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Do you consider porn and sex chatting cheating?
Posted on 12/20/20 at 2:43 pm
Posted on 12/20/20 at 2:43 pm
This summer, I found that my husband of 25 years had been watching porn. It broke my heart, I consider it cheating. He told me that he would have never done this if he thought it would hurt me. He said he has stopped. I can't eat, sleep, or do anything but cry. I feel like I am a good wife. What have I done wrong? Also, he has hookup sites, and has been receiving porn associated texts. Should I trust him, or let him go. He is a good man, I don't want to lose him.
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Posted on 12/20/20 at 2:44 pm to LadyJ
oh this will go well
Posted on 12/20/20 at 2:44 pm to LadyJ
Friend,
Absolutely. That this question needs even addressing is clear evidence for how bollixed and bewildered our civilization is. Alasdair MacIntyre, perhaps the greatest moral philosopher of this and the last generation, closes his indispensable After Virtue with the warning: “the new dark ages are already upon us.”
For those that would even dare to answer that lust of another who is not his or her spouse is acceptable, under what authority do you make such a proclamation? Do you reject the teachings of the One whose coming is near, the very Jesus who takes away the sin of the world? Do his words -- “You have heard that it was said, ‘Do not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart” -- mean nothing to you? All morality that is just and true comes from Jesus.
To proclaim the bad news -- that Jesus is wrong and that pornography is acceptable -- is a moral offence to which you will one day answer. Indeed, that even one of you here could suggest such a preposterous stance is evidence that MacIntyre was correct and we do live in a time after the age of virtue, an age of nothing but empty emotivism.
It is high time that those who care for love, justice, and truth stand up and condemn the lies of emotivism and secularism. It is time to find the One who is the arbiter of right and wrong, Jesus Christ.
Yours,
TulaneLSU
Absolutely. That this question needs even addressing is clear evidence for how bollixed and bewildered our civilization is. Alasdair MacIntyre, perhaps the greatest moral philosopher of this and the last generation, closes his indispensable After Virtue with the warning: “the new dark ages are already upon us.”
For those that would even dare to answer that lust of another who is not his or her spouse is acceptable, under what authority do you make such a proclamation? Do you reject the teachings of the One whose coming is near, the very Jesus who takes away the sin of the world? Do his words -- “You have heard that it was said, ‘Do not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart” -- mean nothing to you? All morality that is just and true comes from Jesus.
To proclaim the bad news -- that Jesus is wrong and that pornography is acceptable -- is a moral offence to which you will one day answer. Indeed, that even one of you here could suggest such a preposterous stance is evidence that MacIntyre was correct and we do live in a time after the age of virtue, an age of nothing but empty emotivism.
It is high time that those who care for love, justice, and truth stand up and condemn the lies of emotivism and secularism. It is time to find the One who is the arbiter of right and wrong, Jesus Christ.
Yours,
TulaneLSU
This post was edited on 12/20/20 at 3:27 pm
Posted on 12/20/20 at 2:45 pm to LadyJ
Porn no
Sex chatting on hookup sites, uh yeah
Sex chatting on hookup sites, uh yeah
Posted on 12/20/20 at 2:45 pm to LadyJ
Should use an alter for something better than this thread.
Posted on 12/20/20 at 2:45 pm to LadyJ
quote:
sex chatting cheating
Yes.
Posted on 12/20/20 at 2:46 pm to LadyJ
This thread is 100% legit. /s
Posted on 12/20/20 at 2:47 pm to LadyJ
Start giving BJs and making sandwiches, and earn his love back.
Posted on 12/20/20 at 2:47 pm to LadyJ
quote:
This summer, I found that my husband of 25 years had been watching porn. It broke my heart, I consider it cheating.
Porn? Nah, but it's not healthy for people in committed relationships to watch much. All men wank it occasionally. Nothing to be too terribly alarmed about unless y'all stopped having sex or something.
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Also, he has hookup sites, and has been receiving porn associated texts.
Yeah, that would be concerning to me if it was my spouse.
This post was edited on 12/20/20 at 2:49 pm
Posted on 12/20/20 at 2:47 pm to LadyJ
Porn - not cheating.
Sex chatting and hookup sites - sleazy and borderline. Precursor to cheating, meaning he was building up to it.
Sex chatting and hookup sites - sleazy and borderline. Precursor to cheating, meaning he was building up to it.
Posted on 12/20/20 at 2:48 pm to LadyJ
Porn: No
Sex chatting: Just pathetic
Sex chatting: Just pathetic
Posted on 12/20/20 at 2:48 pm to fallguy_1978
quote:
but it's not healthy for people in committed relationships to watch much.
Agree.
Posted on 12/20/20 at 2:49 pm to LadyJ
Porn, no. Sex chatting, absolutely.
Posted on 12/20/20 at 2:50 pm to RogerTheShrubber
I used to watch porn a hell of a lot more than I do now. I won't say never but I don't think it's good for my sex life so it's pretty damn close to never.
Posted on 12/20/20 at 2:50 pm to LadyJ
Yes it is cheating. He’s fantasizing about sex with someone other than you.
Posted on 12/20/20 at 2:50 pm to LadyJ
quote:
porn
No.
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sex chatting
Yes.
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What have I done wrong?
Copy and paste.
Posted on 12/20/20 at 2:53 pm to LadyJ
Porn? No
Sex chat? Yeah, if that’s not cheating, it’s right on the line.
In my experience while in a committed relationship, I rarely had any desire to look at porn until my so and I had gone more than 3 weeks without sex. Porn was a crutch for not getting laid, not a replacement for the real thing. As soon as we would start having sex again with any amount of regularity, I wouldn’t even think about watching any porn.
Sex chat? Yeah, if that’s not cheating, it’s right on the line.
In my experience while in a committed relationship, I rarely had any desire to look at porn until my so and I had gone more than 3 weeks without sex. Porn was a crutch for not getting laid, not a replacement for the real thing. As soon as we would start having sex again with any amount of regularity, I wouldn’t even think about watching any porn.
This post was edited on 12/20/20 at 2:57 pm
Posted on 12/20/20 at 2:55 pm to LadyJ
When watching porn affects the relationship negatively, it is basically cheating. By that I mean:
- when you refuse sex with your spouse because you’ve already cranked one or more out that day
- when you start perferring erking off to porn as more enjoyable than sex with a spouse
- when you have a hard time maintaining an erection because porn has desensitized you
- when you refuse sex with your spouse because you’ve already cranked one or more out that day
- when you start perferring erking off to porn as more enjoyable than sex with a spouse
- when you have a hard time maintaining an erection because porn has desensitized you
This post was edited on 12/20/20 at 2:57 pm
Posted on 12/20/20 at 2:55 pm to LadyJ
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