re: Did you have a bully when you were younger?

Had a guy from the neighborhood that wore hearing aids. Great guy just a little different. We were from across the tracks so no one really ever messed with us.. So this rich kid always picked on him. We warned the rich kid. You better leave him alone. We'll he didn't. So eventually the rich kid crossed the line and made fun of him and the way he spoke. We were in the football locker room. The kids with hearing aids was 3 lovkers down. I'm trying to get my damn girdle pads off when the hearing aid kid hits the rich kid in the damn nose and there is blood flying everywhere. Yep broke nose. After that the rich kids let him alone. He had already beat the leaders arse and they didn't want any of him.

Had a kid bullied me in 5th grade. I was small and insecure. My bigger friend beat his arse. He stopped. I always hated the guy but realized later he was being abused by his dad. If he wpuld have tried me in my senior year of high school I would have killed him with my fists because I was much stronger and more confident. I think the dude ended up going to jail and then dying of an OD in his trailer.

I had a bully in elementary on the bus. I wound up and punched him once. Only time I’ve ever hit somebody in my life.

He was giant and I was tiny. He shrugged it off, pushed me down, and then left me alone. We were all good throughout JH and HS.

He actually was murdered by his brother in law a few years back. I got an amber alert for my incredibly small home town and was surprised but didn’t think much of it. His wife’s sister was separated from her husband and was staying with my bully and his wife and the BiL showed up and shot the adults and kidnapped the kids.

Sadly, I was a bully to a kid in elementary school. He was a fat kid and so was I, so to be one of the cool kid’s, I went after him hard so they wouldn’t come after me. Sort of made amends in college but still regret everything I did to him just to save my arse.

I had a bully in the 6th grade that I punched in the face at lunch and made half of his face look like E.T. I got suspended for a couple of days. I never got bullied after that. Fast forward to 20 years old. I was a volunteer wrestling coach at my high school since my brother was there. Former bully's younger brother was on the team. Good kid and decent wrestler. What shocked me was the former bully never grew after 6th grade. I towered over him at 6'4". I would put $500 that Jimmy posts on TD. High possibilty that it could be Mingo, but I can't confirm.

I was a short lived bully. In the 3rd grade after a move I started being a bully. I don’t know why really but I picked on kids smaller than me. Anyway I was making fun of a much smaller kid one day and he wound up and popped me in the nose really good. I was more in shock than in pain but I just stood there for a sec before I turned around and ran. That was the end of my short lived bully career. Thank you Ryan for teaching me humility at such a young age.

I had a bully from 2nd grade. Bullied me every year. I was a skinny kid with glasses, but a good athlete. Started playing football in the 4th grade & took up boxing in the 6th. Come Jr High bully decides he wants to play his first year.

At practice we go “heads up” & the first year players got to choose who they wanted & of course bully chose me. By this time I had filled out some and was one of the better players on the team. Coaches asked bully, “you sure, I think you should choose someone else”. Bully said “no I want him”. Coach said “ok, careful what you ask for”. I just grinned & knew what was about to happen. Bully didn’t play football anymore.

Bully isn’t done. He said “you may be better at football, but I can still whip your arse”. I just grinned. No more bully & he quit school a couple years later.

Funny my cousin married his sister & I see him around time to time. He still won’t even look at me.

Yep. Wish I would have stood up for myself.

My Dad told me not to cause any trouble basically. BC both of my parents worked non stop.

It has haunted me for life.
No matter what I do. I feel I have no value.

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Did you have a bully when you were younger?

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Yep. 6th grade. Kid had problems I think, like maybe a real bad home life. I think he was truly a psychopath.

About 15 years later he did the world a favor and offed himself.