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re: Americans Are Still Spending Like There’s No Tomorrow

Posted on 10/2/23 at 2:58 pm to
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
82647 posts
Posted on 10/2/23 at 2:58 pm to
I follow the wedding planning subreddit, as I got married this year, and it is wild the number of people who say they are doing a big/traditional wedding because "our COL is so high that the $40k we are spending on the wedding wouldn't even cover half of a down payment, so we figure we may as well use it for a wedding".

Seems like the opposite situation of someone who should be having a big wedding. And I say that as someone who had a big wedding (and could afford it).

People are freaking crazy.
Posted by turkish
Member since Aug 2016
2251 posts
Posted on 10/2/23 at 3:14 pm to
I agree but I’m not sure that’s the way it’s tabulated.
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
17363 posts
Posted on 10/2/23 at 3:15 pm to
quote:

I follow the wedding planning subreddit, as I got married this year, and it is wild the number of people who say they are doing a big/traditional wedding because "our COL is so high that the $40k we are spending on the wedding wouldn't even cover half of a down payment, so we figure we may as well use it for a wedding".

Seems like the opposite situation of someone who should be having a big wedding. And I say that as someone who had a big wedding (and could afford it).

People are freaking crazy.



Its absolutely ridiculous anyone would want to spend 40 large on a wedding. Its beyond stupid as a matter of fact, at any time regardless of COL.

Idiots.
Posted by XenScott
Pensacola
Member since Oct 2016
3950 posts
Posted on 10/2/23 at 3:17 pm to
quote:

Fears about a changing climate are driving some people to try to see places before they’re gone. In a monthly Deloitte survey of 19,000 global consumers, climate change was the only topic among 19 different concerns that respondents reported feeling significantly more worried about over the past year. My fellow Americans are dumb.


Yeah. I think this is bull crap. That’s like the lowest thing people are worried about when they do polling for elections. They try to fit that crap in every chance they get.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
52923 posts
Posted on 10/2/23 at 3:45 pm to
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I'm 30 and don't have a ton saved for retirement because frankly, I doubt it will matter.

You'll start to panic when you are about 40-45, have been doing the same shite for over 20 years and realize that you don't want to have to do it until you die
Posted by Cdawg
TigerFred's Living Room
Member since Sep 2003
61440 posts
Posted on 10/2/23 at 4:05 pm to
quote:

Woodstock was in the late 60’s when most of the boomers were still too young to go.

You're right, nobody associates Woodstock or that music with Baby Boomers.

Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
69206 posts
Posted on 10/2/23 at 4:06 pm to
I twice had to cash out my retirement account during my 20’s because of illnesses or job losses to keep myself above water and pay my bills. I would like to have a retirement saved up, but every time I get a little nest egg going, I get screwed and it’s gone.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
52923 posts
Posted on 10/2/23 at 4:13 pm to
My wife and I didn't save enough when we were younger. We were young, not making much money yet, raising young kids and just trying to keep our heads above water.

I crunched the numbers at some point and realized we weren't doing enough and spent years playing catch up.

Luckily, by that time we weren't paying for things like daycare and were making enough money to start saving a lot more. We'll never retire in our 50s or anything but we should be good to go around a fairly normal retirement age like 62-65.
Posted by dgnx6
Member since Feb 2006
85442 posts
Posted on 10/2/23 at 4:14 pm to
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Yeah. I think this is bull crap. That’s like the lowest thing people are worried about when they do polling for elections. They try to fit that crap in every chance they get.


it's not. people already believe it's too late. Plenty of people have opted out on kids because of climate change.


The elite that dont like our expanding population have been pushing this shite for 100 years now.

Planned parenthood was 100% population control.

This post was edited on 10/2/23 at 4:15 pm
Posted by SerenityNow
Chicago
Member since Feb 2008
2418 posts
Posted on 10/2/23 at 5:54 pm to
Lots of great responses in this thread.

