have committed to the travel and expense, you will be missing folks. I'm not sure how that hasn't been discussed, unless this is really small.
Posted on 10/10/23 at 10:52 am to RocketPower13
Big weddings are a dumb waste of money.
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