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re: At what point in your life did you think... life sure flew by

Posted on 9/30/24 at 7:33 am to
Posted by RummelTiger
Texas
Member since Aug 2004
92026 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 7:33 am to
My daughter turned 15 this past weekend and it hit me hard Saturday morning.

In three years she'll be into her Senior year in HS and will not have much longer left under our roof - frightening thought.

Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
43308 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 7:42 am to
I am fully aware that my youth has been spent.
My get up and go, has got up and went.

I am pretty happy as I think, with a grin.
Of all the great places my get up has been.
Posted by oleheat
Sportsman's Paradise
Member since Mar 2007
14176 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 7:42 am to
My older brother always said every day is a gift. Enjoy them as such.
Posted by MyRockstarComplex
The airport
Member since Nov 2009
4407 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 7:46 am to


The ultimate birthday song to shite on all birthdays.

Add-On: I think the trick is that you do it, then when you’re supposed to have kids is when your life kicks into hyper drive. You’re meant to watch your kids do it, then if you’re lucky you can watch your grandkids too. Otherwise over the course of history we just weren’t meant to last this long.
This post was edited on 9/30/24 at 7:49 am
Posted by samson73103
Krypton
Member since Nov 2008
8777 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 7:50 am to
quote:

Being newly 40. I’m exactly there.

Just wait until you hit 50
Posted by Keith13
Member since Apr 2024
265 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 8:02 am to
Im 49 and it really hit me hard this year. Hard to swallow that I probably only have 25-30 more years
Posted by The People
LSU Alumni
Member since Aug 2008
4358 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 8:07 am to
Never.

I learned a long time ago that growing old is a privilege not granted to everyone. I am thankful for the chance to age. Better men than me were denied.
Posted by WaydownSouth
Stratton Oakmont
Member since Nov 2018
9643 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 8:17 am to
quote:

Do you have kids... It's when you have kids. Life before kids felt like it was moving at a snail's pace. Once that first one popped out, it got faster. Three kids later it's blowing by. Months feel like weeks, days feel like months. Hard to explain.


This.

Except I'd say its really not until they turn 10-12 months and start moving.
Feel like it took a decade for them to start walking/crawling and not just be a lump. Ever since they start walking its flown by
Posted by Bard
Definitely NOT an admin
Member since Oct 2008
55545 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 8:26 am to
Just before I turned 25, an older co-worker told me that life speeds up after 25. It does, and as the years go by beyond that it seems to speed up even faster. I'm 55 now and it seems like a whole week blows by in the same time that used to be only two or three days.

A while back I watched an interesting take on this. What it boiled down to was that we experience time as being compared to our total lifetime. For example, If I'm five years old, each year of time accounts for 20% of my entire lifetime. However, if I'm 50, then each year accounts for only 2% of my entire lifetime.

This effect causes us to feel like time is moving faster because each second, hour, day, etc. accounts for continually less and less of all the time we've experienced thus far.
This post was edited on 9/30/24 at 8:28 am
Posted by Liger43
Member since Sep 2019
566 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 8:27 am to
@ the ripe age of 26
Posted by stout
Porte du Lafitte
Member since Sep 2006
175731 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 8:30 am to
I will be 45 next month. My dad died at 64 and it really hits me when I think that at my age he only had 19 years left.
Posted by CAD703X
Liberty Island
Member since Jul 2008
86999 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 8:32 am to
quote:

The first time I truly felt old was a couple of years ago when my youngest child told me he was to old to go to Tigerland


Right after my divorce when I was around 45 I went to the LSU/NC Chick-fil-A game in GA and after the game my buddy and I went to hit a few bars and I realized almost immediately how awkward we looked...nobody was over 23.

I was like "we should go home now"
Posted by i am dan
NC
Member since Aug 2011
28428 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 8:33 am to
quote:

At what point in your life did you think... life sure flew by


A monotonous life goes by fast. If you do the same thing day after day, week after week, it sure feels like it goes by fast. I'm guilty of that.

Do as much as you can. Make a thousand small memories to break up routine.
Posted by Skywalker
St. George
Member since Jul 2010
1253 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 8:33 am to
My kids from kindergarten to leaving for collage went by in a blink of an eye.
Posted by DaBeerz
Member since Sep 2004
18039 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 8:35 am to
Now, 40’s with kids. When you realize your life is about halfway over if you’re lucky and you want to cherish every moment but time is speeding up not slowing down.
This post was edited on 9/30/24 at 8:39 am
Posted by dazedconfused
Member since Sep 2020
94 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 8:40 am to
Never really thought too much about it until I hit 55.

My dad used to say, "If there's anything you're interested in trying, do it now!" He was right. I feel like I don't have enough time left to investigate all of my interests...
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
84097 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 8:48 am to
quote:

it hit me hard Saturday morning.


Rummy my friend, do yourself a favor, and very mindfully do something sweet and selfless and beautiful for your daughter that is out of the ordinary that demonstrates your love for her. Take her somewhere unexpected, cut class and take her to a concert or wherever, just the two of you. It will sustain her in years to come,

I know you know all this. For other's benefit.
Posted by Rex Feral
Member since Jan 2014
14712 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 8:48 am to
Around the time my children started to graduate high school.
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
29892 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 8:50 am to
Now that I'm 60, looking back, the last 30 years are now like a blur....

It just seems like yesterday Katrina hit and the Saints won the Super Bowl, It's been almost 20 and 15 years..


It especially flies by when you have kids...
This post was edited on 9/30/24 at 8:55 am
Posted by When in Rome
Telegraph Road
Member since Jan 2011
35971 posts
Posted on 9/30/24 at 8:55 am to
quote:

Do you have kids... It's when you have kids. Life before kids felt like it was moving at a snail's pace. Once that first one popped out, it got faster. Three kids later it's blowing by. Months feel like weeks, days feel like months. Hard to explain.
The days are long, but the years are short. Couldn’t be truer with kids.
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