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re: For men who are still married
Posted on 10/6/22 at 1:50 pm to fareplay
Posted on 10/6/22 at 1:50 pm to fareplay
Being from a different generation, I would marry my wife again. We were taught and learned to work through the good and bad times together. If she goes before me, I’ll never marry again.
Now, if I were a young man in the current world climate, where divorce is easy and stacked against men, I’d never get married and damn sure would not knock up some random hoe.
Now, if I were a young man in the current world climate, where divorce is easy and stacked against men, I’d never get married and damn sure would not knock up some random hoe.
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Posted on 10/6/22 at 1:53 pm to fareplay
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Would you do it again?
No
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Are married men actually happy?
Yes, even more when I stopped being a selfish a-hole.
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How much of ME time do you get before/after kids?
Plenty, and I try my best, my absolute best to get my wife to have some of her own.
Posted on 10/6/22 at 1:53 pm to fareplay
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How much of ME time do you get before/after kids?
Me time now is time with my kids. I hate doing anything fun/cool without them.
Posted on 10/6/22 at 1:55 pm to fareplay
Keep a bottle of Whiskey in a secret place, baw
Posted on 10/6/22 at 1:58 pm to fareplay
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Would you do it again?
Same wife? 100% yes, in a heartbeat. I'll be alone if, God forbid, she goes first though.
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Are married men actually happy?
I know I am for sure.
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How much of ME time do you get before/after kids?
I mean that changes for everyone unless you're not involved in your kids' lives, but I still have plenty.
Posted on 10/6/22 at 1:59 pm to John88
Extremely happy, but don’t think I could be with someone else if something ever happened, but if I did she would have smaller hands, for my complex!!
Posted on 10/6/22 at 2:05 pm to fareplay
Wouldn’t take a billion for her and wouldn’t give you a wooden nickel for another one just like her
LOL
LOL
Posted on 10/6/22 at 2:06 pm to fareplay
Yes. But to reiterate what others have noted…. It takes a lot of time and experience to pick the right partner.
I wouldn’t recommend it for everyone, and only for those who are family minded.
I wouldn’t recommend it for everyone, and only for those who are family minded.
Posted on 10/6/22 at 2:39 pm to fareplay
ten years this month
i am still happy
How much ME time? alot, we dont have to be on top of each other 24/7. no kids. neither of us wanted them.
would i do it again? yeah probably. Sometime i wonder what it would be like to be single again. probably a huge pain in the arse and would just hang out with my dog.
i am still happy
How much ME time? alot, we dont have to be on top of each other 24/7. no kids. neither of us wanted them.
would i do it again? yeah probably. Sometime i wonder what it would be like to be single again. probably a huge pain in the arse and would just hang out with my dog.
Posted on 10/6/22 at 2:54 pm to AGGIES
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AGGIES
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partner
Checks out.
Posted on 10/6/22 at 3:04 pm to fareplay
If I could find someone like my wife that:
- has no hangups or insecurities
- is tall and slim and yet curvy (no pics)
- has no health issues
- can outwork most men her age
- that I never, ever fight with
- that is a happy, silly drinker
- everybody loves her
- makes damn good money
- loves to whoop it up and dance
- makes everyone feel comfortable
- is not a deep thinker or controlling
- can slap a great meal together in 20 mins
- hates to shop
- can dress on the trashy side when appropriate
- equally content binging on Netflix all day or going on a strenous mountain hike (as long as there's wine after)
- wakes up next to me in the morning, her eyes open and she says "you want some booty?", after which the party starts
If I could find another woman like that, then yeah, I would do it.
- has no hangups or insecurities
- is tall and slim and yet curvy (no pics)
- has no health issues
- can outwork most men her age
- that I never, ever fight with
- that is a happy, silly drinker
- everybody loves her
- makes damn good money
- loves to whoop it up and dance
- makes everyone feel comfortable
- is not a deep thinker or controlling
- can slap a great meal together in 20 mins
- hates to shop
- can dress on the trashy side when appropriate
- equally content binging on Netflix all day or going on a strenous mountain hike (as long as there's wine after)
- wakes up next to me in the morning, her eyes open and she says "you want some booty?", after which the party starts
If I could find another woman like that, then yeah, I would do it.
Posted on 10/6/22 at 3:08 pm to RoyalAir
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Married 10+, kids.
You lose exact count at some point past 8-9 I guess?
Posted on 10/6/22 at 3:14 pm to fareplay
Marry again - 100%
Happy - yes
Before kid 1 - all I wanted
After kid 1 - enough
After kid 2/3 and currently - almost none, but whatevs. Being needed and loved unconditionally is a powerful feeling.
Happy - yes
Before kid 1 - all I wanted
After kid 1 - enough
After kid 2/3 and currently - almost none, but whatevs. Being needed and loved unconditionally is a powerful feeling.
Posted on 10/6/22 at 3:16 pm to ned nederlander
quote:As is having that taken away.
Being needed and loved unconditionally is a powerful feeling.
Posted on 10/6/22 at 3:19 pm to fareplay
If something happened to my wife I’d have a mental breakdown. I can’t imagine life without her. Don’t regret marrying her one bit, she may regret marrying me though
Posted on 10/6/22 at 3:21 pm to fareplay
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How much of ME time do you get before/after kids?
if you need "me" time, atleast any substantial time then dont get married and have kids....you are way too immature for it and will end up divorced in short order.
raising good kids is a sacrifice.
but to answer your question, yes i would do it again and yes i am happy. as far as me time, around 8 everyone is in bed and i go lift weights in the garage 4 or 5 times a week. as far as other things...we are usually busy with sports or school stuff but i still go play golf 5 or 6 times a year and go finishing about the same amount. usually attend 1 lsu game, just me and a buddy...though i prefer bringing my kids and seeing the joy on their face.
Posted on 10/6/22 at 3:49 pm to fareplay
Not only would I do it again, it sometimes make me sad almost 20 years are already gone.
Posted on 10/6/22 at 3:55 pm to fareplay
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Would you do it again? Are married men actually happy? How much of ME time do you get before/after kids?
Yes.
Yes, some of us are happy.
“Me” time depends. If I really want to do something, I do it. I enjoy spending time with my family and kid though, so I’m usually where they are.
Posted on 10/6/22 at 4:00 pm to Salmon
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Marry my wife? or marry someone else if something happened to my wife? because I would marry my wife again but I wouldn't get married again if something happened to my wife
This 100%. I'd marry her all over again but I'd never get married again if this doesn't work out.
Posted on 10/6/22 at 4:05 pm to fareplay
Going on 21 years married, 23 together. Three kids, 15, 11, and 6. Would absolutely do it all over again, without hesitation.
And you’re thinking about this all wrong: My time with my kids IS “me” time. I do what I enjoy pretty much whenever I want. Just now, I have someone to share those things with and pass them on to. And I’ve learned I enjoy things that my kids love that I never knew about before having them.
It’s a win-win for me. Wouldn’t change a thing.
And you’re thinking about this all wrong: My time with my kids IS “me” time. I do what I enjoy pretty much whenever I want. Just now, I have someone to share those things with and pass them on to. And I’ve learned I enjoy things that my kids love that I never knew about before having them.
It’s a win-win for me. Wouldn’t change a thing.
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