re: Ever had a naturally violent kid?

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My oldest was never violent at home, or ever got mad at anything really. When he started daycare (at 3) he was hitting kids, throwing chairs, screaming at teachers, pissing in toy boxes (yes, really). I still remember the first call I got from the daycare, I thought they had the wrong parent.

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well my child at least isn’t angry or scared when she’s doing this. She just does it because she thinks it’s fun, kind of like it’s her way of playing. Like others have said ITT maybe I should rough house with her as much.

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Do you have buddies or brothers that you play rough with when you get together with them. Not insinuating anything other than the question.

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no I grew out of that when I left the frat house

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BeachDude022

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I feel like this got lost at the bottom of the page
I’m not sure I could handle that, seems like a sign to run & not look back

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My gf’s oldest is 13 and violent af when he’s mad. His 9 year old little brother will harmlessly poke the bear sometimes and he responds by absolutely smoking him in the face or slamming him against the wall. We discipline him but he’ll then reply with “I hope you get in a car accident and you’re paralyzed forever.” Kid is morbid. He was almost kicked off of his 7th grade football team for intentionally trying to hurt his teammates during practice. His mom and dad have him in counseling, thank goodness. I don’t wanna wake up dead one morning.

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Kid sounds like a psychopath.

Look up sensory processing disorder and find a good OT. She is likely seeking input to her senses.

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My daughter is 2 and just started day care. She’s not a mean kid but she loves to wrestle and she laughs anytime I swat her leg, but this week 3 days into going to daycare she’s already tackled another kid, hit a kid and put a kid in a chokehold.

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In the olden days, my wife ran a Daycare.

Prepare to find a new Daycare....more than once.

She needs to learn to keep her hands to herself or one day someone gonna get violent back at her.

My 4 yo old daughter has been a terror since she could walk and talk. Been kicked out of 2 daycares. Gets irrationally violent and throwing things when angry and says the meanest things possible. We have tried every sort of parenting you can think of from spanking, time out, taking away rewards, etc etc. you name it we’ve tried it. We’ve heard everything from sensory overload to possibly on the spectrum to she’ll grow out of it. Tried counseling. All of it. Problem is she is way smarter than everyone else her age and just doesn’t know how to put it all together. We did put her in BJJ and she loves it and is taking boys down like it’s nothing. I won’t say it’s a cure but it has helped to some degree by instilling some discipline from someone other than us her parents as well as letting her be rough. We’ve never done medications as we’re both against it but I’d be lying if I said there aren’t days where we are ready to throw in the towel. Keep your head up.

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Kid sounds like a psychopath.

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I said that too. Weird thing is, kid adores me and wants to hang out all the time. I have no issue with him but shite, he needs to calm the frick down. He’s either plotting my murder or actually enjoys spending time with me…or both.