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re: A day I've long feared has arrived - Updated OP coming clean with the full story
Posted on 10/18/24 at 7:56 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
Posted on 10/18/24 at 7:56 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
Man up and talk to the dude. It can't be that bad .
This post was edited on 10/18/24 at 8:06 pm
Posted on 10/18/24 at 7:56 pm to Byrdybyrd05
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You came to the right place
That's what started all his trouble.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 7:56 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
If this 30 something year old man is reaching out to you he obviously has questions. Dude man up and answer whatever he ask you.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 7:56 pm to LegendInMyMind
Obviously his mom told him the truth and it probably shattered her marriage. At least get some details and bring them back to share.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 7:56 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
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I've got 7 kids now and really don't have a desire to find out I have an 8th man-child from a past life.
I was with you until this. This makes you a piece of shite.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 7:56 pm to blueboy
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23 and Me strikes again.
At least he didn't find out he is a serial killer.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 7:56 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
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Someone contacted me online a few days ago saying he wants to ask me some questions. I didn't know who it was, so I checked his profile and it's him. I've got 7 kids now and really don't have a desire to find out I have an 8th man-child from a past life. Seems like no one benefits from the revelation that his father wasn't his father if that turned out to be the case
If you've got 7, what's 8?
Give the kid some closure you might do him some good
Posted on 10/18/24 at 7:57 pm to IAmNERD
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How old would the spawn be by now?
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in the early mid 90s

Posted on 10/18/24 at 7:58 pm to OWLFAN86
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hey take responsibility for where you stuck your dick
This is why the left has such a problem with not being able to abort kids. It complicates their life
Posted on 10/18/24 at 7:58 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
This sounds like a low budget hallmark movie for Christmas. I’d watch it after a few bourbons and some Christmas snacks
Posted on 10/18/24 at 7:58 pm to SEClint
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SEClint
Back from the dead
Posted on 10/18/24 at 7:58 pm to fr33manator
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Give the kid some closure you might do him some good
I pray that if my son is ever ill his birth parents won’t be so selfish as to not respond and provide medical background info.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 7:58 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
You cant even pull out of the driveway
Posted on 10/18/24 at 7:59 pm to fr33manator
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Give the kid some closure you might do him some good
I just don't see any downside to this, unless OP's wife would lose her mind, and even then, I think there is, at minimum, a moral obligation to find out whether or not you have another child.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:00 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
I was contacted on Ancestry by an adopted cousin...my Uncle on my mother's side.
I was able to get her in to contact with her birth mom a few years ago and just recently she and her husband went on trip with her birth mother. Her adoptive parents are wonderful people.
Come on...take a chance.
I also found out I have an older brother my Father never knew about.
Imagine finding out at 55 years old your biological Dad was GARY PLAUCHE! He probably liked a meme not knowing.
I was able to get her in to contact with her birth mom a few years ago and just recently she and her husband went on trip with her birth mother. Her adoptive parents are wonderful people.
Come on...take a chance.
I also found out I have an older brother my Father never knew about.
Imagine finding out at 55 years old your biological Dad was GARY PLAUCHE! He probably liked a meme not knowing.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:01 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
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WWTOTD?
Ask for pics, somehow work in 350 and TWSS, then make fun of you with hilarious gifs and memes.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:01 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
Why avoid this? If you have any chance of this person being yours wouldn’t you want to know? More importantly why wouldn’t they?
I doubt after 30 years he is coming to roast marshmallows and sing kumbaya but he deserves to know his dad. If you are his dad why try to avoid it? If you aren’t prove it to this person curious about it. Help them don’t skip out on it.
I doubt after 30 years he is coming to roast marshmallows and sing kumbaya but he deserves to know his dad. If you are his dad why try to avoid it? If you aren’t prove it to this person curious about it. Help them don’t skip out on it.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:01 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
quote:Seems like he already knows that the guy who raised him isn’t his biological father. Why else would he have reached out to you in the first place?
He was raised by someone else and they had a father/son relationship. Why upset that?
Have you ever done one of those Ancestry / 23 And Me genetic tests before? I know someone who found out he had a kid he never knew about after they had both done those tests.
Otherwise, his mom probably came clean and told the kid that you were spraying them guts 9 months before he was born.
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