re: Dating Question

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Apparently she pulled some strings with a business associate in Louisville and got great seats.

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Did she confront you this morning about having an open relationship?

Her version of “pulling strings” might be reverse cowgirl…

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I almost ended things with her back in January because she wore too much jewelry on a date.

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I remember this thread.

Whatever you do don’t break up with her until after basketball season.

Marry her. She's a catch

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Anyway, she bought “us” tickets to the Sweet 16 and Elite 8 this weekend in Louisville. That means she wants to be serious, right?

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Not necessarily. Maybe she enjoys your company. Let it be, and allow things to progress naturally. Don't overthink it.

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I’m probably overthinking this, but that’s what I do.

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Do you think? If you like her, and she likes you, nothing else matters. Don't let anyone else into your circle. Allow things to progress naturally, and don't get caught up in the what if --- this is nothing more than your anxiety coming through, which is really just fear masked.

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Let us know if she enjoys the games or plays on her phone and acts miserable. THEN we can provide input.

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She enjoys the game. These will be our 9th, 10th, and 11th games we have gone to together. 2 regular season Bama games, and all 6 tournament games in Birmingham. I have bought the tickets for all the other games.

She did bring her Kindle to the games Thursday and read her book during the late game. I took the hint and we left before halftime.

The fact that you are even questioning this trip shows that you really do eff relationships up within the first few months.

You are both adults... go have fun... if its not fun.. break up.

You will find out eventually.. why not sooner than later.

You didn't include ages so let's assume (I know) you're both over 35; her buying the tix was what adults do when they KNOW both people in the relationship enjoy the entertainment.

This was the makeup and jewels chick right? Glad to hear it worked out.

Now just breathe and let it ride. Try not to overthink it. Just enjoy each others company and what happens will happen. At the very least, you’re getting to see Bama on a potential NC run in BB.

You are an idiot. Friend, lover, ugly girl down street, or girlfriend....whatever. You go on that trip. Have a great time. Deal with the worries later. Elite 8!!!!