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re: Can someone help me explain how people are affording a house in today's market?

Posted on 4/4/23 at 7:56 am to
Posted by Jon A thon
Member since May 2019
2532 posts
Posted on 4/4/23 at 7:56 am to
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owning property is an anchor on upward mobility for most people. If you ain't going to be somewhere more than 5 years it is unusual to make realtor fees and closing costs back even in a good market.


My company pays closing costs, agent fees, and typically gives a 3% value of home sale bonus when they ask you to move for a job. If you can't sell, they purchase it and sell it for you, but you do miss out on the bonus. If I were to switch companies that required a move, it'd be negotiated. I admit that's not something everyone can expect, but in my situation, it removes some of those issues.

I certainly agree that short term renting is a good idea in many situations. I just don't like when people try to make it seem like they are winning by renting and having someone else pay all the typical owner costs. Even long-term owning costs like roofing and HVAC are considered when setting rent rates. Those costs are covered by the return on investment. You are screwing up as an owner if you don't figure out your fully burdened costs of ownership and pass that on to the renter plus some. The renter agrees to pay the premium price for the reasons you stated.....flexibility on moving/liquid cash/etc..
Posted by theunknownknight
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2005
60936 posts
Posted on 4/4/23 at 8:04 am to
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It’s called generational wealth


This right here. Most of this is called “mommy/daddy money” which is fine

Problem is they are burning through it now and the next generation is going to be boned with maintenance/tax costs
Posted by LSUGrrrl
Frisco, TX
Member since Jul 2007
46369 posts
Posted on 4/4/23 at 8:12 am to
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And it’s getting worse. Daily.

I’m scared to death we are teetering on the edge of collapse. I make a very good living. Very above average. In the last two years, fuel has doubled, groceries have almost doubled, my car insurance just randomly went up $100/m and my homeowners insurance went up $300/m. I mean it’s impacting me. Big time. I know it has to be impacting most people severely more than they are admitting


Agreed. We are very blessed that the insane increase in cost of living hasn’t impacted our quality of life. We don’t like spending more but we can afford it.

But every time I buy groceries and see how much everything costs, I’m amazed that the average family with kids can afford to feed, clothe and keep a roof over their head. If I see a young person in front of me in line with formula, diapers, etc, I sometimes pay for their groceries now. Other times, I donate bags of food. If we were just starting out under current circumstances, there’s no way we would be in the position we are today.
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
84736 posts
Posted on 4/4/23 at 8:13 am to
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We want to get a smaller house when the kids are gone in 2-3 years. We just don't want the upkeep. Why have a big house for just me and my wife?


You going to stay in BR aren’t you
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
60695 posts
Posted on 4/4/23 at 8:16 am to
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Most of this is called “mommy/daddy money” which is fine
only by the jealous poors.

another home buying group is college grads who lived at home for a couple years. one of my buddies did this and saved like 75k for a downpayment on a 250k house in 2018. it's not generational wealth by definition, but it kind of is.
Posted by RockyMtnTigerWDE
War Damn Eagle Dad!
Member since Oct 2010
108981 posts
Posted on 4/4/23 at 8:17 am to
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Renting is cheaper and has less hassle than being a homeowner. If something breaks, you call the landlord/apartment complex and it gets fixed/replaced.) No dedication to a massive note every month. This is a massive incentive compared to owning a home, where you would have to provide major upkeep just to see an even return on investment.



Frick that. I am not working my arse off just to line the pockets of the landlord. I am much happier owning my own home.And to suggest it's an even return shows your lack of knowledge.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53536 posts
Posted on 4/4/23 at 8:17 am to
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You going to stay in BR aren’t you

Not planning to. We are fixing up our current house right now so we can put it on the market in 2025.
Posted by nola tiger lsu
Member since Nov 2007
7379 posts
Posted on 4/4/23 at 8:20 am to
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And to suggest it's an even return shows your lack of knowledge.


