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re: Anyone else in a relationship with differing political views? Advice?

Posted on 6/4/20 at 1:29 am to
Posted by YatInTheHat
Member since Apr 2017
955 posts
Posted on 6/4/20 at 1:29 am to
Funny I just posted my experience with this over on the Poli Board, this may be a better place for that discussion so here's the repost:

I have a lib wife who has gone completely over the deep end, I'm a registered independent who votes R or D based on what's happening and how I feel about things.

Tensions here have been building since the democratic mayors/govs started their hard lockdown crap during the WuFlu. And this week it has only ratcheted up even more in the house.

I brought up Brees tonight at dinner because we both love him, but she just about started melting in her seat. She told me she hates my white privilege, so I told her to shove her white guilt back up her arse because it was leaking on the furniture.

Good times.
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
78721 posts
Posted on 6/4/20 at 1:34 am to
Try talking about the below things instead of political issues. Trust me, regardless of where either of you stand, these topics below are much healthier to talk about than divisive politics.

Wine
Investing
Sailing
Traveling
Tennis
Golf
Cooking
Beach
Fishing
Golf
Kayaking
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
68469 posts
Posted on 6/4/20 at 1:36 am to

Aren't you the type of persona here that no Lib is worth a shite? And you date one? And you want to substantiate 5 years of putting up with it?

Man. The PT is going to see this, Sir.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 6/4/20 at 1:38 am to
congrats on the hate sex
Posted by Mr Personality
Bangkok
Member since Mar 2014
27364 posts
Posted on 6/4/20 at 1:43 am to
Just remember your Ukrainian girlfriend bows to the Russian Empire

Posted by go ta hell ole miss
Member since Jan 2007
14798 posts
Posted on 6/4/20 at 1:46 am to
If James Carville and Mary Matalin can make it work in a marriage for 27 years anybody can make it work if they want to make it work.
Posted by SirWinston
Say NO to War
Member since Jul 2014
104464 posts
Posted on 6/4/20 at 9:21 am to
Yah that sounds even more stressful than my situation. We had a healthy conversation last night - I showed her some Brees theads on TD and had her notice the upvote / downvote ratio and told her this was essentially the culture and mindset that I spent the first 30 years of my life in.

Wish you well, mate - maybe try explaining calmly why both of you feel the way you do.
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
Cajun Navy Vice Admiral
Member since Oct 2012
41936 posts
Posted on 6/4/20 at 9:22 am to
Haven't you made this same thread 2 or 3 times already?
Posted by SirWinston
Say NO to War
Member since Jul 2014
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Posted on 6/4/20 at 9:24 am to
She’s not really a typical liberal. On our first date we discussed the Scott Walker recall efforts and how she had voted for Walker. She absolutely abhors Trump and my love for Trump is very well documented, so basically we haven’t been talking politics in many respects for over 2 years now.

She’s a true fiscal conservative - she is just kind of pie in the sky about education being the answer and bending over backwards during these times to help end this tension. I think it’s fantasy but she has logical examples from her life to justify her feelings, so I respect that.
This post was edited on 6/4/20 at 9:25 am
Posted by jimmy the leg
Member since Aug 2007
45341 posts
Posted on 6/4/20 at 9:25 am to
quote:

bending over backwards


Go on
Posted by SirWinston
Say NO to War
Member since Jul 2014
104464 posts
Posted on 6/4/20 at 9:26 am to
Haven’t they written a book? Maybe I’ll check it out
Posted by I Bleed Garnet
Cullman, AL
Member since Jul 2011
54846 posts
Posted on 6/4/20 at 9:28 am to
quote:

She’s a true fiscal conservative

Isn’t that all that should matter?
People that tell you money doesn’t mean happiness are completely wrong
Posted by Nole Man
Somewhere In Tennessee!
Member since May 2011
9446 posts
Posted on 6/4/20 at 9:28 am to
Differ on many things. Once you're married it's over. They ain't talking with you, they're talking at you. Only strategy I've found is to say I ain't talkin' about it no more.

Not sayin' you can't have relationships with differing values than yours, but it'd sure be nice if you were aligned with the big stuff. Otherwise...
Posted by LoneStar23
USA
Member since Aug 2019
5837 posts
Posted on 6/4/20 at 9:35 am to
Two things you should always confirm with a partner before marriage. Whether or not you are both equally yoked in your relationship with Christ and whether or not your political views are aligned. If those two things match up the rest should fall into place.
Posted by ELVIS U
Member since Feb 2007
11940 posts
Posted on 6/4/20 at 9:48 am to
I don't know, focus more on the things you have in common?
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
83171 posts
Posted on 6/4/20 at 9:49 am to
We’ve had different political views for years. Fortunately for him, the left has gone so off the fricking rails that I’m drifting more in his direction.

I was always moderate to begin with though.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
99045 posts
Posted on 6/4/20 at 9:50 am to
Neither of us care so it works out great
Posted by EmperorGout
I hate all of you.
Member since Feb 2008
11612 posts
Posted on 6/4/20 at 9:51 am to
She's eventually going to leave you for someone smarter, just prepare yourself now
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53839 posts
Posted on 6/4/20 at 9:55 am to
My wife is a traditional, conservative Republican. I'm pretty much a libertarian. We don't agree on everything but I can't recall us getting into a political argument.

I couldn't date a Bernie chick or a pussy hat wearer. They wouldn't like me anyway so it wouldn't be an issue.
This post was edited on 6/4/20 at 9:56 am
Posted by crazy4lsu
Member since May 2005
40042 posts
Posted on 6/4/20 at 9:56 am to
Have you tried dressing like a full kit loser during sex?
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