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re: Ever had a naturally violent kid?

Posted on 1/10/24 at 8:55 pm to
Posted by jpbTiger
Tampa FL
Member since Dec 2007
4981 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 8:55 pm to
Probably time to start the hormone shots and saving up for surgery. You obviously have a son and just didn’t know it
Posted by DownshiftAndFloorIt
Here
Member since Jan 2011
66763 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 9:03 pm to
School is hard on little boys. Don't dope the kid up man.
Posted by KCkid
Kansas City, Mo.
Member since Oct 2015
133 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 9:04 pm to
Deep down I know you are right.
Posted by junkfunky
Member since Jan 2011
33913 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 9:07 pm to
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I laughed because I was about to ask the same thing. My ginger 3 year old girl is hell on wheels.


I grew up with plenty of violent gingers and met plenty of others I wasn't related to when older. A lot were bipolar.

Also, science has confirmed they have a much higher pain tolerance so I think they assume everyone is the same especially when younger.
Posted by GREENHEAD22
Member since Nov 2009
19614 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 9:07 pm to
My oldest son was the same way, he grew out if it.
Posted by Big Tiny Little
Member since Jan 2024
90 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 10:15 pm to
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Ya know, since the other guy insinuated I beat my wife


Your daughter is the violent one. I took it to mean she was imitating her mother beating your arse.
Posted by Sterling Archer
Austin
Member since Aug 2012
7325 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 10:21 pm to
I hesitate to say violent but my one year old son is something like this. He’ll be playing with his older sister and for no reason will decide to yank her hair. I’ll verbally reprimand him or move his hand and then he’ll literally stare me in my eyes and try yanking it again. On one hand he’s one but on the other it feels like he’s testing me

Posted by WeagleEagle
Folsom Prison
Member since Sep 2011
1928 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 10:26 pm to
My 1 year does the exact same thing to his older brother. He gets like a damn bulldog and won’t let go.
Posted by Rza32
Member since Nov 2008
3610 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 10:34 pm to
Start her in MMA training.
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
164288 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 10:34 pm to
Nip that shite in the bud or next thing you know she’ll be wearing flannel and playing roller derby.
Posted by Rick9Plus
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2020
1724 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 10:36 pm to
It’s cute now but won’t be when she’s getting suspended from kindergarten and they are talking “special” classes. Stop roughhousing with her, even as a joke. Teach her to use her words. If she’s naturally “active”, get her into sports and other physical activities to get her energy out and possibly give her the chance to excel at something. A family member’s kid was like that. They all laughed about what a badass he was during the toddler years but he was medicated as hell and in special classes just to get through a school day.
Posted by Bow08tie
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2011
4225 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 10:36 pm to
Does the home TV frequently air wrestling? Lol

Some of her behavior can likely be tied too "the terrible two`s". Two year olds brain lobes/functions are beginning to really kick in. A two year old isn't yet sure whats right from wrong, so there's not much hesitation or holding back they just go and do.
This is where the parents begin/continue to set boundaries and begin teaching right and wrong.
Posted by Lima Whiskey
Member since Apr 2013
19325 posts
Posted on 1/10/24 at 11:00 pm to
Children are naturally violent.
Posted by jbgleason
Bailed out of BTR to God's Country
Member since Mar 2012
18913 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 2:56 am to
The number of people on here talking about medicating a two year old kid scares the shite out of me. Be a parent, don't give a kid drugs. Damn man. No wonder we have school shooters.
Posted by Proximo
Member since Aug 2011
15561 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 3:48 am to
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My daughter is 2 and just started day care. She’s not a mean kid but she loves to wrestle and she laughs anytime I swat her leg, but this week 3 days into going to daycare she’s already tackled another kid, hit a kid and put a kid in a chokehold

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Hawgnsincebirth55

Checks out
Posted by bamaguy17
Member since Jul 2022
727 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 4:48 am to
My oldest was never violent at home, or ever got mad at anything really. When he started daycare (at 3) he was hitting kids, throwing chairs, screaming at teachers, pissing in toy boxes (yes, really). I still remember the first call I got from the daycare, I thought they had the wrong parent.

Being new parents, we freaked, took him to be tested for ADHD, he showed signs and they wanted to medicate. We didn’t, and suffered through a few years of holding our breath. By 8, he was better, 9 even better, 10 he was never in trouble again.
Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
22207 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 5:10 am to
I grew up in the '70s and '80s. All of us kids were naturally violent.
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
54731 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 5:16 am to
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she’s already tackled another kid, hit a kid and put a kid in a chokehold.


Is this wrong?

Is that violent or physical?

I hit all kinds of things as a kid and it served me well when I took up sports. I seemed to excel at contact sports but was not mean or violent.
Posted by Snipe
Member since Nov 2015
10945 posts
Posted on 1/11/24 at 5:39 am to
I'm not psychologist but aggression without anger (i.e. seemly for the fun of it or pleasure) seems like a pretty big red flag.

Posted by BeachDude022
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Posted on 1/11/24 at 5:39 am to
My gf’s oldest is 13 and violent af when he’s mad. His 9 year old little brother will harmlessly poke the bear sometimes and he responds by absolutely smoking him in the face or slamming him against the wall. We discipline him but he’ll then reply with “I hope you get in a car accident and you’re paralyzed forever.” Kid is morbid. He was almost kicked off of his 7th grade football team for intentionally trying to hurt his teammates during practice. His mom and dad have him in counseling, thank goodness. I don’t wanna wake up dead one morning.
This post was edited on 1/11/24 at 5:41 am
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