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re: Cheating is pretty much the new norm

Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:45 pm to
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47463 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:45 pm to
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Cheating is pretty much the new norm

It's not cheatin' if I'm jigglin my junk in the chair next to em.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17460 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:47 pm to
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30 years ago you didn't have to worry about 30 dudes being able to randomly send messages and photos to your spouse/gf while she was literally sitting right next to you at home. The ease of communicating now is really putting relationships to the test.


This. How many of you will go home tonight and watch your spouse on their phone? What will you think if your spouse even seemingly hides their phone?
Posted by NIH
Member since Aug 2008
112553 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:49 pm to
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Women will justify anything I guess.


If a guy told his friends that he was cheating on his wife, his friends would tell him it's fricked up and it is in his best interest to stop. A woman who would tell her friends she's cheating on her husband would get total justification and support for doing so from her friends. Women like to watch shite burn, IMO.
This post was edited on 9/6/17 at 1:52 pm
Posted by Will Cover
St. Louis, MO
Member since Mar 2007
38512 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:50 pm to
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I'm ears deep in both work and family matters. I hardly have enough time and energy to maintain a hobby. My idea of cheating is grabbing dinner and eating it in the car before I get home.


11849 posts says otherwise.
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
37031 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:54 pm to
Look at how good employees get hired away. Generally, they are not taken care of / shown the proper amount of respect/love. They aren't getting the raises, promotions, etc. They are getting taken for granted.

Then one day, a recruiter calls. If they were 100 percent happy in their current job, they will tell the recruiter to have a nice day. But if they aren't 100 percent happy... they will listen to the recruiter.

And once they listen... all bets are off.

I think very few people actively look to cheat. But if they are feeling neglected, and the opportunity to cheat presents itself... I think some people just fall for it.

And given increased pressures from work, more hours working, both spouses working, kids always having more and more things to do, tight finances, etc... i think people do feel more neglected.

Not trying to cast blame or give excuses... just observations.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17460 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:58 pm to
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And once they listen... all bets are off.


Yep. Once they listen. And that number is much, much higher than any wants to admit.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
36791 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:58 pm to
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People always have.....the cell phone (and multi-media) is the reason its coming out now


I disagree. Cheating may have always existed, especially among men, but I don't think it was as common place as it is today. Affairs and infidelity were considered scandalous at one time. Now, they are greeted with indifference. Women are far more independent today annd have greater opportunities, so the need for a husband isn't as great. Thus they can afford to frick around.

phones and multimedia may make infidelity easier, but I doubt they only expose the phenomenon. They hasten it.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:59 pm to
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I love these threads. All the divorced, trashy baws shite on their ex wives and claim all women are crazy while maintaining they were 100% blame free.




Yep. The reason a lot of men don't cheat is because they don't have the opportunity to cheat. They go out and try to run game when the wife isn't around and then get mad when the wife does the same thing but does it well enough to get laid.
Posted by LSU alum wannabe
Katy, TX
Member since Jan 2004
26964 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 2:01 pm to
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When a couple starts posting about how wonderful their significant other is or how much they are in love with their best friend you can bet your arse they are having trouble at home and one or both are cheating.


Kiss of death is the combo account.

DickJane Jones accounts always make me cringe.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
36791 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 2:01 pm to
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The reason a lot of men don't cheat is because they don't have the opportunity to cheat.


I think it has more to do with losing half their shite. "cheaper to keep her". Anyone can find someone to cheat with. Just depends on how low you want to drop your standards and how little you care about getting caught.
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
25455 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 2:04 pm to
Women have more rights now. That's the simple answer. As recent as 100 years ago women weren't allowed to do anything. The same amount of women back then hated their husbands as they do now. Difference is they can do something about it. We're really only 3-4 generations from women essentially still being "owned" by their husband and as each has come they've gotten a bit more independent. That along with ease of communication through technology is the main reason.
Posted by Raylan70
The Holler
Member since Aug 2017
551 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 2:06 pm to
And all the married cucks think that their wife is the exception, no way she is taking creampies while they are at the office.



Pro-tip: if your wife goes to the gym and has a girl's night each week there is a 95% chance she is cheating on you.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17460 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 2:07 pm to
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Women are far more independent today annd have greater opportunities


I agree.

Statistics show that cheating happens roughly 40-50% in marriages. And those are the ones reported. How many aren't? Is it considered cheating if a someone does just enough to make one's spouse feel good - and if that is kept hidden from their spouse? We will never know the true percentage of cheating.

Is it cheating if the spouse envisions their self sleeping with another person?
Posted by elposter
Member since Dec 2010
24861 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 2:08 pm to
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So what makes a person cheat?


Nature? Strict monogamy in the animal kingdom is kind of rare.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
118931 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 2:08 pm to
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So what makes a person cheat?


We live in a commitment free society today.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32702 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 2:09 pm to
And it's always the divorced baws that have the misdirected anger towards the successfully married ones in this thread too.
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
65681 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 2:09 pm to
cheating is trashy
Posted by PearlJam
NotBeardEaves
Member since Aug 2014
13908 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 2:09 pm to
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Statistics show that cheating happens roughly 40-50% in marriages.
Seems a little high. Curious where these stats come from.
Posted by tilco
Spanish Fort, AL
Member since Nov 2013
13470 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 2:10 pm to
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Is it cheating if the spouse envisions their self sleeping with another person?


What the frick is this shite
Posted by NIH
Member since Aug 2008
112553 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 2:12 pm to
You sound like a cuck if you think going to the gym is an automatic road to cheating
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