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re: Friend gave his daughter $275k when she graduated college.

Posted on 1/14/22 at 7:29 am to
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
78101 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 7:29 am to
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kids need to build character and earn in themselves like we did! do they not care about being independent anymore
that's just stupid sounds like she's earned it.

This helps her get a much better starter home in a safer area and start building equity.

Bawdad did right by his daughter.
This post was edited on 1/14/22 at 7:30 am
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
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Posted on 1/14/22 at 7:29 am to
Pics?
Posted by LSUBoo
Knoxville, TN
Member since Mar 2006
101920 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 7:29 am to
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Wife and I debated 529 account a lot. Like what if the kids gets a full ride and we have to eat the penalties for withdrawing it.


Wife and I set up a 529 for my son... it can also be used for room/board, books, etc. From what I understand you can even buy a condo/house where your kid goes to school and use the 529 to pay yourself rent as an eligible expense, that's what we plan to do if he doesn't need it for tuition.
Posted by GetCocky11
Calgary, AB
Member since Oct 2012
51296 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 7:29 am to
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The sad part of the story is you all choose to live somewhere you have to pay for private school.

That is a Southern thing that has always been weird and you accept it.



It isn't a southern thing, it is a Louisiana thing.
Posted by TBoy
Kalamazoo
Member since Dec 2007
23728 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 7:30 am to
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If he was slowly over 20 years putting into an account in her name, maybe not?

That’s what I was thinking. If the account has been in her name the entire time, it may have already been hers, clean and clear. But I’m not an accountant.
Posted by Abstract Queso Dip
Member since Mar 2021
5878 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 7:30 am to
Depends on how he set it up. It could have been in a trust FBO. Could have been a 529 plan. Could have been a UTMA.
Posted by Billder
Where you live
Member since Nov 2009
5223 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 7:30 am to
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I think the daughter can just basically put this towards her inheritance and deal with it during the succession. You just have to fill out a form


This is true, but the form is critical or the IRS will come knocking. It just goes against his lifetime gift tax exclusion if done correctly.
Posted by The People
LSU Alumni
Member since Aug 2008
4209 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 7:30 am to
The discipline to stay the course with this is very impressive.

Hopefully his daughter has the same selfless mindset.
Posted by DarthRebel
Tier Five is Alive
Member since Feb 2013
21259 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 7:32 am to
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it is a Louisiana thing.

No, they do it in Mississippi as well.


Full disclosure though, while Texas schools are top notch and I do not have to worry about private. I do spend several thousands a year on kids sports.
Posted by GetCocky11
Calgary, AB
Member since Oct 2012
51296 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 7:33 am to
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quote:
it is a Louisiana thing.

No, they do it in Mississippi as well.



Ah I see. Probably goes back to when the white people got pissed off when the government desegregated the schools.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
Member since May 2012
55662 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 7:33 am to
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The sad part of the story is you all choose to live somewhere you have to pay for private school.

That is a Southern thing that has always been weird and you accept it.


imagine basing where you live on the quality of government schools
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
19305 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 7:35 am to
Sounds like she earned that money
Posted by LSU-MNCBABY
Knightsgate
Member since Jan 2004
24359 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 7:38 am to
Sets them up really great to start for sure, if they invest it well or use it to buy a house they can grow into with kids.

Hopefully she didn’t blow it on expensive purses and shoes to show off on tik tok
Posted by TheHarahanian
Actually not Harahan as of 6/2023
Member since May 2017
19528 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 7:39 am to

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kids need to build character and earn in themselves like we did! do they not care about being independent anymore?

This is a case-by-case thing.

Giving me money when I was that young would have been a mistake.

But a friend’s father bought each of his children their first house when they married, and that was a big boost for them. They had no monthly rent/mortgage payment starting out, and of course they had the value of the house to carry forward when they moved.
Posted by JDPndahizzy
JDP
Member since Nov 2013
6446 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 7:39 am to
That's an awesome story. I'm trying to do the same with grandkid's accounts. But it definitely will not be 275K!!!
Posted by foj1981
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2013
3746 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 7:41 am to
On a much smaller scale I would take my daily change and single dollar bills and put in a big plastic box for my daughter. I started this before she was born and gave it to her when she graduated LSU. It was about 25K.
Posted by LSUBoo
Knoxville, TN
Member since Mar 2006
101920 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 7:41 am to
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imagine basing where you live on the quality of government schools


Good public schools is a pretty fricking solid indicator for a lot of other things people with kids look for.

I mean, assuming you have kids... if not who fricking cares?
Posted by stout
Smoking Crack with Hunter Biden
Member since Sep 2006
167294 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 7:42 am to
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imagine basing where you live on the quality of government schools



Just a few days ago there was a thread here about lesbian and tranny teachers trying to indoctrinate children that people were pissed about but then when private schools come up some of those same people make fun of it. Weird.
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
68463 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 7:42 am to
Awesome to hear!

If you can swing it then do it
Posted by Ford Frenzy
337 posts
Member since Aug 2010
6876 posts
Posted on 1/14/22 at 7:43 am to
No, there is no tax on that money, just a reduction in the dads estate exemption.
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