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re: Do you consider porn and sex chatting cheating?
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:18 pm to fallguy_1978
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:18 pm to fallguy_1978
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Some married couples have decent sex lives. I swear, TD makes me feel like my marriage is some one off minority situation sometimes. You have to work on it.
I’m glad you said this bc I felt the same way.
I’ve known my husband more than 20 years and I’m still happy/excited when he gets home from work - or even when he sends me a text during the day.
I guess I’m weird.
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Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:18 pm to fallguy_1978
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Some married couples have decent sex lives. I swear, TD makes me feel like my marriage is some one off minority situation sometimes. You have to work on it.
And no, it won't be 6 times per week like when you were dating after 20 years, but there's no reason that you can't still have a fairly active physical relationship either.
Of course these situations exist. Those are the healthy marriages where none of them are using porn as a crutch or cheating because they’re insecure or resentful.
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:20 pm to GreenRockTiger
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I’m glad you said this bc I felt the same way.
We've been together for 17 years and other than a few ruts here and there our sex life has been fairly consistent. Again, not like when we were newlyweds, but certainly not non existent either.
This post was edited on 12/20/20 at 3:24 pm
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:22 pm to fallguy_1978
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Some married couples have decent sex lives. I swear, TD makes me feel like my marriage is some one off minority situation sometimes. You have to work on it.
Lack of sex is just a symptom of a relationship with few real feelings or emotions for each other.
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:23 pm to GreenRockTiger
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I’ve known my husband more than 20 years and I’m still happy/excited when he gets home from work - or even when he sends me a text during the day
Your man will watch porn and stuff like that too but not if y'all have a fairly healthy sex life. I assume y'all are least over 40 considering you've been together 20 years.
We aren't 17 year old boys anymore. Just take care of him occasionally and all is well
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:24 pm to GreenRockTiger
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I guess I’m weird.
You are weird, and the OT accepts you for it
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:29 pm to LadyJ
Damn if watching porn is cheating then everyone cheats lol
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:29 pm to LadyJ
This is pathetic
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:32 pm to LadyJ
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I feel like I am a good wife. What have I done wrong?
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husband of 25 years
Time is a millstone. Maybe he’s feeling old and wants to feel young again. And look, no matter how old we get men like looking at some curvy, well endowed PYTs.
This post was edited on 12/20/20 at 7:17 pm
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:33 pm to LadyJ
In.
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:34 pm to fallguy_1978
I felt like we had a great marriage. He has always been so good to me. We have great sex very often 3 to 4 times per week. He said that his work mates look at it, and he did also. He promised not to do this again because it hurt me. So could the chat sites just be spam from his former watching? Random text also? He hasn't responded to my knowledge.He is really so good to me. Am I over thinking this? Should I trust him and let it go?
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:35 pm to fallguy_1978
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Agreed. I think if some man or woman watched it once a month and did their thing it probably wouldn't be a big issue but that's not generally what happens. I've had a friend that admitted to me that it ruined his first marriage.
Even Ted Bundy says porn was a trigger for his lust for rape and murder.
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:36 pm to LadyJ
Walt, you've really gone off the deep end. 
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:37 pm to LadyJ
My ex-wife used to really get pissed at me for jerking off (and not to anything specific), just the act itself. I'd go to bed, and she'd be staying up watching TV. And I need a release to fall asleep, so I do my business, and then she comes to bed an hour later ready for sex and I'm obviously not. And she gets all pissy and is like "why you jerking off when you have me?" Women like that, just wired differently I guess. Because I don't look at it as cheating. If the roles were reversed, I wouldn't care at all if my wife was using a vibrator while I'm away. Doesn't bother me.
And what women don't realize, is we have so many girls in our spank banks. The spank bank, is like the modern day harem, and I'm King Solomon. I still fantasize about my HS crushes from 25 years ago. And I ain't thinking about their 40+ year old with 3 kids current day selves. I'm remembering the hottest cheerleader coming out of the locker room in her cheer shorts and sports bra. Those girls will live forever in my mind, and there's nothing any woman can do about. So it's not a character defect on your end, it's just how men are wired.
And what women don't realize, is we have so many girls in our spank banks. The spank bank, is like the modern day harem, and I'm King Solomon. I still fantasize about my HS crushes from 25 years ago. And I ain't thinking about their 40+ year old with 3 kids current day selves. I'm remembering the hottest cheerleader coming out of the locker room in her cheer shorts and sports bra. Those girls will live forever in my mind, and there's nothing any woman can do about. So it's not a character defect on your end, it's just how men are wired.
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:38 pm to LadyJ
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He said that his work mates look at it, and he did also.
If you aren't trolling, he's probably not fricking around on you. And who talks about porn at work?
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:38 pm to Rouge
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You are weird, and the OT accepts you for it
Thank you!
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:39 pm to LadyJ
Masturbating to porn is not cheating. Masturbation is normal, natural, and healthy.
Chatting with other people about sex online is unhealthy and inappropriate in my view, but I dont think it is akin to physical cheating, either.
Chatting with other people about sex online is unhealthy and inappropriate in my view, but I dont think it is akin to physical cheating, either.
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:39 pm to LadyJ
Porn? No lol.
Chatting with some? Yeah that’s over the line.
Chatting with some? Yeah that’s over the line.
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:40 pm to LadyJ
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watching porn
Hell no.
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hookup sites, and has been receiving porn associated texts
That’s pushing it but nah.
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:41 pm to fallguy_1978
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And who talks about porn at work?
A lot of blue collar baws love showing off the goods on their cellphones to their "colleagues". I've seen it.
Even if you don't ask for it.
This post was edited on 12/20/20 at 3:42 pm
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