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re: Do men willingly have platonic female friends?

Posted on 12/15/19 at 8:13 pm to
Posted by HoustonChick86
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Posted on 12/15/19 at 8:13 pm to
I've went out for drinks with Hulklogan here as just friends. I consider him a pretty close friend even though we don't talk on the phone. But I honestly don't do that with female friends either.

It is possible to have platonic relationships.
Posted by DiamondDog
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Posted on 12/15/19 at 8:14 pm to
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Posted by OWLFAN86
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Posted on 12/15/19 at 8:15 pm to
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HoustonChick86

when we went out you couldn't keep your hands off me
Posted by fallguy_1978
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Posted on 12/15/19 at 8:15 pm to
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I've went out for drinks with Hulklogan here as just friends. I consider him a pretty close friend even though we don't talk on the phone. But I honestly don't do that with female friends either.

It is possible to have platonic relationships.

I didn't intend this to be a knock on women btw. I have two daughters. Just curious if I was being an a-hole for saying that to my wife.
Posted by 1BamaRTR
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Posted on 12/15/19 at 8:17 pm to
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I've went out for drinks with Hulklogan here as just friends.

This
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A heterosexual male with a female friend always entertains the poss8bility of sex. He may never act on it, but the thought is there.
probably applies for him though
Posted by HoustonChick86
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Posted on 12/15/19 at 8:18 pm to
Oh god. I do have to add you, dwag and bb to my list of guy friends.
Posted by BayouBlitz
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Posted on 12/15/19 at 8:19 pm to
So, I think your answer is yes, as long as there is no attraction.
Posted by OWLFAN86
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Posted on 12/15/19 at 8:19 pm to
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dwag and bb to my list of guy friends.


Im your only male friend with hair
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
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Posted on 12/15/19 at 8:19 pm to
Sure. Quite a few. You just have to be mature enough to not make everything about getting your dick wet.
Posted by Globetrotter747
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Posted on 12/15/19 at 8:20 pm to
Yes, but I think a man (for the most part) can only have a truly platonic relationship with a woman he’s not really attracted to. Otherwise, his main objective is going to be to tap it.
Posted by dcrews
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Posted on 12/15/19 at 8:20 pm to
No straight man will be friends with any woman he wouldn't frick.
This post was edited on 12/15/19 at 8:21 pm
Posted by dcrews
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Posted on 12/15/19 at 8:23 pm to
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Yes, but I think a man (for the most part) can only have a truly platonic relationship with a woman he’s not really attracted to


Nah, if a man wouldn't frick her, he isn't going to be friends with her.
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
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Posted on 12/15/19 at 8:27 pm to
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A heterosexual male with a female friend always entertains the poss8bility of sex. He may never act on it, but the thought is there.


One of my friends is a nun and another is married, so both of them are very much off limits.
Posted by fallguy_1978
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Posted on 12/15/19 at 8:27 pm to
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If we like a woman enough to hang out with her for no reason, it means we want to have sex and/or a romantic relationship with her. We're pretty simple creatures.

Agreed. Unless there's some other connection like her being your neighbor or buddy's old HS girlfriend. That was my whole point.
Posted by MrFreakinMiyagi
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Posted on 12/15/19 at 8:35 pm to
Generally speaking, no. Of course there are exceptions.

Deep down, women know this. They will want to hang out with their guy “friends” and will do their best to convince their partner that it is completely innocent, but yes, the guys want to frick. In most instances, the attraction isn’t necessarily mutual, but she still loves the attention.

“I just get along with guys better.” We’ve all heard that more times than we could count.

Then, she’ll go apeshit over you hanging with other females, because deep down, she can’t fathom why a guy would want to hang out with a female that he didn’t want to bang.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
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Posted on 12/15/19 at 8:38 pm to
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In most instances, the attraction isn’t necessarily mutual, but she still loves the attention.




Yep. A hot chick+fat guy friend combo is wildly common.

An attractive dude with a fat chick friend is not nearly as common.
Posted by Globetrotter747
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Posted on 12/15/19 at 8:39 pm to
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Nah, if a man wouldn't frick her, he isn't going to be friends with her.


Then, to me, it’s not really a friendship. I have two female friends that I talk to regularly and I don’t want to frick either of them.
Posted by Tiguar
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Posted on 12/15/19 at 8:40 pm to
You kind of prove the point with an addendum, though.

Platonic attractive female friends don’t exist
Posted by fallguy_1978
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Posted on 12/15/19 at 8:40 pm to
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 I have two female friends that I talk to regularly and I don’t want to frick either of them.

Maybe my question should have been "can a man have an attractive female friend?". I still say no.
Posted by dcrews
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Posted on 12/15/19 at 8:45 pm to
I have several female friends with whom I enjoy their company and their conversation.

Doesn't mean I haven't thought of fricking them or wouldn't frick them if they gave me the opportunity.

I can't name a single female friend that I have that I'm not attracted to or wouldn't frick given the opportunity (outside of co-workers, which is basically a forced association)
This post was edited on 12/15/19 at 8:47 pm
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