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re: About 5 months in, still unsure about relationship
Posted on 10/23/19 at 3:26 pm to Funky Tide 8
Posted on 10/23/19 at 3:26 pm to Funky Tide 8
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Her reaction isn't negative, at least outwardly. She doesn't mind working through issues like that with me. She just wants me to be happy.
It's easier said than done, but you really, really can't value her mindset enough.
What is it that you are afraid of missing?
Posted on 10/23/19 at 3:28 pm to Mr. Hangover
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Your feelings and actions are completely normal. Ignore those guys
I really feel like you ‘want’ to end this, but the ‘what ifs’ are holding you back.. I’m telling you man, this more than likely isn’t going to work out. Wish you the best though, because it’s tough
Thanks bro. We'll see. I'm going to think about what has been said in this thread. I'll report back at some point.
Posted on 10/23/19 at 3:33 pm to HempHead
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What is it that you are afraid of missing?
I guess someone who I am wildly in love with.
But I know that life and love isn't always like that, and sometimes great relationships don't even require that aspect.
Posted on 10/23/19 at 3:35 pm to Funky Tide 8
Honestly, if you were wildly in love with her, the little stuff you’ve mentioned in this thread wouldn’t matter.. it’s cliche as frick, but true. You’d look past all that
Posted on 10/23/19 at 3:45 pm to Funky Tide 8
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This post was edited on 10/24/19 at 8:38 am
Posted on 10/23/19 at 3:46 pm to Funky Tide 8
Yeah, you’re clearly not remotely in love with this woman. If you’re afraid of missing out on love with someone else, then quit stalling, dump her, and try and win the affections of the girl you actually want!
Posted on 10/23/19 at 3:58 pm to Funky Tide 8
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This post was edited on 3/1/21 at 1:55 pm
Posted on 10/23/19 at 4:03 pm to geauxtigersgirl
Say guh, what do you deserve? 
Posted on 10/23/19 at 4:10 pm to geauxtigersgirl
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She deserves better and you deserve worse.
Why do I deserve worse? Because I'm not totally sure about a relationship that hasn't even reached half a year? You sound like a reasonable person.
Posted on 10/23/19 at 4:12 pm to Funky Tide 8
RIP to your relationship.
You calling it off tonight?
Are you ok with knowing another guy will be railing your girl by the weekend?
You calling it off tonight?
Are you ok with knowing another guy will be railing your girl by the weekend?
Posted on 10/23/19 at 4:13 pm to Funky Tide 8
Give it more time, then decide. But know that you'll be hard pressed to find all those qualities in another girl after her.
quote:you may not be capable of that, plus it comes with huge risks, such as when she dumps you and you turn into a quivering self pitying glob of Jell-O.
I guess someone who I am wildly in love with.
This post was edited on 10/23/19 at 4:17 pm
Posted on 10/23/19 at 4:14 pm to geauxtigersgirl
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She deserves better and you deserve worse.
Posted on 10/23/19 at 4:15 pm to Funky Tide 8
You don’t miss what you have until it’s gone. I know from experience.
Posted on 10/23/19 at 4:15 pm to geauxtigersgirl
Yea, that opinion is not jaded or anything 
Posted on 10/23/19 at 4:20 pm to kingbob
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I find that most of the time, when people do this, they know how they feel, but feel guilty about it for whatever reason. Maybe, they feel their emotions are selfish, that they’re not the logical choice, or that decision could hurt someone else. They seek the advice of others in hopes that those people will convince them that the choice they already want to make isn’t so bad.
Exactly. He already knows what he wants to do. Coming here is seeking validation for a choice he's already made.
Posted on 10/23/19 at 4:21 pm to Funky Tide 8
You are fricking 10 ply, bud.
A real fricking piece of shite
She should drop you like a sack of shite
All I read, before I had to stop reading, was that you got an amazing chick but you are a piece of shite so you make yourself miserable
A real fricking piece of shite
She should drop you like a sack of shite
All I read, before I had to stop reading, was that you got an amazing chick but you are a piece of shite so you make yourself miserable
Posted on 10/23/19 at 4:22 pm to Funky Tide 8
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Why do I deserve worse? Because I'm not totally sure about a relationship that hasn't even reached half a year? You sound like a reasonable person.
I take back what I said about those qualities being easy to find in women
Posted on 10/23/19 at 4:22 pm to Saint Alfonzo
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Exactly. He already knows what he wants to do. Coming here is seeking validation for a choice he's already made.
Honestly, I get the impression he doesn’t want to do it
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