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re: Did you have a bully when you were younger?

Posted on 8/13/22 at 5:25 am to
Posted by dyslexiateechur
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 8/13/22 at 5:25 am to
I had a female bully. So nothing physical but lots of mean comments that caused an eating disorder at one point.
Posted by offshoretrash
Farmerville, La
Member since Aug 2008
10166 posts
Posted on 8/13/22 at 5:33 am to
When I was 8 or 9 we were getting bullied by a couple kids that lived down the street from us. One day it came to a head, we'd had enough. My brother and I met them across the road from their house with sticks in our hands. They dared us to cross the road, so we did and met in the middle of the road. We whipped their arse with those sticks and never had trouble with them again, we became good friends after that.

That taught me a lesson at an early age to never put up with bullying so if you tried me, you better be ready to fight because I never backed down or took shite from anyone.

My middle daughter was getting bullied at school and came home crying about it a few times. I had heard enough and told her if she came home crying about it again, I'd give her something to cry about. I told her the next time the girl got in her face to hit her as hard as she could right in the nose.
We had warned the school this was happening and what the outcome was going to be, but they did nothing to stop it. Well lunch time they were in line in the cafeteria and the girl started in on my daughter. She hit the bully as hard as she could in the nose, blood went everywhere. That was the last time my daughter was ever bullied again.
Posted by rd280z
Richmond
Member since Jan 2007
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Posted on 8/13/22 at 5:37 am to
They were usually older kids that may have flunked a grade and were bigger than us. It all worked out as we got bigger and the bully became an after thought.
Posted by Gorilla Ball
Member since Feb 2006
11630 posts
Posted on 8/13/22 at 5:38 am to
I had a kid that was probably in 9th or 10th grade I was in 5th grade - I didn’t go to school with him. In fact I don’t even remember how I met him, but that bastard used to hit me so hard I’d have bruises on my arms.
Why would an a-hole bully someone that much younger than you?
Posted by Mike da Tigah
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Member since Feb 2005
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Posted on 8/13/22 at 6:57 am to
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I think it was 100% verbal


That’s not bullying. That’s simply an opportunity to fine tune your retorts and speak up for yourself. Bullying is very much physical, and I don’t really care what these people think today. Words don’t hurt you. Five to the face hurts.
Posted by CincinnatiTiger
Cincinnati, OH
Member since May 2010
904 posts
Posted on 8/13/22 at 7:03 am to
Posted by olgoi khorkhoi
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Member since May 2011
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Posted on 8/13/22 at 7:23 am to
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He just said he was going to tell on us for dipping in P.E.



Wierdo. I skipped everything else, but lived for PE
Posted by Crisprdestroyer
Member since Sep 2017
591 posts
Posted on 8/13/22 at 7:42 am to
When I was in elementary there was big kid that would bully me. He also rode my bus. It was never really too bad. Now that I’m older and know causes of bullying I can understand. That kid lived in the worst looking run down rv. I know his life was probably horrible when he got home. Age Definitely changes your perspective.
Posted by cypresstiger
The South
Member since Aug 2008
10561 posts
Posted on 8/13/22 at 7:45 am to
Everybody had a bully or bullies when I was a kid. There was a pecking order and you simply dealt with it your own way.

Not like today, where “He pointed at me” leads to the school getting sued.
Posted by cypresstiger
The South
Member since Aug 2008
10561 posts
Posted on 8/13/22 at 7:49 am to
if she came home crying about it again, I'd give her something to cry about.

—20th century response: Great job, teaching her to stand up for herself
—21st century response: So you bullied her into hitting another girl? You brute.
Posted by CaptainDave
Member since Apr 2019
243 posts
Posted on 8/13/22 at 8:03 am to
I had a brief moment around 7th grade that I wanted to bully someone. I picked a fight with a kid and he broke my nose.

One of the best things to ever happen to me.
Posted by BruslyTiger
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Posted on 8/13/22 at 8:13 am to
Other than being the youngest of 5 kids, I want picked on much outside of the family.

The was a guy at the start of 8th grade who messed with me for about the first few weeks. When I asked him what his problem was he said, "your brother isn't here to protect you anymore." So I punched him in the nose, problem solved.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
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Posted on 8/13/22 at 8:17 am to
nah i was 6' 170 in 6th grade
Posted by CleverUserName
Member since Oct 2016
12463 posts
Posted on 8/13/22 at 8:23 am to
No. Our class through school was the outlier. Everyone was cool with everyone. We were all friends. No one from lower classes dared pick on anyone and the upper classes couldn’t because of numbers.

