re: Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game (Book)

Probably 12 of those little, annoying dogs

DOWN WITH THE HOMINIDARCHY

I just thought they were talking about value in regards to physical attractiveness/sexual attraction.


Which both are important when dating to initially be attracted to that person. Obviously other factors come into play(personality, similar interests, values, etc) as the relationship progresses. But it's not gonna progress if the two are not initially attracted to one another.


If I was suddenly single tomorrow my dating pool is not gonna be men younger or my age that want large families with the most fit or hottest chick. If I'm at a bar with a 26 year old woman that is similar in looks to me(same height, hair color,etc)....I'm gonna guess the guy is gonna initially be more physically attracted to the younger woman over myself. Unless he specifically has had previous negative experiences with younger woman(found them too immature, etc).


My dating pool would have to change to men that already had children and weren't looking to have more biological kids, or men that didn't want children at all and preferred woman in my age group cause they had more maturity than women in their 20s.

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But no condoms is fun

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I'm only supposed to do that with a wife?

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And what I don't think you get, is that the value of men and women, and relationships, is not always something that can be reduced to science,

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you sound like the old sports writer who refuses to use analytical stats b/c they refuse to acknowledge that things can be broken down very finely. this is a generational divide (i am admittedly on the crack of it) that does make agreement difficult

i err on the side of science, math, rational analytics and not the side of emotions and mythology

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But I think sometimes, you try to put everything you discuss into some sort of scientific equation, and you ignore reality. Because you've never lived it, or experienced it. It's simply an equation to you.

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i am not the guy who said he can run through 100 girls in a year. i said i'm the guy who can tear through fat chicks and trashy girls on OKC. i spent the majority of my life believing in romantic fairy tales b/c i am a victim of the feminist mindset

i don't want other guys to lose out on some of the most fun years of their lives being frustrated at life b/c they are living in a society engineered to lower their value and outlook (which is why we have the college deficit in the first place and why male suicide is an epidemic and the clearest sign of female privilege)

Is this really breaking news that guys stock goes up as they age and women's plummet like a rock after 30?

You don't say

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. i spent the majority of my life believing in romantic fairy tales b/c i am a victim of the feminist mindset

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line from fightclub?

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don't want other guys to lose out on some of the most fun years of their lives being frustrated at life b/c they are living in a society engineered to lower their value and outlook (which is why we have the college deficit in the first place and why male suicide is an epidemic and the clearest sign of female privilege)

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you need to date outside if your race

I read that a white guy with ANY other race had a better chance of staying married than if he married a white girl.

And the opposite for white girls, they are more likely to divorce anyone who isn't white.

I think that's fascinating.

If poo-na-nee was a stock, it would go down the more it's in play, and plummet after a certain age.

Men, on the other hand, their stock goes UP with age (insert joke), because as they get older, they are more experienced and better at using their tool.

Fems got the game twisted , for sure

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I met my (now) wife within a month or so of moving to NYC, though. So I kinda screwed myself from being able to capitalize. But no condoms is fun.

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There is no reason to wear a condom unless the girl makes you. Guys do not get STD's from straight vaginal sex. If you have any modicum of control over your balls you can easily suppress your need to ejaculate for 3-4 seconds while you transition to her chest/stomach/face. It's really amazing how many men voluntarily hamstring themselves and deny themselves pleasure.