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re: Do you have a “One That Got Away”?

Posted on 6/25/20 at 6:13 am to
Posted by Mr Perfect
Member since Mar 2010
17836 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 6:13 am to
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female I have met since my wife has confirmed that I married the perfect woman for me.





lmao how pitiful dude.
Posted by SlidellCajun
Slidell la
Member since May 2019
10349 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 6:13 am to
Very few girls have the climbing ability to make it out. But there was this one. I should have known too. She had very muscular shoulders and back and great dexterity.
I was away gathering some supplies for my hobby. Pincushions, shadow boxes ... stuff like that.

When I came back, the yelling that had become a part of my natural auditory life- was gone. It was an eerie silence if I’m being honest.

The walls of the hole were spotted with fresh markings. Not the old markings that served to scare the others. These were fresh.... and I knew.... she got away.

The sadness was immediate. No shock. I went straight to sadness. It was debilitating for a while. I couldn’t focus on my hobby or even drive around at night looking for projects.

I miss that girl. Supple. Strong. White white. She had a translucence to her skin that I hadn’t ever seen. Still haven’t.

I’ll find her though. I keep telling myself that. It drives me. Keeps me going.

The weird thing though is that the others that I’ve had since might just as well be mannequins. I go through them like they’re not even there. It’s troubling because I actually enjoy the emotion.

Good thread

Posted by CoachChappy
Member since May 2013
32514 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 6:50 am to
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Do you have a “One That Got Away”?


No, I'm not a serial killer.


Or you are a very good one
Posted by The Spleen
Member since Dec 2010
38865 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 7:12 am to
Not really. I had a good friend in high school that told me years later she was always into me and kept waiting for me to ask her out. Deep down I was into her as well, but thought she just saw me as a friend so never pursued anything with her. That's the closest I have, and I doubt it would have gone anywhere serious had we dated.
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
39067 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 7:23 am to
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he's unaware of the tiger he's put a ring on.


Geaux Tigers!
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
421771 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 7:30 am to
i had one like 15 years ago that i thought was that. really broke my heart

but over the years she just fell off. she got married to a real controlling/abusive POS for a while and that's a major red flag

last i heard she was living in a trailer with her aunt and i think she was involved in some left wing terror group
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
39067 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 8:07 am to
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she got married to a real controlling/abusive POS for a while and that's a major red flag last i heard she was living in a trailer with her aunt and i think she was involved in some left wing terror group


So she is easily swayed and takes direction from anyone offering. You could date her for aboot a month. She would see you as an escape from her miserable life and bring her A game to the sheets.

Good luck, Baw.
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
10037 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 8:13 am to
I dated a hot and slutty bartender in college. Big mistake falling in love with her. She was so well trained in the art of vile things. I still think about her when I rub on out and there is no porn available
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
108098 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 8:13 am to
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Hate to say it man, but any long term relationship without a fight doesn't exist.



My one that got away we never got in a single fight either. Tended to agree on almost everything. Didn't have to compromise on shite either. When the breakup came, I was absolutely flabbergasted and couldn't make sense of it for years. She just said she fell out of love and it was that simple. I eventually came to this same conclusion that a certain amount of fighting was healthy for a relationship to where I put up with some more shite than I should have in my later relationships. The aftermath of the breakup fricked me up for a while, but I'm in my best place I've ever been now.
This post was edited on 6/25/20 at 8:21 am
Posted by LSU alum wannabe
Katy, TX
Member since Jan 2004
26964 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 8:22 am to
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Nope. We are married.




Indeed.

My wife would have been the 2nd "one that got away". I was moving and making a career change. Timing was horrible, but I was finally smart enough to say "nah, I think I'll give this one a try."
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
108098 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 8:24 am to
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I was a shitty human being at the time and ruined it for something new and different. She was this perfectly composed angel. Funny, intelligent, beautiful. She went on to get married and have kids. I got married and it didn't work out.

For all appearances, she's in a great marriage with a guy that treats her the way I should have. I see her every now and again... And we fall right back into conversations and flirting from 15 years ago. It's effortless and perfect.

Her husband is a good guy, and I'd never touch an involved woman these days, but she's the only one I ever broke that rule for... Even as a morally bankrupt 20 year old. She's too good to ever ask, but if she ever did, I'm not sure I have it in me to say no.


Dude, she's got fricking kids man. I'd hope you'd have the moral fortitude to say no, otherwise you shouldn't use "shitty human being" in the past tense.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
102982 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 8:30 am to
Yes. My first wife. My life was a bit of a mess when we first met. She was heavily involved in politics. I ended up being dragged into in ways I never dreamed and came close To dying several times.

After things finally settled down after the death of her father we got married and had a son. Everything was awesome until my son was about 12 and we decided to send him off to train with my wife's brother. Somehow he became corrupted and even tried to kill my brother in law and the other students. It caused a deep rift between me and my wife. I said eff it and went back to smuggling. The only thing I was ever really good at.
Posted by The Mick
Member since Oct 2010
43077 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 8:33 am to
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met her about 15 years later and she was weighing in at about 225 and looked exactly like her extremely large mom.
They all become their mom eventually
Posted by DmitriKaramazov
Member since Nov 2015
4468 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 8:49 am to
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After things finally settled down after the death of her father we got married and had a son. Everything was awesome until my son was about 12 and we decided to send him off to train with my wife's brother. Somehow he became corrupted and even tried to kill my brother in law and the other students. It caused a deep rift between me and my wife. I said eff it and went back to smuggling. The only thing I was ever really good at.


Bad news. Your son is going to kill you.
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
90506 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 8:49 am to
Yes. There were a couple, one especially. I love my current gf but if that one randomly showed back up (she won’t) it would be very hard to say no.
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
90506 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 8:52 am to
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then , met her about 15 years later and she was weighing in at about 225 and looked exactly like her extremely large mom.


I have a lot of ex gfs and flings that turned out this way. The advice “look at her mom if you want to know what you’re gonna marry” is very solid advice. It’s actually amazing to me how many hot arse girls let themselves go. Equally amazing is how many average it uglier girls when they were young turn out pretty decent looking 10-15 years later
Posted by Murtown
OT Ballerville
Member since Sep 2014
1607 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 9:41 am to
At the Spanishtown parade one time I was about 18. This smoking hot chick on a float asked me for a beer. I tossed her one, she showed me her tits, gave the tongue through the fingers poon licking gesture and told me to get on the float with her.

I was too much of a wuss to leave my friends and take off. Always wonder what would have stemmed from that. Probably an STD but it would have been fun.
Posted by Champagne
Already Conquered USA.
Member since Oct 2007
48272 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 10:07 am to
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she said he had a really small peen


Look, man. There are a LOT of things that a small peen guy can do in order to be good in bed.

So they say.
Posted by ATLabama
Member since Jan 2013
1602 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 10:13 am to
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From personal experience I have to say the second time around does not work out.


Always figured that.

Whenever there's an actual break-up, there's always some collateral damage/scarring that never quite goes away.

Say you were to get things back going again, there's always going to be a little voice in the aggrieved party from the break-up, waiting for the other shoe to drop. It's no one's fault, rather, just human nature.
Posted by TheDeathValley
New Orleans, LA
Member since Sep 2010
17151 posts
Posted on 6/25/20 at 10:38 am to
I almost made the same mistake as OP. Met a girl my last semester of college, and we started dating informally.I was leaving for grad school in Georgia and she had one year left at LSU.

Right before I left I said frick this, and asked if we could give the long distance thing a try. We have been married for 5 years now with a two year old and a baby boy due next month (bama game baby!).
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