re: Children of couples who divorce still suffer the effects decades later

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my brother and I have 4 degrees between us and lead normal, stable lives that involve both parents.

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I don't know why people keep mentioning how many degrees they have. You can have long term mental and/or emotional issues with a PhD in any subject. Anyways, statistically there remains that possibility if you've gone through a divorce as a child before the age of 16.

the frick you know about my dad?

He has a bad picker and is selfish. Either that or he is lazy and fat and can't keep his dick in his pants.

I grew up in a divorced house. My siblings and I are fine. We are all stable with families of our own.

Does this mean divorce is ok? Nope.

It is a financial hardship. Lawyers, two houses, etc...

It is a time hardship (two of every thing takes up a lot of time and money. Two Christmas's is not that great, it gets old). Time wasted everywhere because of two families.

ETA: The time and money is at a minimum. No matter what you get those. Many times in divorce there are all kinds of other issues.

I like many other divorced kids have a chip on my shoulder and tell everyone how great I turned out even though my parents divorced. And that is the truth, I have a great life. But, in reality with all things equal it is better to have married stable parents.

I get why all of these kids of divorced parents are saying what they are saying because I have said it many times. But, I believe these statistics to be true. It is harder having a divorced house than a non-divorced house on average.

Ok
What about the percentage of those that remarry, are they more likely to get a divorce?

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A lot of kids with speech issues can often overcome it while in day care or in a group speech therapy setting with kids their age

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that's a good reason to let someone else raise your kids

It might fix a hypothetical speech disorder

frick you are a moron
I'm around ot's, ot's, slp's, and psychologists all the time they would laugh at your crap on here regarding this

My parents were married for 44 years, til my dad died, and I still suck at life.

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Yeah, let's just end it in spousal abuse or murder.

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You say that like it's a bad thing, but people used to work at making marriages work when the alternative was abuse. People are soft now and just want whatever's easy.

Why I've stayed with that idiot I'm married to.