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Posted on 10/23/19 at 2:29 pm to HempHead
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If you are aware of a problem, it is your responsibility to do what you can to fix it.
no it is not
Posted on 10/23/19 at 2:31 pm to Funky Tide 8
You sound like a selfish douche who has a great girl, but want your "freedom". Do her a favor and end it.
You are either afraid of commitment or gay. You decide.
You are either afraid of commitment or gay. You decide.
Posted on 10/23/19 at 2:31 pm to rocket31
Well, enjoy your hedonism, brother. I'll do my best to mitigate such things. 
Posted on 10/23/19 at 2:32 pm to HempHead
youre a better man than me
Posted on 10/23/19 at 2:34 pm to rocket31
I don't know about that, but I can't just quit and ride out life with no worries about the future beyond my mortality. Nihilism is boring and pointless 
I wish I had advice to give to the OP, but all the good stuff has been said. Good luck with your decision, however it may go.
I wish I had advice to give to the OP, but all the good stuff has been said. Good luck with your decision, however it may go.
Posted on 10/23/19 at 2:37 pm to HempHead
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Nihilism is boring and pointless
not really boring, but ya life is pointless
Posted on 10/23/19 at 2:40 pm to rocket31
If that's your mindset, then your advice is completely rational. If life has no meaning, then engage in mindless hedonism.
Posted on 10/23/19 at 2:49 pm to HempHead
I still want to believe life has meaning, but at the moment, I cannot help but feel that my life has no meaning.
Posted on 10/23/19 at 2:50 pm to HempHead
i guess i should clarify, the only meaning of life is what YOU ascribe to it
in terms of having a family or a more stable society, i just do not see much motivation behind taking responsibility for something that we do not have authority over
in terms of having a family or a more stable society, i just do not see much motivation behind taking responsibility for something that we do not have authority over
Posted on 10/23/19 at 2:52 pm to Funky Tide 8
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but I wish she would be into going on runs with me, and was more interested in being physically fit, but
If this is really one of your main gripes?
She needs to go on a run. As fast and far away from your arse as possible.
Posted on 10/23/19 at 2:53 pm to rocket31
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i just do not see much motivation behind taking responsibility for something that we do not have authority over
I seek the means to have authority, I guess. I don't have any misconceptions about being able to exert it at large, but I do think I can make things happen within a more localized context.
Posted on 10/23/19 at 3:05 pm to HempHead
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but I do think I can make things happen within a more localized context.
sure. but that requires entertaining an adult for the rest of your life and if you fail, she can take your house, dog, kids. etc.
i wish you luck, but im just checking out of that fantasy. especially in a society where women no longer need men for economic security or emotional support
for men, well at least for me, happiness comes from the absence of dependency and the freedom from
Posted on 10/23/19 at 3:19 pm to kywildcatfanone
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You seem like a giant pussy who can't make a decision. Do her a favor and dump her so she can find a real man who will appreciate her.quote:
ShakeandBake
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You sound like a selfish douche who has a great girl, but want your "freedom". Do her a favor and end it.
You are either afraid of commitment or gay. You decide.
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kywildcatfanone
I suppose you pricks are perfect, well-adjusted angels, and have always been sure of every single thing in your lives, and have never had internal struggles with relationships. Congrats. Some of us are humans and don't have it all figured out.
I've admitted several times in this thread that I have commitment issues, and that I am a bit indecisive. I treat her very well. Its only been 5 months. I've been very honest with her from the get go. She isn't ignorant to my feelings on this.
Posted on 10/23/19 at 3:21 pm to Funky Tide 8
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She isn't ignorant to my feelings on this.
What has her response been?
Posted on 10/23/19 at 3:23 pm to Frankenstein Vol
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but I wish she would be into going on runs with me, and was more interested in being physically fit, but
If this is really one of your main gripes?
She needs to go on a run. As fast and far away from your arse as possible
No, did you read somewhere in my post that it was one of my main gripes?
I am an active person, and running, and exercising is an important part of my life. I think it'd be cool if that could turn into something we could enjoy together. You conveniently left off the part of that statement where I said that I understood that not everyone love running and exercising, and that she'd probably be open to going on runs with me. I've never pressured her to do anything like that, and I never will. Some of you are quite self-righteous, huh?
Posted on 10/23/19 at 3:24 pm to Funky Tide 8
Your feelings and actions are completely normal. Ignore those guys
I really feel like you ‘want’ to end this, but the ‘what ifs’ are holding you back.. I’m telling you man, this more than likely isn’t going to work out. Wish you the best though, because it’s tough
I really feel like you ‘want’ to end this, but the ‘what ifs’ are holding you back.. I’m telling you man, this more than likely isn’t going to work out. Wish you the best though, because it’s tough
This post was edited on 10/23/19 at 3:25 pm
Posted on 10/23/19 at 3:24 pm to HempHead
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She isn't ignorant to my feelings on this.
What has her response been?
She's understanding. Her reaction isn't negative, at least outwardly. She doesn't mind working through issues like that with me. She just wants me to be happy.
Posted on 10/23/19 at 3:25 pm to Funky Tide 8
I found a woman who loves me, puts up with me, likes the same things I do, and basically lets me call the shots.
I put a ring on it. She isnt an OT 8+, but neither am I, and finding someone who loves you and isn't completely self absorbed in today's society is gold.
It doesn't seem like you're mature enough for a real relationship if you're "missing being single" with that in front of you. This isn't meant as a knock- just my perception. I was the same way until very recently.
I put a ring on it. She isnt an OT 8+, but neither am I, and finding someone who loves you and isn't completely self absorbed in today's society is gold.
It doesn't seem like you're mature enough for a real relationship if you're "missing being single" with that in front of you. This isn't meant as a knock- just my perception. I was the same way until very recently.
This post was edited on 10/23/19 at 3:26 pm
Posted on 10/23/19 at 3:26 pm to rocket31
Rocket, I’m just curious, how old are you and what’s your marital history if you don’t mind me asking
Not trying to flame or anything, genuinely curious
Not trying to flame or anything, genuinely curious
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