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re: Am I being unreasonable in this situation? ETA: there's a catch in the OP
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:57 pm to TigerHam85
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:57 pm to TigerHam85
They are going to have a threesome in your bed with some rando.
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Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:58 pm to TigerHam85
Usually I'm pretty uptight about things, and I'm certainly not a spontaneous, fly by the seat of my pants kinda person..but I don't see what the big deal is?
These aren't strangers, they're close friends with your SO that she's known for years. And it's not like they're staying there for weeks while they're trying to find a new place..it's just for a weekend while yall are gone. Might not be a bad idea to have a presence there anyway so it doesn't look like yall are gone.
I mean I certainly understand where you're coming from, absolutely. I guess I just don't see what the huge deal would be with allowing it.
These aren't strangers, they're close friends with your SO that she's known for years. And it's not like they're staying there for weeks while they're trying to find a new place..it's just for a weekend while yall are gone. Might not be a bad idea to have a presence there anyway so it doesn't look like yall are gone.
I mean I certainly understand where you're coming from, absolutely. I guess I just don't see what the huge deal would be with allowing it.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:07 pm to WG_Dawg
It's a huge deal cause he wants to be mr macho and enforce his reign in relationship, really going out of way to be a dick
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:12 pm to TigerHam85
I agree with you, but then again I'm weird about people being in my house when I'm not there.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:18 pm to TigerHam85
If you don't trust your girlfriends judgment on who should or shouldn't stay at your house, I'm thinking you should reconsider living with said girlfriend at all.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:19 pm to AbitaFan08
but the pussy tho
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:20 pm to TigerHam85
misread the op originally.
Yes. They should be able to stay while you are gone. You are not your GF's mother.
THIS^^^^
Quit being a control freak... or be one without shared space.
It's not like she's hiding things from you.
Yes. They should be able to stay while you are gone. You are not your GF's mother.
quote:
If you don't trust your girlfriends judgment on who should or shouldn't stay at your house, I'm thinking you should reconsider living with said girlfriend at all.
THIS^^^^
Quit being a control freak... or be one without shared space.
It's not like she's hiding things from you.
This post was edited on 11/12/14 at 6:22 pm
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:23 pm to TigerHam85
You are not being unreasonable, but it sounds like you are in a committed relationship with your girl. If you have the opportunity to meet these girls, do it. If not, take your girl's word that nothing happens to your place.
I think if you say no, you will be in a long fight with your girlfriend. Bitches don't let shite go easily.
I think if you say no, you will be in a long fight with your girlfriend. Bitches don't let shite go easily.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:23 pm to TigerHam85
Would you feel better about it if you could meet her friends before the weekend of the concert?
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:23 pm to TigerHam85
Nope...not unreasonable at all.
Save yourself and the girlfriend the possibility of even having an issue with those friends if something comes up broken, lost, etc.
If they can fork out the plane or gas to go to new city, pay for tickets, they can afford a $40/night hotel for the weekend.
Save yourself and the girlfriend the possibility of even having an issue with those friends if something comes up broken, lost, etc.
If they can fork out the plane or gas to go to new city, pay for tickets, they can afford a $40/night hotel for the weekend.
This post was edited on 11/12/14 at 6:25 pm
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:27 pm to TigerHam85
Something that everyone overlooks is that he has been dating his SO for long enough that they agree to move in together , in a different state, but he hasn't met these two best friends for years.
Troll, 9/10
Troll, 9/10
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:39 pm to TigerHam85
So you are making your girl break plans with her friends after they bought concert tix bc you want to hang out with her on Valentines Day???
Wtf dude? Let her go to concert. Enjoy getting out of a bullshite holiday and instead, blow it up with your friends while you have the opportunity. Since you are moving in together, you won't be having that opportunity much longer.
Wtf dude? Let her go to concert. Enjoy getting out of a bullshite holiday and instead, blow it up with your friends while you have the opportunity. Since you are moving in together, you won't be having that opportunity much longer.
This post was edited on 11/12/14 at 6:40 pm
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:40 pm to TigerHam85
quote:
Am I being unreasonable?
Yes.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:42 pm to TigerHam85
I'm going to be in Htown all week of Mardi Gras. If you're in hit me up
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:43 pm to TigerHam85
quote:
So my girlfriend and I are moving in together next month
ETA: You're not necessarily being unreasonable, but I wouldn't say no, personally. And I don't imagine my SO would say no if I asked that of him. Only reason he'd have to say no is if these were friends he didn't know well and he thought they'd be a danger to the animals (the cat escapes the house easily, and those who aren't familiar with it won't even notice).
Personally, I'd let them stay.
This post was edited on 11/12/14 at 6:47 pm
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:44 pm to TigerHam85
Assuming that they're adults and act their age I dont see why you give a frick?
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:44 pm to TigerHam85
quote:
Am I being unreasonable?
No you're not. However, if they're long time friends of hers I don't see why not. And if she pays rent, it really isn't all your decision now is it.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:44 pm to TigerHam85
No. It would be unreasonable of her friends to think it's reasonable for them to stay in her/your home when y'all aren't there.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:45 pm to TigerHam85
quote:
I tell the girlfriend... would like her to be with me.
Uhhhhh... why did you do this?
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:46 pm to AbitaFan08
quote:
If you don't trust your girlfriends judgment on who should or shouldn't stay at your house, I'm thinking you should reconsider living with said girlfriend at all.
this.
If she is marrying type, you will just have to trust her on this.
Its ok to be nervous.
I doubt they touch your pile of penthouse mags. I will say from experience, lock up any prescription drugs. Those have a way of disappearing.
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