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re: Am I being unreasonable in this situation? ETA: there's a catch in the OP
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:46 pm to jose canseco
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:46 pm to jose canseco
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So you are making your girl break plans with her friends after they bought concert tix bc you want to hang out with her on Valentines Day???
Wtf dude? Let her go to concert. Enjoy getting out of a bullshite holiday and instead, blow it up with your friends while you have the opportunity. Since you are moving in together, you won't be having that opportunity much longer.
i think you read it wrong.
The friends are going to the concert. He and his g/f are now going to Mardi Gras. They wont be home but the friends are still coming. They want to house sit
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:47 pm to TigerHam85
I would let them do it, no problem, as long as she thinks they aren't completely reckless.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:48 pm to Lester Earl
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The friends are going to the concert. He and his g/f are now going to Mardi Gras. They wont be home but the friends are still coming. They want to house sit
Ohh. I read it as she had a tic to go along with her friends and he told her he wants to spend vDay with her and she backed out.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:48 pm to Lester Earl
You are right, but in life you can be right or you can be kind. Kind works much better!!!!!!
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:49 pm to TigerHam85
This is a borderline situation, but I say let them. It's not because of them, but it's a good way to test your girlfriend's judgement. I'd just go with it for now, but don't let her get away with it if it somehow fricks up.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:51 pm to TigerHam85
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Am I being unreasonable?
Unreasonable? No. I would still get a feel for the girls before I made a final call. If you don't trust your girlfriend's friends to not rob or destroy your place over the course of a couple of days, your girlfriend may think it reflects poorly on your opinion of her. Get to know the friends and make the call. If they smoke, use an abundance of slang, have anything more than a tiny token tattoo or piercings anywhere other than their ears, or otherwise seem like skanks, put your foot down.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:52 pm to TigerHam85
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Am I being unreasonable?
No.
Will it cause problems? You betcha.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:54 pm to TigerHam85
I assume y'all are splitting rent, if so its not 100% your call.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:55 pm to TigerHam85
I think you're being reasonable, but this might be one of those pick your battles moments.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:56 pm to TigerHam85
Would your GF be ok if a few of your buds wanted to crash at y'all's place when y'all weren't home ?
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:56 pm to TigerHam85
Yes... I would not let two homosexuals stay in my house. They gone frick in your bed and when you get back, you risk getting the aids.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:57 pm to TigerHam85
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Catch: would your decision in this thread change if you discovered the two friends are flaming homosexual boyfriends?
I'm not letting two dudes bang on my kitchen counter!
Have you seen Wolf of Wall Street? Yeah frick that.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:57 pm to TigerHam85
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Am I being unreasonable?
Nope
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:58 pm to HoustonChick86
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Posted by HoustonChick86 I assume y'all are splitting rent, if so its not 100% your call.
The frick you say?
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:58 pm to TigerHam85
Yeah scratch what I said
I wouldn't let gays stay at my place unsupervised
I wouldn't let gays stay at my place unsupervised
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:59 pm to TigerHam85
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would your decision in this thread change if you discovered the two friends are flaming homosexual boyfriends?
does your gf really hang out with dudes like that?
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:59 pm to TigerHam85
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Catch: would your decision in this thread change if you discovered the two friends are flaming homosexual boyfriends?
That doesn't change my answer
But I bet a bunch of people will start saying not to let them now.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 7:00 pm to TigerHam85
No the catch does not change a thing in my mind. And if it does in yours, then you're at least slightly homophobic.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 7:02 pm to TigerHam85
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Catch: would your decision in this thread change if you discovered the two friends are flaming homosexual boyfriends?
They are going to have fabulous decorating tips. Let them stay.
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