Ok, you do you. Some of you have never rented higher end places where life was on easy mode and it shows. You probably rented BR Garden District dumps.
Posted by Dixie2023
Member since Mar 2023
5242 posts
Posted on 4/4/23 at 8:23 am to
No pics. And that’s not cool. She worked hard for her degrees and is employed and self-sufficient. Her patients love her and she enjoys her field. Not a nurse. Not that there’s anything wrong with that. Would you prefer she be on welfare for your tax dollars to support?
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
Cajun Navy Vice Admiral
Member since Oct 2012
41099 posts
Posted on 4/4/23 at 8:35 am to
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You think a $4k mortgage is ok on $200k combined?


It's 24% of gross. That isn't that crazy.
Posted by dyslexiateechur
Louisiana
Member since Jan 2009
36478 posts
Posted on 4/4/23 at 8:40 am to
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We want to get a smaller house when the kids are gone in 2-3 years. We just don't want the upkeep. Why have a big house for just me and my wife?


Hubby and I plan to sell the big house off when we retire and get a 2 bedroom in Toledo Bend.
Posted by Bullfrog
Running Through the Wet Grass
Member since Jul 2010
61205 posts
Posted on 4/4/23 at 8:41 am to
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You think a $4k mortgage is ok on $200k combined?
The dollars are meaningless if your % is in line.

I started off at 28%. This is principle, interest, taxes and insurance.

It’s now under 11% on the same house. It is doable at his 24% and gets easier as time passes.
This post was edited on 4/5/23 at 6:22 am
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
150379 posts
Posted on 4/4/23 at 8:44 am to
Having PMI is trashy
Posted by boogiewoogie1978
Little Rock
Member since Aug 2012
20075 posts
Posted on 4/4/23 at 8:48 am to
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You think a $4k mortgage is ok on $200k combined? shite like this is why housing prices are through the roof.. and why the general finances of many solid income families are in absolute shambles.

This guy made a great call backing out of this.


This. My rule of thumb is take whatever the bank will lend you and divide by 2. That is what you can actually afford. The bank will put you in debt fast.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53536 posts
Posted on 4/4/23 at 8:49 am to
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This. My rule of thumb is take whatever the bank will lend you and divide by 2. That is what you can actually afford. The bank will put you in debt fast.

The rule of thumb 20+ years ago was not to buy a house more than 2.5x your annual household income. I think a lot of people go over that now though.
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
33514 posts
Posted on 4/4/23 at 8:58 am to
Stringed, you assume people are being responsible with their finances. That is definitely not the case.

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20% down on a $535k house is $107k.

They won’t do 20%

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The monthly payment on a $535k WITH 20% down would be $3200/month (with estimated insurance and taxes). How is this sustainable at all?

They’re having kids later. Factor kids out of the equation for a while and you can realistically put up to 50% of your income into a mortgage payment. Not that it’s a good idea, but it’s an idea. Also we live in the South and pay the private school tax. Most of the country doesn’t
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
33514 posts
Posted on 4/4/23 at 9:04 am to
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You think a $4k mortgage is ok on $200k combined?

Yes it’s perfectly fine. That guy can manage his other expenses and maintain that mortgage easily, then refinance when/if rates come down
Posted by PhiTiger1764
Lurker since Aug 2003
Member since Oct 2009
14587 posts
Posted on 4/4/23 at 9:19 am to
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The dollars are meaningless if your % is in line.

Oh? So a $2k mortgage is fine on $100k combined?
Posted by Tomatocantender
Boot
Member since Jun 2021
5597 posts
Posted on 4/4/23 at 9:36 am to
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Frick that. I am not working my arse off just to line the pockets of the landlord. I am much happier owning my own home


All else equal, I agree with you 100. There is a psychological/cathartic/mental advantage to owning an immovable investment like your primary residence than there is to renting...with a few exceptions of course.
Posted by RockyMtnTigerWDE
War Damn Eagle Dad!
Member since Oct 2010
108981 posts
Posted on 4/4/23 at 9:36 am to
Higher end, lower end, take your pick you're an idiot throwing away your money. You can still buy a place where the community is maintained by someone else like a "High End" patio home, or "High End" townhome. They even have "High End" apartments you can purchase.

But go ahead and give your money away "Baller"
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