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re: Catholic school fires Louisiana band director after husband's obituary reveals he is gay

Posted on 7/3/25 at 8:51 pm to
Posted by tilthatday
New Orleans
Member since Mar 2009
1014 posts
Posted on 7/3/25 at 8:51 pm to
Don’t know if this has been mentioned because I don’t have the patience to read 13 pages so apologies if German.

Once the church administration was on notice, actual notice, they had to fire him. Given the litigation history, the lawyers called this one.
Before a complaint/recorded notice, they could play dumb and let him stay. And they did. Once he was outed he had to go.
Instead of appreciating the tolerance shown him, our gay friend complains when justice is served.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
60665 posts
Posted on 7/3/25 at 9:04 pm to
quote:

frick you.
frick you, dude

Children have been raped for millennia by evil people, I’m sorry that you believe the media’s lies about the Catholic Church having the monopoly on child rape. I hope you also want to use Muslim, Baptist preachers, and teachers’ intestines to strangle kings as well. Oh wait, your next line will be for me to stay on topic.

There are many more good priests than there are bad - and if you don’t believe that then you are just as evil as the bad priests because you are helping perpetuate a lie.

This teacher did not follow his legally binding contract. That’s what the deal is. If he would not be gay, this wouldn’t even be something discussed.
This post was edited on 7/3/25 at 9:06 pm
Posted by Rabby
Member since Mar 2021
1753 posts
Posted on 7/4/25 at 12:49 am to
So you think that only the Old Testament addresses this topic?
Have you missed reading Romans or Galatians or Jude? It is pretty unambiguously stated. We are not addressing ceremonial fabric for rituals done in ancient Israel here. This is a discussion of God's plan for basic human interaction. And it is not an endorsement of man and man marital relationship by any stretch of the imagination.
Posted by Rabby
Member since Mar 2021
1753 posts
Posted on 7/4/25 at 1:09 am to
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So when do we have to go by the OT, and when do we have to go by the NT?
The Bible is used to interpret the Bible. You go through the texts and look for examples, clarifications and themes. We see the clear articulation of man and woman union in Genesis and plainly shown in numerous pairings - most obviously in Song of Songs. We see it reaffirmed in the New Testament through numerous examples and also we see warnings about homosexual activities. (See Romans, Galatians and Jude.)
quote:

I thought Jesus "fulfilled the law" whatever the frick that means.
Jesus lived a sinless life in accordance with all legal and ceremonial requirements. He was the perfect being and sacrificed himself on our behalf because nobody else is worthy.
Posted by LeGrosChat
Bangladesh
Member since Feb 2016
663 posts
Posted on 7/4/25 at 1:11 am to
The Catholic Church for years let priest molest young boys and girls. Where was this morality when so many kids had their lives and innocence destroyed???
Posted by ole man
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2007
18059 posts
Posted on 7/4/25 at 2:37 am to
Because he thought he never would be caught, that's how these queer frickers think,their deviant, they lead a deviant lifestyle,

The catholic Church has been covering this shite up for decades, they will reap what the sow.
Posted by El Segundo Guy
1-866-DHS-2-ICE
Member since Aug 2014
11654 posts
Posted on 7/4/25 at 2:38 am to
He signed a morality clause, fully knowing that he was in violation of it.

It's not hard to see that he didn't give them a choice. He had to be terminated. Im no fan of organized religion, but rules are rules. If you knowingly break the rules, you can't cry about it when you get caught.
Posted by Obtuse1
Westside Bodymore Yo
Member since Sep 2016
30526 posts
Posted on 7/4/25 at 2:59 am to
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Once the church administration was on notice, actual notice, they had to fire him. Given the litigation history, the lawyers called this one.
Before a complaint/recorded notice, they could play dumb and let him stay. And they did. Once he was outed, he had to go.
Instead of appreciating the tolerance shown him, our gay friend complains when justice is served.


