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CommanderData Update
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:25 am
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:25 am
I'm not sure how I found her, but I originally contacted CD's wife's aunt, Kentucky Girl, to pretty much beg her to find someone to keep an eye on CD. That was on Friday of last week .. she contacted me and we've chatted a bit since then so that's where I'm getting information and she said it was fine to share it here. KG seems like a fantastic, caring lady who has a good heart and is doing what she can to help.
Regarding the funeral for Carri: The update that I received from her yesterday is that Carri is now buried, the two girls are with the older sister and in good hands with her. David/Eric's mom came in to be with him for the funeral .. it was a very rough two days and they're all worn out. CD, the girls and Carri's mom are not doing well at all and neither are Carri's sister or brother, which is understandable.
Regarding the Go Fund Me: KG tells me that she and Carri's brother will be working together to handle that .. she related that the brother is a great guy, clean, never used, and has a good job and will do the right thing by his sister for his nieces.
Regarding CommanderData: His mother was there for the funeral and the minister was a childhood friend who is doing all that he can to reach CD. She did say that CD is absolutely getting the help that he needs.
CD had mentioned here that he'd purchased life insurance for himself -- I let KG know that so that if he indeed did, the beneficiaries could be changed; he said his wife was the primary one. No idea if this policy exists BUT he mentioned it so it was worth mentioning it to her.
** PLEASE ** don't turn this into a shite show of a thread ... I don't know these people. I don't know what made me feel compelled to find someone to check on him. What I do know is that many of us donated to the GFM, there are many thoughts/opinions on the situation and there has been lots of questions so I figured people would appreciate an update.
PLEASE keep the 16 yo daughter in your prayers -- I was told that it was her who found her mother. I cannot imagine finding anyone dead, much less my own mother even at my age.
Regarding the funeral for Carri: The update that I received from her yesterday is that Carri is now buried, the two girls are with the older sister and in good hands with her. David/Eric's mom came in to be with him for the funeral .. it was a very rough two days and they're all worn out. CD, the girls and Carri's mom are not doing well at all and neither are Carri's sister or brother, which is understandable.
Regarding the Go Fund Me: KG tells me that she and Carri's brother will be working together to handle that .. she related that the brother is a great guy, clean, never used, and has a good job and will do the right thing by his sister for his nieces.
Regarding CommanderData: His mother was there for the funeral and the minister was a childhood friend who is doing all that he can to reach CD. She did say that CD is absolutely getting the help that he needs.
CD had mentioned here that he'd purchased life insurance for himself -- I let KG know that so that if he indeed did, the beneficiaries could be changed; he said his wife was the primary one. No idea if this policy exists BUT he mentioned it so it was worth mentioning it to her.
** PLEASE ** don't turn this into a shite show of a thread ... I don't know these people. I don't know what made me feel compelled to find someone to check on him. What I do know is that many of us donated to the GFM, there are many thoughts/opinions on the situation and there has been lots of questions so I figured people would appreciate an update.
PLEASE keep the 16 yo daughter in your prayers -- I was told that it was her who found her mother. I cannot imagine finding anyone dead, much less my own mother even at my age.
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Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:27 am to tiger91
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:27 am to tiger91
How about the visionary Brian?
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:27 am to tiger91
quote:It's going to be one sadly.
** PLEASE ** don't turn this into a shite show of a thread ...
good work though. hopefully everything pans out okay for everyone in the long run
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:28 am to tiger91
That was nice of you to reach out. Hope CD get help if he needs it
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:29 am to jbgleason
Would you take the time to read it???
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:29 am to tiger91
If he needed money for burial how did he bury her without cashing out on the gfm?
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:29 am to OysterPoBoy
quote:dibs on the username
visionary Brian?
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:29 am to tiger91
quote:
PLEASE keep the 16 yo daughter in your prayers -- I was told that it was her who found her mother. I cannot imagine finding anyone dead, much less my own mother even at my age.
Tbh
This is the only line that resources should be pumped into.
Witnessing that at a young age will have catastrophic issues if left untouched.
No child should outlive their parent. Let alone find them dead in the most important part of their conversion to adulthood.
Edit: Not gonna change the last sentence out of shame
This post was edited on 12/16/20 at 9:33 am
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:30 am to Pedro
quote:
It's going to be one sadly.
Sadly, I'm sure it will. I did still feel like some people might take the time to read it.
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:30 am to Topwater Trout
Trout the Aunt put it on her credit card.
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:30 am to tiger91
quote:
** PLEASE ** don't turn this into a shite show of a thread ...
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:30 am to tiger91
Did she send words of support for all of the oppressed skeptics? I feel like we've been underserved.
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:30 am to 50_Tiger
quote:
o child should outlive their parent
Wut
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:30 am to 50_Tiger
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No child should outlive their parent.
Que? That’s how it’s supposed to be.... no parent should outlive their child.
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:31 am to jbgleason
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jbgleason
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:31 am to beerJeep
Yeha i fricked up its too early for me and need more coffee
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:32 am to tiger91
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Regarding the Go Fund Me: KG tells me that she and Carri's brother will be working together to handle that .
I thought only the named beneficiary could receive funds.
quote:
PLEASE keep the 16 yo daughter in your prayers -- I was told that it was her who found her mother. I cannot imagine finding anyone dead, much less my own mother even at my age.
I thought CD found her.
Posted on 12/16/20 at 9:32 am to tiger91
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Trout the Aunt put it on her credit card.
I was just curious. Haven't really followed all of this
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