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re: Do you consider porn and sex chatting cheating?

Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:41 pm to
Posted by Capitaino
Estero FL
Member since Nov 2020
183 posts
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:41 pm to
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We have great sex very often 3 to 4 times per week.


Now we know you're trolling. Nobody married for 25 years has sex 3 to 4 times a week.

Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
42554 posts
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:41 pm to
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I assume y'all are least over 40 considering you've been together 20 years.


My husband is over 40 - I just turned the big 4 - 0 last month

We have six kids

Posted by ThereGoesHerschel
Member since May 2011
882 posts
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:43 pm to
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TulaneLSU


You typed that whole reply out and responded 1 minute after the op (clearly an alter) posted. Either you had that reply queued up and ready by writing it beforehand or you must be typing on a stenographer machine.

Why be a female with your alter?
This post was edited on 12/20/20 at 3:44 pm
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
261842 posts
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:43 pm to
quote:

Masturbating to porn is not cheating


If it's in lieu of sex, it is.
Posted by LSUBoo
Knoxville, TN
Member since Mar 2006
101930 posts
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:43 pm to
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We have six kids


Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48862 posts
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:44 pm to
quote:

My husband is over 40 - I just turned the big 4 - 0 last month

We have six kids

shite, we are older than y'all. I'll be 43 in a few weeks and my wife is 4.5 years older than me
Posted by Dr RC
The Money Pit
Member since Aug 2011
58140 posts
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:45 pm to
just looking at porn videos? no, not at all

but sexting with somebody? yeah... I'd say that's over the line.
Posted by OleWar
Troy H. Middleton Library
Member since Mar 2008
5828 posts
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:45 pm to
quote:

TulaneLSU


Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
10056 posts
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:46 pm to
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This summer, I found that my husband of 25 years had been watching porn. It broke my heart, I consider it cheating. He told me that he would have never done this if he thought it would hurt me. He said he has stopped. I can't eat, sleep, or do anything but cry.

I can’t imagine why he turned to porn
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
42554 posts
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:46 pm to
That’s exactly what it looks like when I say it’s dinner time
Posted by lsusteve1
Member since Dec 2004
42074 posts
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:48 pm to
Instead of beating him up, discuss why he feels the need for this extracurricular activity.
Posted by Demshoes
Up in here
Member since Aug 2015
10224 posts
Posted on 12/20/20 at 3:55 pm to
Porn no. Sex chatting yes.
Posted by Ross
Member since Oct 2007
47824 posts
Posted on 12/20/20 at 4:00 pm to
It depends on the terms of your relationship. It should be stated clearly where the boundaries are. That said, if you don’t think your SO would be perfectly fine with your actions you are probably in tumultuous water and teetering a little too close to the line for comfort.
Posted by USMEagles
Member since Jan 2018
11811 posts
Posted on 12/20/20 at 4:03 pm to
quote:

TulaneLSU


What about watching porn with one's wife? Is that OK?
Posted by TulaneLSU
Member since Aug 2003
Member since Dec 2007
13298 posts
Posted on 12/20/20 at 4:03 pm to
Friend,

As you can see, I edited it. My first response was a quick and brief one, something to the effect of, absolutely both are wrong. They are tantamount to lust, and that is adultery, and Jesus plainly condemns it. There is not even a shadow of possibly justifiable pornography. Then I realized the absolute state in which we exist when I read some people were suggesting pornography was acceptable. It warranted a slightly longer response.

Yours,
TulaneLSU

P.S. USMEagle, no. If you are objectifying a person in such a manner, it is wrong. Perhaps it is even worse because two are joining in such a sinful act.
This post was edited on 12/20/20 at 4:05 pm
Posted by Tider13
Member since Jun 2020
539 posts
Posted on 12/20/20 at 4:05 pm to
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- when you refuse sex with your spouse because you’ve already cranked one or more out that day
- when you start perferring erking off to porn as more enjoyable than sex with a spouse
- when you have a hard time maintaining an erection because porn has desensitized you


All of this is BS.

Ask any guy if they would rather have sex or watch pron and jerk. I bet over 80% go with sex. The other 20% want pron and sex.

Also, does no one watch pron with their wife? Jesus you guys are missing out.

Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124631 posts
Posted on 12/20/20 at 4:07 pm to
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That’s exactly what it looks like when I say it’s dinner time


For real though, good on you. Big families are a blessing
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
63583 posts
Posted on 12/20/20 at 4:09 pm to
quote:

Also, does no one watch pron with their wife?


I do. Though I prefer her '00s work to her '90s filmography.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
136855 posts
Posted on 12/20/20 at 4:12 pm to
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And what women don't realize, is we have so many girls in our spank banks. The spank bank, is like the modern day harem, and I'm King Solomon. I still fantasize about my HS crushes from 25 years ago. And I ain't thinking about their 40+ year old with 3 kids current day selves. I'm remembering the hottest cheerleader coming out of the locker room in her cheer shorts and sports bra. Those girls will live forever in my mind, and there's nothing any woman can do about. So it's not a character defect on your end, it's just how men are wired.


This douche canoe

Your mom must be proud
Posted by USMEagles
Member since Jan 2018
11811 posts
Posted on 12/20/20 at 4:24 pm to
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P.S. USMEagle, no. If you are objectifying a person in such a manner, it is wrong. Perhaps it is even worse because two are joining in such a sinful act.


Thank you for your theological opinion, TulaneLSU.
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