I spoke to this in an earlier post that since we can link to specific posts I will repost below. The reality is if LA follows typical contract law the fact they knew and did nothing produces what is called an implied waiver of conduct. If it can be shown they knew for a specific period of time "and played dumb" they can lose the right to terminate under that specific portion of the morality clause.

Poor netiquette repost follows:

Reading the initial post and a few of the subsequent ones, and knowing we have a lot of attorneys here, I thought given the length of the thread there would be a lively legal discussion, but nope, the legal side was summed up with simply "no".

Setting aside the fact the jurisdiction is Louisiana, which is an oddball legal state, but less odd every day, there is actually a very strong possibility, given the limited details, that the contract clause is not enforceable now.

There is a strong chance (in most states) if the school knew of the breach for years, there is now an implied waiver of conduct, rendering the clause unenforceable for that particular breach.

A couple of analogies that are likely known by laymen are:

failure to enforce intellectual property rights can result in losing the rights

use it or lose it

If it can be shown "the school" through its agents knew of the breach for some period of time without action it is very likely there is a waiver of conduct. The answer is far from a simple "no" but that is almost always the case in law.



Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
20103 posts
Posted on 7/4/25 at 4:00 am to
You know the trip Holmes, take a hike.
Posted by olgoi khorkhoi
priapism survivor
Member since May 2011
16779 posts
Posted on 7/4/25 at 6:59 am to
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Unfortunately, the school takes the brunt of the blame for a situation they had no real control over.



They had control when they knowingly hired a guy at odds with their code.

The teacher had control when he chose the safety of teaching at a Catholic school instead of a public school.

I just wish the church dealt with priests this decisively.
Posted by Lester Earl
3rd Ward
Member since Nov 2003
290911 posts
Posted on 7/4/25 at 7:01 am to
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Because he thought he never would be caught, that's how these queer frickers think,their deviant, they lead a deviant lifestyle,


Are you talking about priests or the band guy
Posted by jimmy the leg
Member since Aug 2007
44325 posts
Posted on 7/4/25 at 7:14 am to
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They had control when they knowingly hired a guy at odds with their code.


They knew when they hired him?

Link?
Posted by jimmy the leg
Member since Aug 2007
44325 posts
Posted on 7/4/25 at 7:14 am to
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I just wish the church dealt with priests this decisively.


X 1000
Posted by Champagne
Sabine Free State.
Member since Oct 2007
55351 posts
Posted on 7/4/25 at 8:56 am to
Catholic Haters will never stop using this weapon while at the same time ignoring the many cases involving Protestant Pastor child molestation cases.

This particular case is egregious because the church tried to cover it up AND when the Victim complained, the Pastor had his lawyers accuse the Victim of being a little slut who initiated sex with the Pastor.

PastorRobert
Posted by Galactic Inquisitor
An Incredibly Distant Star
Member since Dec 2013
18452 posts
Posted on 7/4/25 at 8:57 am to
When you have to rely on whatabaoutisms, you're fighting a losing battle.
Posted by Champagne
Sabine Free State.
Member since Oct 2007
55351 posts
Posted on 7/4/25 at 8:57 am to
quote:

I just wish the church dealt with priests this decisively.


The Catholic Church is very proactive in this area today.
Posted by ole man
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2007
18059 posts
Posted on 7/4/25 at 8:59 am to
The band guy. But the same thing goes for all the pedo priests too
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
39673 posts
Posted on 7/4/25 at 9:03 am to
Not a Catholic hater by any stretch, but to compare individual cases of sordid behavior to what the Catholic Church knowingly aided and abetted, over a period of decades, is being willfully obtuse and living in denial.

Taking advantage of minors is, of course, a sin, and covering up and allowing that behavior to continue is just as bad.
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
39673 posts
Posted on 7/4/25 at 9:04 am to
quote:

The Catholic Church is very proactive in this area today.


Agreed.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
71229 posts
Posted on 7/4/25 at 9:15 am to
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you're fighting a losing battle.


It's hilarious that you dipshits think it's a battle. Nobody cares about your hate for a specific religion. Why the frick do you think we do?
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