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re: A day I've long feared has arrived - Updated OP coming clean with the full story
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:14 pm to OldmanBeasley
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:14 pm to OldmanBeasley
quote:im fatigued in chaos
Hoping you’re resting in peace.
With back spasms
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Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:15 pm to Wildcat98USA
The mistake you made was not putting kids 4-7 up for adoption
3 is enough
Now you gonna be like that old tv show 8 is enough
3 is enough
Now you gonna be like that old tv show 8 is enough
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:15 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
Talk to the mother and ask if she knows why he is contacting you and/or what questions he wants to ask.
Maybe he has some family health history questions.
Maybe he has some family health history questions.
This post was edited on 10/18/24 at 8:20 pm
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:16 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
quote:
I'm not doing a DNA test, though
At this point, if this isn't a troll, I hope he takes your arse to court and forces you to do one.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:16 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
quote:
olgoi khorkhoi
Be a man,don't be a dick.
Kid could be in a bad spot and just needs some enlightening. Might give you a chance to make up for all that time whether you wanted it or not.
Even if it isn't your kid, don't be a dick.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:16 pm to Hangit
Don't worry about him looking like you. You all look alike.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:17 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
quote:
What can I tell him? "Yes I banged your mom 30 years ago" Ok, then what? He asks for a paternity test? He flies down for thanksgiving and I introduce him to my wife and 4 year old? Naw, I'm good. Some mysteries are better left unsolved.
I agree with you. My siblings and I found out after my dad passed away, from some old letters, that he was in a similar situation. Some girl he slept with as a teenager moved away and was pregnant, never said a word to my dad, raised the kid with him never knowing a thing. He contacted my dad around the time we were middle school age. My dad corresponded with, met him, discussion about doing anything within reason to assist, talk of helping him get interviews, etc - but took that shite to the grave with him and I think it was the right call. Our half brother reached out to my brother after the funeral and we just ghosted him. Zero interest in having weird thanksgiving with a full grown man stranger.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:17 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
Man up and talk to him. A quick test will determine if he is yours.
If he is yours, at the very least you owe him the family medical history.
Be a man.
If he is yours, at the very least you owe him the family medical history.
Be a man.
This post was edited on 10/18/24 at 9:10 pm
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:17 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
I can’t fathom possibly having a biological child out there and not wanting to know him. I get that this is what sperm/egg donors do, but this isn’t the same.
This kind of thing is how you end up an alcoholic when you realize you’re a piece of shite (the mom, too, if she passed him off as her husband’s without telling).
This kind of thing is how you end up an alcoholic when you realize you’re a piece of shite (the mom, too, if she passed him off as her husband’s without telling).
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:17 pm to SEClint
quote:
im fatigued in chaos With back spasms
Hey, at least it’s the weekend.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:17 pm to pussywillows
quote:
perhaps this is the point in your life where you finally figure out that everything isn't always about you...
It's not all about him or me. I have a wife and kids to worry about. He has a father that raised him. That's more than I got. If he was mine (I lean towards that not being the case) that would likely damage his relationship with his father. It would upset my children's lives as well. Things are better for both parties the way they are now.
The OT is wrong, as usual.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:17 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
quote:
really don't have a desire to find out I have an 8th man-child from a past life.
You're a piece of shite. A big steaming piece of shite.
That's all I have to say on that.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:18 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
If only there were birth control options to keep this kind of thing from happening.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:20 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
quote:
It's not all about him or me. I have a wife and kids to worry about. He has a father that raised him. That's more than I got. If he was mine (I lean towards that not being the case) that would likely damage his relationship with his father. It would upset my children's lives as well. Things are better for both parties the way they are now.
You make some decent points.
Still, I'd a least hear the grown man out.
If you're 100% sure he's not yours then I don't see the harm
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:20 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
Probably trying to figure out where his tiny penis came from
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:20 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
Careful. He may post here.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:24 pm to fr33manator
quote:
You make some decent points.
No, no he doesn't. He's saying frick that dude, not even entertaining other options. He doesn't have to say anything to his wife unless it's actually confirmed to be his kid.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:24 pm to tiger91
quote:
Careful. He may post here.
His son is actually Oweo.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:24 pm to MemphisGuy
quote:
You're a piece of shite. A big steaming piece of shite.
Sometimes protecting the people you love means doing something shitty.
Again, if I knew the kid was mine, I'd try to have a relationship. Hell, if I was single or married without kids I'd take a pat test. With 6 kids living at home and the best wife I could ask for, I'm going to pass on a DNA test.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:24 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
U Sound like a real POS! All the dude wants to do is talk and u can’t even do that.
Sounds like someone didn’t teach u in life how to be a man and man up.
Sounds like someone didn’t teach u in life how to be a man and man up.
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