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re: At what age did you start letting you kids stay at home by themselves

Posted on 1/15/19 at 11:24 pm to
Posted by SouthEndzoneTiger
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2008
11676 posts
Posted on 1/15/19 at 11:24 pm to
quote:

Every kid is different though.


This is the correct answer.
Posted by momentoftruth87
Your mom
Member since Oct 2013
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Posted on 1/15/19 at 11:27 pm to
If I gotta run into town my 8 & 4 year old have stayed at home a few times. If my son needs to get me he has kids messenger on his tablet. This is like running to the dollar store, not going to chill at a bar.

I used to walk to and from school at 5 and be home from 3-5 till my parents got home. Times are way different though, and that wasn't too long ago.
Posted by SirSaintly
Uptown, New Orleans
Member since Feb 2013
3187 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 6:52 am to
My nephews have been staying home alone since 10 and 8.

They're 16 and 14 now and very self sufficient and not afraid of every little thing.

16 yr old got a car for his birthday, so he's on his own in more places than just his house.
Posted by East Coast Band
Member since Nov 2010
66984 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 6:55 am to
depends on for how long.

an hour or so, maybe 8 years old.

at work all day, etc. maybe around 12-14
Posted by Fat and Happy
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2013
20234 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 7:14 am to
Kige, do you have a kid?
Posted by Gorilla Ball
Az via La
Member since Feb 2006
13362 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 8:01 am to
lol
Posted by notsince98
KC, MO
Member since Oct 2012
22313 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 8:19 am to
once I turned 40, i was more comfortable with it.
Posted by redfishfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2015
5550 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 8:23 am to
Depends on the kid and depends on where you live and how much you trust your neighbors. Growing up my family lived out in the middle of nowhere so our parents left us home alone for short periods when I was around 10.
Posted by BruceJender
Houston
Member since Dec 2016
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Posted on 1/16/19 at 8:25 am to
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This post was edited on 1/24/21 at 7:32 pm
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11635 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 8:35 am to
Some of these answers are surprising. I was babysitting other kids all day long at 13-14.

Anyway, I have an almost 11 year old stepdaughter. We have not left her home alone for any amount of time yet. The main reason is because she wouldn’t have access to a phone to call us (though she could use her iPad or call me on Alexa).

The other reason is that she is not mature/self sufficient enough. She’s an only child and only grandchild, and the adults have always done everything for her. I’ve been showing her how to do basic things on her own, which she picks up pretty quickly and appreciates knowing. We all gain pride from self sufficiency.

We are going to start practicing leaving her home alone for a couple hours at a time. She will be in middle school next year, and will be getting off the bus before we’re home. It’s hard to unclench when I don’t fully trust her not to do stupid shite and get hurt when we’re not there, but it needs to happen.
Posted by REB BEER
Laffy Yet
Member since Dec 2010
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Posted on 1/16/19 at 9:02 am to
My son turned 14 last July. Wife and I took a trip to Dallas for Labor Day and he stayed home by himself for 3 nights to take care of the house and keep the dogs fed. Other parents we know thought this was crazy, but it all depends on the kid. Ours is very mature and responsible, plus I made sure he had a gun in his nightstand in case anything went down.

I don't remember when we started letting them stay at home while we ran to the store and such, but it was pretty young.
This post was edited on 1/16/19 at 9:07 am
Posted by MLCLyons
Member since Nov 2012
4790 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 9:28 am to
Not my kids, but I started staying at home by myself in 6th grade.

I work with someone who doesn't work when her daughter is out of school because 'she needs to be home with her'. Her daughter is in fricking high school.
Posted by Dale Doubak
Somewhere
Member since Jan 2012
6000 posts
Posted on 1/16/19 at 9:29 am to
11. Just from 4 to 5 pm when he gets home from school
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