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re: About 5 months in, still unsure about relationship

Posted on 10/23/19 at 3:26 pm to
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
56772 posts
Posted on 10/23/19 at 3:26 pm to
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Her reaction isn't negative, at least outwardly. She doesn't mind working through issues like that with me. She just wants me to be happy.



It's easier said than done, but you really, really can't value her mindset enough.

What is it that you are afraid of missing?
Posted by Funky Tide 8
Bayou Chico
Member since Feb 2009
57343 posts
Posted on 10/23/19 at 3:28 pm to
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Your feelings and actions are completely normal. Ignore those guys

I really feel like you ‘want’ to end this, but the ‘what ifs’ are holding you back.. I’m telling you man, this more than likely isn’t going to work out. Wish you the best though, because it’s tough


Thanks bro. We'll see. I'm going to think about what has been said in this thread. I'll report back at some point.
Posted by Mr. Hangover
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2003
34932 posts
Posted on 10/23/19 at 3:33 pm to
@ me bro
Posted by Funky Tide 8
Bayou Chico
Member since Feb 2009
57343 posts
Posted on 10/23/19 at 3:33 pm to
quote:

What is it that you are afraid of missing?



I guess someone who I am wildly in love with.


But I know that life and love isn't always like that, and sometimes great relationships don't even require that aspect.
Posted by Mr. Hangover
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2003
34932 posts
Posted on 10/23/19 at 3:35 pm to
Honestly, if you were wildly in love with her, the little stuff you’ve mentioned in this thread wouldn’t matter.. it’s cliche as frick, but true. You’d look past all that
Posted by Drew Brews
SG·LA
Member since Feb 2018
1958 posts
Posted on 10/23/19 at 3:45 pm to
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This post was edited on 10/24/19 at 8:38 am
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
71197 posts
Posted on 10/23/19 at 3:46 pm to
Yeah, you’re clearly not remotely in love with this woman. If you’re afraid of missing out on love with someone else, then quit stalling, dump her, and try and win the affections of the girl you actually want!
Posted by geauxtigersgirl
Member since Aug 2016
1314 posts
Posted on 10/23/19 at 3:58 pm to
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This post was edited on 3/1/21 at 1:55 pm
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
71197 posts
Posted on 10/23/19 at 4:03 pm to
Say guh, what do you deserve?
Posted by Funky Tide 8
Bayou Chico
Member since Feb 2009
57343 posts
Posted on 10/23/19 at 4:10 pm to
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She deserves better and you deserve worse.


Why do I deserve worse? Because I'm not totally sure about a relationship that hasn't even reached half a year? You sound like a reasonable person.
Posted by GeorgeTheGreek
Sparta, Greece
Member since Mar 2008
69563 posts
Posted on 10/23/19 at 4:12 pm to
RIP to your relationship.

You calling it off tonight?

Are you ok with knowing another guy will be railing your girl by the weekend?
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
80825 posts
Posted on 10/23/19 at 4:13 pm to
Give it more time, then decide. But know that you'll be hard pressed to find all those qualities in another girl after her.
quote:

I guess someone who I am wildly in love with.

you may not be capable of that, plus it comes with huge risks, such as when she dumps you and you turn into a quivering self pitying glob of Jell-O.
This post was edited on 10/23/19 at 4:17 pm
Posted by TigersSEC2010
Warren, Michigan
Member since Jan 2010
38535 posts
Posted on 10/23/19 at 4:14 pm to
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She deserves better and you deserve worse.


Posted by tylerlsu2008
Monaco
Member since Jul 2015
1533 posts
Posted on 10/23/19 at 4:15 pm to
You don’t miss what you have until it’s gone. I know from experience.
Posted by Mr. Hangover
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2003
34932 posts
Posted on 10/23/19 at 4:15 pm to
Yea, that opinion is not jaded or anything
Posted by VABuckeye
NOVA
Member since Dec 2007
38283 posts
Posted on 10/23/19 at 4:16 pm to
She swallow?
Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
30972 posts
Posted on 10/23/19 at 4:20 pm to
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I find that most of the time, when people do this, they know how they feel, but feel guilty about it for whatever reason. Maybe, they feel their emotions are selfish, that they’re not the logical choice, or that decision could hurt someone else. They seek the advice of others in hopes that those people will convince them that the choice they already want to make isn’t so bad.


Exactly. He already knows what he wants to do. Coming here is seeking validation for a choice he's already made.
Posted by StTiger
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2008
3217 posts
Posted on 10/23/19 at 4:21 pm to
You are fricking 10 ply, bud.

A real fricking piece of shite

She should drop you like a sack of shite

All I read, before I had to stop reading, was that you got an amazing chick but you are a piece of shite so you make yourself miserable
Posted by Evil Little Thing
Member since Jul 2013
11638 posts
Posted on 10/23/19 at 4:22 pm to
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Why do I deserve worse? Because I'm not totally sure about a relationship that hasn't even reached half a year? You sound like a reasonable person.


I take back what I said about those qualities being easy to find in women
Posted by Mr. Hangover
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2003
34932 posts
Posted on 10/23/19 at 4:22 pm to
quote:

Exactly. He already knows what he wants to do. Coming here is seeking validation for a choice he's already made.


Honestly, I get the impression he doesn’t want to do it
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