Later on, parties with copious amounts of beer consumption and no one worried about fights.

It was a small 2A MS school though.
Posted by LSU Grad Alabama Fan
369 Cardboard Box Lane
Member since Nov 2019
10013 posts
Posted on 8/13/22 at 8:25 am to
I got bullied once. It was in 6th grade. It was a large black kid in my class.

We were in science class one day and the dude was sitting in the back throwing erasers, rubber bands and whatever else he could find at people. One of my friends snitched on him. The teacher said if he threw something at you then leave a note on my desk after class. Stupid me wanting to back up my friend leaves a note. The kid saw me place something on her desk. He walks over and picks me up by the neck with one hand and tosses me 5 feet through the air.

The dude got a 3 day suspension for it, but they stuck him back in my classes for the rest of the day. The dude just stared at me the whole time. All my friends planned my funeral during our lunch period. After that day we didn't have any further issues. I learned my lesson and he's probably in jail somewhere. I learned to not snitch unless it's a life or death situation.
Posted by LSU Grad Alabama Fan
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Posted on 8/13/22 at 8:30 am to
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I had a kid that was probably in 9th or 10th grade I was in 5th grade - I didn’t go to school with him. In fact I don’t even remember how I met him, but that bastard used to hit me so hard I’d have bruises on my arms.
Why would an a-hole bully someone that much younger than you?



We had to go to the high school starting in 7th grade. I remember that being the worst year. We had a bunch of kids that had already been through puberty and were 2 or 3 years older than us in our classes. They were all the poor loser kids that failed and didn't want to be at school. When we had assigned seating and I was forced to sit next to them I would let them copy my homework so they wouldn't frick with me. I'm not sure why they wanted to copy a C student, but I guess getting some answers right is better than none.

If you didn't submit in someway you were definitely going to face their wrath. A lot of nerdy kids that made all As had to learn the hard way.
This post was edited on 8/13/22 at 8:35 am
Posted by zippyputt
Member since Jul 2005
5720 posts
Posted on 8/13/22 at 8:41 am to
Yes, 3 that I remember.
1 is in jail for life
1 is now a preacher
1 is now a cop

Absolutely true.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
113830 posts
Posted on 8/13/22 at 9:10 am to
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That said, were you using a wheelchair in grade school?


Yes. I used one my entire life. I had a push wheelchair until I was a freshman in HS. Having a lot of cousins my age or close to my age and living in a neighborhood with a lot of kids around my age and then being in school as the only kid in a wheelchair, I never considered myself any different than anyone else.

That was part of the problem when I all of a sudden had to go to a whole new school for 3 years. All of a sudden I was treated like "the kid in a wheelchair" which meant people were overly nice and treated you in a different way that the other kids or all of a sudden the kids who normally got "bullied" felt like they had someone they could try to "bully".

I hate saying the worried "bully", because I think its normal behavior for kids. Yes its parents job to take care of those situations, etc but it teaches kids how to defend themselves. Today kids get to play victim if they are bullied.
Posted by TwoFace
Member since Mar 2018
1113 posts
Posted on 8/13/22 at 9:16 am to
In 6th grade, I had an 8th grade bully. Mostly just pushing and threatening me anytime he saw me. Jr high was 6,7,8 grade. One day on the bus he took a clean shot as I was heading to the exit. I remember thinking it didn't hurt like I imagined it would. He moves on to high school. 2 years later, as a freshman, I walk into the restroom and there he is. As a junior in high school, he looked like he hadn't grown an inch since he was in 8th grade. I was much bigger than him, and the scared on his face was enough for me. Many years later, as adults, he has bought me a drink whenever we run into each other.
Posted by Tom Joad
Member since Sep 2021
192 posts
Posted on 8/13/22 at 9:43 am to
Not a regular thing, but one guy 2 or 3 years older tried bullying me at a basketball game when I was about 11 years old.

This guy had invited himself to spend the night at my house a couple of years before. We weren't friends by any means, and I don't remember ever even talking to the guy before he invited himself. I think maybe he invited himself because I had a horse, and we did ride it some after arriving at my home.

Come time for bed, though, and this guy started crying like a little girl, wanting to go home to his Mommy, and my Mom did call her, and she came to pick him up, and said this wasn't the first time it happened.

So flash forward a couple of years at the basketball game, and I guess the dork though I might tell somebody about the crying incident so he was going to act all tough. Crazy thing is that I didn't think of him before any of that or after the basketball game, except to think the whole thing was just bizarre.

I went to a small school and we all mostly got along fine.
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