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re: Buddy found his biological father who raped his mother, what to do?
Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:53 pm to Sentrius
Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:53 pm to Sentrius
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mother's family has no right to be a part of their lives without a clear and unequivocal apology.
Ship sailed eons ago.
His mom and mine were friends since I was born.
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Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:54 pm to Kujo
I read the title and first thought of Buddy the elf (will Ferrell) and him discovering his biological father, Walter (James Caan) was and that his mother was raped. I was like wtf! How did I miss this in elf or is this title going with some fan theory I had never heard before... then I open the thread and see it’s a FB blah blah blah
Tell your “buddy” to accept the closer and stay away from the dirt bag.
Tell your “buddy” to accept the closer and stay away from the dirt bag.
Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:55 pm to Kujo
Write it off, obviously.
What?!? On a 30 year old he said-she said incident?
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File charges with the police and force the guy to address his past?
What?!? On a 30 year old he said-she said incident?
Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:56 pm to cgrand
Do we really? I must no read enough
Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:56 pm to Kujo
I would only be curious at this point about medical history.
Man that sucks.
Man that sucks.
Posted on 3/22/21 at 9:56 pm to Rebel
I'll send him the link to my post, he can elaborate if he wants. But it's not for all the childish reasons, for him it's just wanting to hear the truth and maybe have a bit of history of who he is. "Family history" to tell his children.
This post was edited on 3/22/21 at 9:58 pm
Posted on 3/22/21 at 10:03 pm to Kujo
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maybe have a bit of history of who he is. "Family history" to tell his children.
Overrated.
My brother has a different dad than me. His dad was a deadbeat druggie. My dad raised him. His dad's side of the family has tried to reach out to him and my brother said no thanks. He doesn't really care. His dad is the guy who raised and supported him. Making a baby isn't anything special. Raising one is. End of story.
This post was edited on 3/22/21 at 10:04 pm
Posted on 3/22/21 at 10:03 pm to Kujo
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But it's not for all the childish reasons, for him it's just wanting to hear the truth and maybe have a bit of history of who he is. "Family history" to tell his children.
Then he’s asking for trouble. One thing if he thinks his biological father has continued to do what he did with his mother, another if he’s looking down that road for answers.
Posted on 3/22/21 at 10:04 pm to Havoc
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On a 30 year old he said-she said incident?
In a case that old, you could deny ever having consensual sex with her or even meeting her and it could maybe stick.
But the OP's buddy is clear evidence their genitals mashed together at least once.
Now, that brings us to the question is if it was rape or not.
Posted on 3/22/21 at 10:05 pm to Kujo
quote:pics?
a few daughters
Posted on 3/22/21 at 10:06 pm to Sentrius
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Now, that brings us to the question is if it was rape or not.
It’s beyond the statute of limitations though. That’s the issue. I’d say he leaves this alone unless he has heard of some recent atrocity his biological father has done.
Posted on 3/22/21 at 10:06 pm to Kujo
That is way too much detail to be a buddy's story.
Posted on 3/22/21 at 10:09 pm to OMLandshark
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Can't remember this quote but it both applies to Obi-Wan and Luke.
They both had a right to know what happened to Anakin, what he did and decide what to do with that knowledge.
And them both knowing saved the galaxy in the end.
Yoda was wrong.
This post was edited on 3/22/21 at 10:13 pm
Posted on 3/22/21 at 10:09 pm to Kujo
Let it go.
Posted on 3/22/21 at 10:13 pm to Kujo
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Write it off
This. How it would make his mother feel if she knew he was trying to form a relationship with this shitbird is reason enough.
Posted on 3/22/21 at 10:32 pm to Kujo
I feel like he got his answer. 
Also, frick him for "I just want the truth". Your mother aka the parent who stayed told you the truth. Why contact this pos rapist?
Also, frick him for "I just want the truth". Your mother aka the parent who stayed told you the truth. Why contact this pos rapist?
Posted on 3/22/21 at 10:33 pm to Kujo
What does your friend want to accomplish with his contact of the guy?
Posted on 3/22/21 at 10:56 pm to Kujo
I can't imagine having a kid in the world and having no contact with them.
Posted on 3/22/21 at 11:23 pm to Kujo
I saw this in a movie once. The sad bastard’s half brother and his Dad were certified badasses and the bastard was a crazy frick.
Posted on 3/22/21 at 11:27 pm to Kujo
Leave it be
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