I also would say that as we know, society has become increasingly impatient over the last 25 years with the advent of technology. Everyone wants everything NOW.

And long term investing is a grind, even for those who are dedicated to it. I max my 401k, as well as toss a massive chunk into my brokerage account each month. And nothing sucks worse than knowing your money is at risk as the market goes up, down and sideways. And every month I get tempted to say screw it and live for now. But I don’t. I’m playing the long game. Most people likely do not have that patience. And who knows, maybe I’m the dumbass?


This post was edited on 10/2/23 at 5:56 pm
Posted by upgrade
Member since Jul 2011
14609 posts
Posted on 10/2/23 at 6:58 pm to
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society has become increasingly impatient over the last 25 years with the advent of technology.


I can agree with this. People are trying to keep up with the Jones’ as well as the latest and greatest technology. Do you absolutely need the latest iPhone right now? Do we really need every streaming service?

People also make excuses to buy new things. A guy at work had a truck that had transmission problems. The truck was paid for. He paid to repair it, then sold it before it started costing him too much money, and bought a brand new Jeep. I guess he thought his transmission was going to go out twice a year every year for now on.

There’s also a difference between purchasing a quality product and purchasing a “PREMIUM” product. 30 years ago, you show up at the hunting camp with a $500 ice chest and everyone would have laughed your arse out of there. Bass boats that nearly cost as much as a starter house. The old men in my hunting club have all passed away now. Many of them owned 1 shotgun, and some of them owned a rifle too. And that’s what they used nearly their entire hunting careers. Our generation (I might be a bit guilty here) keeps buying more and more guns searching for “perfection”.

We live in a disposable society today, and that’s how we like it. The pace of change in the world has us searching for something else. My (random possession) broke. Can it be fixed? Sure, but I really want this new thing instead. It’s no wonder marriages don’t last these days.
This post was edited on 10/2/23 at 6:59 pm
Posted by UtDawg
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2023
323 posts
Posted on 10/2/23 at 7:34 pm to
How can you help it?! Wage is up 10%, everything else up 150%
Posted by geauxbrown
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2006
24828 posts
Posted on 10/2/23 at 7:44 pm to
CC debt is the worst
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
135290 posts
Posted on 10/2/23 at 7:52 pm to
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Wage is up 10%,


You must work for the govt.
Posted by GatorPA84
PNW
Member since Sep 2016
5755 posts
Posted on 10/2/23 at 9:06 pm to
Hell yeah, scared money don’t make money!!!!

Baby Billy’s bible bonkers!!!
Posted by tigerbacon
Arkansas
Member since Aug 2010
4449 posts
Posted on 10/2/23 at 9:22 pm to
I’m always amazed at how people afford things and then my wife points out the obvious. We each max out our 401ks, put 500 a month in long term savings, put another 1k a month in short term savings. I call it short term but in reality it’s 10k for any emergencies and then 1k a month to save for vocations, buying new car in cash, etc..
Also we have 200k equity in our home with another 100k to pay on our mortgage. We are 36.
So if we didn’t care about savings, 401ks and all that I guess we would have thousands to just waste.
Posted by VOLhalla
Knoxville
Member since Feb 2011
4951 posts
Posted on 10/2/23 at 9:24 pm to
ETA: misread previous post
This post was edited on 10/2/23 at 9:27 pm
Posted by DVinBR
Member since Jan 2013
15206 posts
Posted on 10/2/23 at 9:31 pm to
as someone with $0 of credit card debt i can't fathom how irresponsible people are to rack up $1 trillion total
Posted by DVinBR
Member since Jan 2013
15206 posts
Posted on 10/2/23 at 9:34 pm to
Posted by HailToTheChiz
Back in Auburn
Member since Aug 2010
53410 posts
Posted on 10/2/23 at 9:36 pm to
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then 1k a month to save for vocations


I assume this was a typo for vacations.

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